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You need to be at least moderately in shape and attractive in order to get the types of girls you want, unless you have lots of money or an extremely attractive lifestyle. That's all there is to it.
Most guys have very average lifestyles and bank accounts, so if they aren't physically attractive then they won't be with many hot women. Look up top at the "featured" puas on this forum. All four of them are good looking guy with above average looks. Even short awkward looking puas like Style and Tyler Durden have some desireable physical qualities. Once you add in fame, money, swagger, etc., then it becomes very easy for guys like these to become epic pick up artists.
Agreed, it's never a good thing to let yourself go to the point where you are disturbing looking and smelly, I'm very big on self-improvement....I have worked on myself a lot and to be honest I do think one should work out and eat right. I do think you should take care of yourself but again looks are only part of the battle.
I wouldn't say these puas are above average looking, I'd say that that Gambler is the only one.... The other 3 are average looking guys. Lyons looks like every other Utah kid out here, I can promise you that. Sinn is not an exceptionally good looking guy he is a heavy set guy, I know tons of guys that look like him. Carlos also looks like just another guy. You want to know what these guys radiate? Confidence and style/individuality which makes you appear more attractive. When you go out you should exude both a good natural style that fits you and roll around with self-confidence.
I know rich guys and upper middle class guys who have a very hard time getting laid. I know guys with great lifestyles that don't get laid very often. They are an attractive quality and they certainly get you attention and make you appear far more attractive but being attractive doesn't always get you laid.
There is something a lot of guys don't realize on here. Becoming attractive to her is only part of the battle, I have some very attractive male friends who don't get laid even though they are "hot" guys. The initial attention is all looks do, after that you still need the tools and tactics to get laid. If you know how to be an attractive person and you are an average looking guy you can do a lot better than a good looking guy if you have game. I'm saying this based on my experience and observations, overall yes being good looking is nice but always realize with some skill you can learn to just be that attractive guy and without game you'll have a tough time getting laid.
I have met some guys where I was like sheez how did this guy land this girl, the girl super fly and sexy, but the guy was heavy set and honestly when you look at them she was far more attractive to him physically. When I talked to him I realized he is just a cool cat with good character. I realized because of guys like this and many others that how attractive a man is is not always related to how good looking he is. That doesn't mean you should be a slob, of course you should take care of yourself (dressing right alone can make you appear more attractive) but getting her attention is part of the battle not the whole battle.
I am a fat guy and while some members of this forum may think I'm ugly most women think I'm a "cutie" or good looking guy, I get plenty of action and even more attention as being attractive. Of course I have presence and I tend to exude a lot of confidence, both are very attractive features and tend get me attention. That said I've always had presence and been a decent looking guy, even have been the popular guy throwing 300 person parties every other week, that didn't get me laid regularly gaining actual game got me laid.
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