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PostPosted: Mon Oct 22, 2012 12:47 am 
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This is a forum of mostly anonymous people who share ideas for pick-up. Most of us don't know each other. This is not your hood filled with 17 year old pimple faced assholes you've been trying to impress. Writing in this forum that:

1. You are alpha.
2. You slept with XXX women.
3. You are this and you are that. You did this and you did that last night to somebody's mother.
4. You are a pick up guru, teaching your boys how to pick up.
5. Etc, etc. . .

^You are telling other members of the forum that you are socially inept. You do not understand that this is an anonymous forum. Nobody gives a shit. You are telling us that you are a retard. If you missed the opportunity to ride your bike with no hands and yell at to your proud mama, "Look at me! Look at me! No hands!" then that time has gone. To come here and virtual scream the above 1 though 5 to people who don't give a rat's ass is to tell us that you are you really, really, really need attention but due to the very habit that you are expressing above, you are a miserable loner.

There's a 40 year old lying asshole who joined this forum few months ago and all he did in 50 pages of absolute nonsense was repeat 1 though 5 over, over, and over again. Yes, I picked on him for being a retard. Those of you who have a habit for this already know the consequences in your real life. People do not like you. They treat you as if you're a retard. But you shout in your mirror that you're alpha, that you're the man, that you do this, you do that. . . but reality doesn't change.

If you act like a retard, you will be treated like one. If you act like a decent fellow, you will be treated like one. If you act like a gentleman, you will be treated like one. THINKING this way or that. . . well, how do you suppose people will know what the hell you're thinking?

Any habit, good or bad, can change this very moment. But first. . . you'll have to accept some realities. . .
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This is a forum of mostly anonymous people who share ideas for pick-up. Most of us don't know each other. This is not your hood filled with 17 year old pimple faced assholes you've been trying to impress. Writing in this forum that:

1. You are alpha.
2. You slept with XXX women.
3. You are this and you are that. You did this and you did that last night to somebody's mother.
4. You are a pick up guru, teaching your boys how to pick up.
5. Etc, etc. . .

^You are telling other members of the forum that you are socially inept. You do not understand that this is an anonymous forum. Nobody gives a shit. You are telling us that you are a retard. If you missed the opportunity to ride your bike with no hands and yell at to your proud mama, "Look at me! Look at me! No hands!" then that time has gone. To come here and virtual scream the above 1 though 5 to people who don't give a rat's ass is to tell us that you are you really, really, really need attention but due to the very habit that you are expressing above, you are a miserable loner.

There's a 40 year old lying asshole, named sexaddict, who joined this forum few months ago and all he did in 50 pages of absolute nonsense was repeat 1 though 5 over, over, and over again. Yes, I picked on him for being a retard. Those of you who have a habit for this already know the consequences in your real life. People do not like you. They treat you as if you're a retard. But you shout in your mirror that you're alpha, that you're the man, that you do this, you do that. . . but reality doesn't change.

If you act like a retard, you will be treated like one. If you act like a decent fellow, you will be treated like one. If you act like a gentleman, you will be treated like one. THINKING this way or that. . . well, how do you suppose people will know what the hell you're thinking?

Any habit, good or bad, can change this very moment. But first. . . you'll have to accept some realities. . .
Where's the like button on this post?
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This is a forum of mostly anonymous people who share ideas for pick-up. Most of us don't know each other. This is not your hood filled with 17 year old pimple faced assholes you've been trying to impress. Writing in this forum that:

1. You are alpha.
2. You slept with XXX women.
3. You are this and you are that. You did this and you did that last night to somebody's mother.
4. You are a pick up guru, teaching your boys how to pick up.
5. Etc, etc. . .

^You are telling other members of the forum that you are socially inept. You do not understand that this is an anonymous forum. Nobody gives a shit. You are telling us that you are a retard. If you missed the opportunity to ride your bike with no hands and yell at to your proud mama, "Look at me! Look at me! No hands!" then that time has gone. To come here and virtual scream the above 1 though 5 to people who don't give a rat's ass is to tell us that you are you really, really, really need attention but due to the very habit that you are expressing above, you are a miserable loner.

There's a 40 year old lying asshole who joined this forum few months ago and all he did in 50 pages of absolute nonsense was repeat 1 though 5 over, over, and over again. Yes, I picked on him for being a retard. Those of you who have a habit for this already know the consequences in your real life. People do not like you. They treat you as if you're a retard. But you shout in your mirror that you're alpha, that you're the man, that you do this, you do that. . . but reality doesn't change.

If you act like a retard, you will be treated like one. If you act like a decent fellow, you will be treated like one. If you act like a gentleman, you will be treated like one. THINKING this way or that. . . well, how do you suppose people will know what the hell you're thinking?

Any habit, good or bad, can change this very moment. But first. . . you'll have to accept some realities. . .
I sometimes use examples of success with some kind of approaches. I hope you guys don't mind that because I just want to show what worked for me. Anyway, I hope this post made some people realise that being an attention freak is retarded and that they should change. Worth mentioning, and I see this a lot too.

I don't know if you've ever read my journal, but as far as I know, I'm being honest there. I could lie about having success every week but then I would only fool myself the most. If I lied about my success and would read it back, I would be embaressed of the way I would behave.

Once again, I hope this statement will reach the bad attitudes and change it. Kasabi, good contribution to the forum, I appreciate it.

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Amen, Kasabi.

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Your point being...?

Here is the deal: like you`ve satated; this is a pick up forum.

As in any other forum, you will find good ppl, bad ppl, and retards, showoffs, whatever you call them.

This is nothing new to our lifes, nor should we care. Retards aren`t treated as such, they are treated with indifference and at some point they just get tired and leave.

What I`m basically saying is that we shouldn`t make a big deal out of this, there has always being and always will be some assholes in every community, for your own good and of us all.
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Oh shoot! here we go again, i could not help myself, i had to respond, with my good friend kasabi... Hope we get into a "discussion without attacks"...
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This is a forum of mostly anonymous people who share ideas for pick-up. Most of us don't know each other. This is not your hood filled with 17 year old pimple faced assholes you've been trying to impress. Writing in this forum that:

1. You are alpha.
2. You slept with XXX women.
3. You are this and you are that. You did this and you did that last night to somebody's mother.
4. You are a pick up guru, teaching your boys how to pick up.
5. Etc, etc. . .
See ^ actually i agree with you 100% here, and i know the member in question, but look at difference on how you handle it and how i handle it:

Kasbi style: To indirectly ridicule and put down the dude in question... Which if you look at facebook is what everybody does with post like:

"I hate when someone says one thing i does another, i am over you now" or stupid shit like that, instead of going to the person and tell them in their face.

What i actually did: Contact the dude in question(trust me i know who it is) and told him exactly what you wrote, so he can save face(no bs i actually email him that couple of times)... I saw were you read "how to win friends and influence people", the book advises to be read 3 times.

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^You are telling other members of the forum that you are socially inept. You do not understand that this is an anonymous forum. Nobody gives a shit. You are telling us that you are a retard. If you missed the opportunity to ride your bike with no hands and yell at to your proud mama, "Look at me! Look at me! No hands!" then that time has gone. To come here and virtual scream the above 1 though 5 to people who don't give a rat's ass is to tell us that you are you really, really, really need attention but due to the very habit that you are expressing above, you are a miserable loner.
^ aren't you doing something similar by writing this post?
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There's a 40 year old lying asshole who joined this forum few months ago and all he did in 50 pages of absolute nonsense was repeat 1 though 5 over, over, and over again. Yes, I picked on him for being a retard. Those of you who have a habit for this already know the consequences in your real life. People do not like you. They treat you as if you're a retard. But you shout in your mirror that you're alpha, that you're the man, that you do this, you do that. . . but reality doesn't change.

If you act like a retard, you will be treated like one. If you act like a decent fellow, you will be treated like one. If you act like a gentleman, you will be treated like one. THINKING this way or that. . . well, how do you suppose people will know what the hell you're thinking?

Any habit, good or bad, can change this very moment. But first. . . you'll have to accept some realities. . .

^ Aren't we allow to make our own conclusion of the other dude in question(which we all know who it is), to either take or disregard his advise, or aren't we free to make our own conclusion.... On a similar topic i just had a pm with someone that is extremely huge in the seduction community for years, and he brought up your name and some dude name fin(don't know who he is), actually he said wasaby(but i knew he was referring to you), and he out of the blue, again on a subject that had nothing to do with you or the other dude, express how you and fin, flame him on the chat cause you did not agree with his sexualization game, the dude is one, if not top 5 seducers i have encounter. Again for you he may be a nobody, but when we join a forum, should we have a kasabi permission question on who should we listen to, or are we free to choose and make our conclusions. Remember who the community is based on some dude name "mystery" how is that working out for people????

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Your point being...?
A suggestion to wake up and take a look at our lives. A suggestion to take steps to change bad habits. As you suggested, what they do here is what they probably do in their real lives. There is something that sets this forum apart from say . . . a fishing forum, taekwondo forum, or a bowling forum. At the center of our discussions is "social interaction". We discuss how to attract others, not repel them. We discuss how to improve our relations with others, not worsen them. There's a good chance that I'll hit a 0 with these suggestions as those with these particular habits seem to really, really, really put a lot of effort into it. But it's still worth a reminder.

More importantly, most of us aren't caught up 100% in the cycle of acting like a retard - being treated like a retard - acting like a retard. Some of us sometimes simply derail ourselves from our usual patterns. It's nice to see examples of bad behavior to avoid.
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What I`m basically saying is that we shouldn`t make a big deal out of this, there has always being and always will be some assholes in every community, for your own good and of us all.
This is a very good suggestion . . . and if this was a fishing forum, it would be a perfect suggestion.
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Skills,

The topic matter of the initial post is "behavior that tends to repel people in all facets of life." The topic matter is NOT: Who is a better PUA. Who is more alpha Who's got better yo mama jokes.
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To indirectly ridicule and put down the dude in question...
This is actually quite funny. I thought that the 50 page "I am a retard" thread has been long gone and we could forget about it . . . but as soon as I wrote up a reference to what those 50 pages contained, everybody seems to remember it. The only reason I referenced it was to show those who only mildly display repulsive behaviors what they look like to others. I believe even the most socially inept members could see something wrong going on there.
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"I hate when someone says one thing i does another, i am over you now" or stupid shit like that, instead of going to the person and tell them in their face.
Same here but really . . . this has nothing to do with him as a person and everything to do with his behavior as an example for things to avoid.
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aren't you doing something similar by writing this post?
^By making suggestions to reduce bad behavior and work on better behavior?
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Aren't we allow to make our own conclusion of the other dude in question
Aren't you expressing this freedom now?

And if you're a fan of the retard cycle. . . go ahead and do it. Not really sure why you're getting huffy over a suggestion to curb down bad behavior in this forum. It's been killing a lot of fun threads.
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ah double post, anyways, just look at yourself, improve yourself, change yourself if you need to.

In one year, I learned to stop wearing T-shirts and look more professionally[collar shirts only]. Everytime I go out, I wear a nice watch, and bracelet or neckless, flashy things to catch an eye/conversation peice with women. I use mouth wash so I don't smell, and use a good cologne.

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A suggestion to wake up and take a look at our lives. A suggestion to take steps to change bad habits.
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Listen to the man, hes right. I used to be an AFC/big pussy up about 8-12 months ago. In the last 6 months or so I have asked around 8-11 girls out and I have been improving. I used to sit around thinking a girl would talk to me at location x etc... WRONG! You are the hunter and must hunt them down, don't be scared of them, they are like buses and more will come. Just release them back into the sea as you found them, and chase more tail else were! Being social proof really does help, if I hadn't taken this postion I would pretty much be back to sqaure one, this really helped me gain the friends I have and girls I am meeting.

I learned most of this from my friend/who learned it from here, and I learned more here. This forum has been a big help and helps guys.

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Oh kasabi I have missed your posts. Been off this site for a couple months working on myself hard, hope I didn't miss too many discussions here.

Anyways, still love the fact that same issues still brought up and the 17 yr old pimple-head references.

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Been off this site for a couple months working on myself hard,
What are you trying to accomplish by working on yourself? It is a pet peeve of mine to hear people say they are working on themselves. You can change yourself for all eternity, but achievement that's where its at...
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Been off this site for a couple months working on myself hard,
What are you trying to accomplish by working on yourself? It is a pet peeve of mine to hear people say they are working on themselves. You can change yourself for all eternity, but achievement that's where its at...
I think he means more confidence, getting even more social, meeting more quality women, or be more interesting.

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I would say that people who advertise themselves the most are the ones that know the least.

It is one of the PU mantras in action. Fake it until you make it, tell yourself that you are superman every morning, pretend to be cooler than you are.
My mother told me to hug santa and be polite to my elders, that worked when I was 4. Maybe it is time to stop doing stuff that was meant to be left behind.

So many "oh Im so great" mantras are being repeated all over the world each day, it doesnt make it so and seeking validation on an internet forum, well, what can I say?

These behaviours are not meant to bring a guy from average to pro, they are meant to bring a way below average person up to the bare minimum. As soon as you become better than average, they are just annoying and arrogant. If you are below average and use them to try to be better than others, they are not just that, they are provoking people.

Who do you think wears the most bling, the stars or the wannabes?

About working on yourself, yes, you can skip that if you dont like progress. Working outer game improves your game a bit, working inner game improves it beyond your wildest dreams.

Oh yes, and I will keep watching this post because it is one of those that may get out of hand. So please be nice to each other.

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I dunno, the most prolific pua's out there are big self-promoters. Ever heard of Mystery??? All of the mpua's have systems and websites and youtube videos now. Even the one's who post on here have sig line links to their sites. It doesn't mean they don't know their shit, because most of them are quite good at what they do.

I haven't found many people on hear talking out of their ass that don't know what they are talking about. True, there are some braggarts, but that's true anywhere. And what do you expect out of alpha personalities, they are going to boast and brag about their exploits.

I was thinking recently about the aggressive guys who always threaten and intimidate and talk about how tough they are. I realized they are just insecure, probably because they were beaten as children or got their asses kicked at some point. I've never had to be like that because I am confident that I can defend myself and I say whatever I want to people, knowing that the most they'll ever do is talk a mess of shit otherwise get arrested for attacking me, or worse, become mamed or killed when I defend myself. Insecurity stems from a need to fill a void in your life. People who brag may not be making things up, but they are trying to overcompensate and fill in the emptiness in their lives.

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