Day 9: 18th August 2012
I'm the man of the party!
- Become the social guy of the party (success!)
- No bothering of the other guys
- Kiss-close (0/0 --> but i had easily the chance, the girls weren't attractive enough)
- Make new friends (success)
- Kino (did that a lot)
- Teasing (did that a lot too)
- Approach anxiety
- Seducing in every situation
This is gonna be quite a long field report, because i've been at the party from approx. 9:30 p.m. till 4:30 a.m. (about 7 hours!!). But it's more then worth it.
First of all, my mom offered me the car, that was quite cool because the girl host lived quite far away. 2 friends were in my car too, i regret that, they were drunk afterwards. But because i was driving, i couldn't drink alcohol, and that's for good! I don't want to become wasted every party anymore.
We arrived and some of the friends were already there. There were about 10 girls, and i only knew 4 of them! I wasn't really that confident in the beginning, just chilling around. First i drank a few coca cola's and went into the swimming pool. Some friends and 2 guys i didn't know joined. So i befriended the guys and hang out with them. That was the first step into socializing. I had a good time at the pool, and it worked out very well. However i accidently pulled off a girl's bikini, and she didn't like it. I shouted: YEAH, I OPENED OP HER BIKINI!. That hurt her feelings, i talked about it with her, and she was then smiling again:).
Then i talked to the girl host, and flirted with her, kino (the claw), holding hands. There were 3 girls around her that i didn't know, so i introduced myself. And because i wasn't drunk at all, i could remember their names (Larissa, Talissa, Judith, Lloyd (guy)). I started teasing and found out that Lloyd and Larissa were having a relationship. So i kind off teased Larissa by kino-ing Lloyd, grabbing his nipples, and squeezing like he had tits. He did the same thing and the girls really laughed about it. That guy was funny, and he did everything correctly because i didn't come off as weird haha.
I also did a little bit of the "i'm the man here, i don't take the orders, i give them" attitude. Suprisingly, the girls don't mind it! It's really weird, they really do want a guy who doesn't get walked over, but actually controls his own state of mind. Lesson learned, bad boy attitude incoming!
When it was around 12.00 PM, 1.00 AM, we sat around the fire. The girl host took a blanket where we could sit at. I sat next to her, gave her kino, hugging friendly, eye-contact, holding hands. It all worked well, YET i still didn't WANT to kiss her. She's quite, but she really smells bad
. Sweaty and all, it wasn't cool. However i didn't go away, she was having a rough time, and i wanted to make her happy, it was her birthday after all.
My AFC friend was trying to be a show-off and stuff like that. He was wasted, and wanted to show about his pentjak silat (it's a fighting sports, like martial arts, judo, taekwondo) to the girls. One girl has done 5 years of taekwondo, so she did all the kicking. It was so funny, my friend had no chance. All the girls loved seeing that he was being kicked by a girl, because he was so annoying. Luckily, i'm not seeing that 'friend' anymore, he was always trying to do things his way, but in the wrong way, that every1 get's annoyed by it.
When i had to go, and i'm not lying, EVERY GIRL WAS SAD! THEY REALLY, REALLY DIDN"T WANT ME TO GO HOME. But it was time for me, and i walked away, see what they would do. They all shouted; 'Hey, you're not gonna walk away here, before we hugged you!". Got hugs from all the girls, cool
AND I HAVE DONE ALL OF THIS WITHOUT A SINGLE PIECE OF ALCOHOL! YES I'M BECOMING MORE AND MORE OF A PUA!
So i call this day a great day of success: BECAUSE I WAS THE GUY OF THE PARTY!
Day 2: Success
What have i learnt today?
- I don't need alcohol to be funny, social, and stuff like that.
- Tease the girls, if they tease back, you're in!
- Kino works on every girl, even the one in a relationship!
- Game the guys as well, they might help you!
- Make sure that when u drive, u don't have to take home other friends who might be drunk
- Don't listen to your friends who tell you out of things, you can control your own decisions
- By being the social guy, you have the girls around you
- Talk about sex, the girls don't mind it. They like it!
Questions to move on:
- Not really for moving on but: would u kiss someone who smells sweaty?