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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 9:55 pm 
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Day 0 - 16 juli 2012
Meet AFC Wallie

Hey fellow pua's!
My name is XXXXXXX, but. everyone calls me Wallie becajse of my 2nd name. I live in the Netherlands in a small town with only 15.000 habitants and i'm currently 18 years old. I never really had a girlfriend, although there have been many opportunity's in my life. Perhaps i'm a little picky:p

At this moment i have kissed 11 different girls and had sex once with one of them. Doesn't sound bad you say? Perhaps. But it has neen divided over 3 years. And i want to improve in becoming a real PUA. There are so many women out there, i want to make sure i can seduce the right one.

I also failed my exams due to depression and too much gaming so i want to fix things up.

The reasons i joined this forum are:
- i have approach anxiety; A LOT!
- i have a lack of confidence, my inner game is bad and sometimes i feel depressed
- a lot of friends are having girlfriends which constantly puts me into needy mode
- i'm not social enough
- I'm addicted to masturbation and gaming and want to get rid of it.

So based on my reasons i have made up the following goals:
- i will eventually find that girl who belongs to me and shall love me for who i am
- i want to be able to handle every situation with girls, perhaps seduce them in every way
- i want to be social, confident, and enjoy life more

How will I reach my goals?
- i shall quit gamingand masturbation!
- i will improve my inner game by using affirmations and approaching girls
- i will go out more
- i will read books about self-help
- i will talk more with familiar people
- i will go to the gym more

So basically this is me. I'm currently writing in a notepad this journal, that is why i have field reports from a few weeks ago

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 10:26 pm 
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Day 1: 17th juli 2012
First in-field sarge with a fellow PUA

Goals:
- Make 5-10 approaches on anyone (10/10)
refer to:
- Approach anxiety
- Inner game

Field report:
Everything went above my expectations. I planned to go sarge with a fellow PUA, but he saw that je had almost no money for the trip and called me. I felt bad when he alled but didn't want to give up. However i just couldn't approach anyone, i was just so affraid. I texted the guy i wanted to sarge with that things went bad for me. He said: i'm coming there for ya! I was in good mod then and started asking for directions. When i got used to the approaching i asked ONLY GIRLS about things worth seeing in Amsterdam.

In 1 hour, i had made at least 10 approaches, in which 5 were 2 sets of girls. One 2 set lived close to me ( i have to travel 2 hours to get in amsterdam) and i got their number

Once i met PUA jeroentje212, we talked a lot about the game, the community but we didnt make mich approaches anymore. And that didn't really matter to me, because i already had a good day.

At the trip back, 4 girls i know were going the same way. 1 of them is a very good looking girl which os cute and i really like. ( But as you will read in the following field-reports, i screwed up latee on!) They kept me company, showed me their pictures and giggled a lot. Nothing really special happened.

We went to an English Bookstore to look for more reading and i eventually bought:
- The art of War: The ancient classic by Sun Tzu
- Bodylanguage: (James Borg)
At home i have:
- The natural by Gambler
- Magical tactics by Mark Raymond
- Awalen the Giant within by Anthony Robbins
- The Game ny Neil Strauss (Style)

With this material i will progress.

What have i learnt today?
- Approaching is fun to do!
- You have nothing to lose
- Most people are friendly

Questions to move on:
- What are good openers?
- Will this improve my inner game? What are more options?

I will succeed!
Wallie

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 31, 2012 10:29 pm 
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Day 2: 21st july 2012
Night game at local club

Goals
- Make 10 approaches without necessarily closing (15/10)
Refer to
- Approach anxiety
- Inner game
- Becoming social

Field report+
First i went to hang out with some friends and drank a few beers. The girls from the trip back at Amsterdam were there too. I teased them a little bit that night, but nothing more. I should have stayed and flirted with the HB but i was eager to approach.

When i arrived, i came upon a female friend of mine. It was her birthday and i gave her 3 kisses, 2 on the mouth, she liked it :) . But i like her as a friend and like to keep it that way. Then i went to the main room for some approaches.

I used the opener: " hey i just walked by, and wanted to say that u look great/cute tonight." Sometimes i added: "did that make ur night a good one?". They always said yes! With a smile. I opened at least 15 girls and had a convo with one girl (who had a BF) for at least 10 minutes.
I was quite tipsy that night, so i'm not sure of the alcohol helped, or i was just excited. I still call it a success!

When i came upon an other girl i already know (20 years old), i danced with her, she was really drunk. I eventually kissed her, the alcohol made it easy, but it still gave me a confidence boost. Her taste was so clear that i guessed right about what she drank. It was tequila lol.

But i also talked with a really hot girl for 2 mins. Her BF looked very angry at me. She saod it was her BF at least. So i ejected that one.

What have i learnt?
- Approaching at night game is fun, but higher chance on BF's
- Girls like to be opened!
- Use different openers and follow-ups

Questions to move on:
- What are good night - game openers?
- How do i build attractio- at night-game?
- How do o handle situations with other guys or a BF?

Now the game is on! Game on!
Wallie

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 7:18 pm 
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Day 3: 26th July 2012
You have good days, and sometimes you have bad ones.

Goals:
- Approach 10 sets (1/10)
- 2 number closes (0/2)
Refer to
- Approach anxiety
- Being social
- Inner game

Field report
I got a PM from another fellow PUA. We meet up halfway in Eindhoven. He was nervous, i could read that from his body language. Well, at least he showed up, that might be scary. Had a good appearance, he could get a lot of girls because his looks aren't bad. Just the inner game. I suggested sitting down at a bar outside, en just talk about the game, and look for potential targets.

It was a hot sunny day, and i thought there would be loads of girls shopping. Guess what? We have been walking for at least 3 hours. And we couldn't find ANY HB's around. Literally none!. I guess they might be on holiday's or something.

Still managed to at least approach 1 set, but they didn't respond well. He did an approach as well, didn't go well either. But at least he did it for his first time. Both of us did even go to Venlo (another city) but nothing to find there either. :(

Conclusion 1
You can't always have a good day with loads of girls. Does that stop me? Hell no!

But now something else. The HB who travelled back from the train was having a crush on my best friend. That wasn't really good for me. He knew that and called me over. We talked about it and i said i didn't like it, but that i shouldn't be behaving childish.

Conclusion 2
She just chose my friend above me. I was too afraid to actually call her for a date 1 on 1, because i thought she wouldn't do that. And i kinda hided my interest for her. OFFCOURSE SHE DOESN"T KNOW I LIKE HER, IF I DON"T SHOW IT! Good lesson for me. So it's basically my own fault.

What have i learnt today?
- Je cannot claim a girl being yours, you gotta work for her if you want her!
- I won't introduce any girls i like to my friends anymore, because i might lose them.
- Don't wait too long on the escalation, because you might lose her!
- I should continue approaching.
- And don't tell her friends anything, because they tell everything to the HB (dumb mistake, i should have known that)
- Sometimes you have good days, sometimes bad ones.
- I perform better when i'm on my own

Questions to move on
- No questions this time

Game on!
Wallie

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 7:39 pm 
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Day 4: 28th July 2012
Night game; approach 0 success

Goals:
- Approach 10 sets (6/10)
- 2 # closes of different sets (0/2)
- More kino (did that quite good actually)
Refer to
- Approach anxiety
- Inner game
- Being social and DHV'ing (?)
- Escalation

Field report:
I had good mood when i went with a few friends to the night club. My best friend with the HB i liked did come as well. Before we went to the club, few other friends who weren't around called me, and gave me an anonymous phone number with the name. I searched on FB, she wasn't attractive in my opinion.

I was having a stomachache for at least 1 hour. That wasn't cool, but luckily i quite quick lost it. After that i started approaching. There were only 16 and 17 year old girls. I approached 6 sets in total. But they weren't good. Here are a few results:

- With 1 approach, i scared the girl. She crawled away behind her friends, and put her palm towards me. I still had to laugh about it, never scared a girl haha.
- 1 approach was a 3 set. 1 white skinned blonde girl, and 2 tanned girls (which were hot!). I approached the blonde one, she was shy, and immediatly started talking to her friends. No she didn't blow me off, she was really shy.
- 2 girls started dancing next to me. So i started to talk to one because 2 guys were checking her out (and she looked uncomfortable about it). I wanted to dance with her, and opened my hand palms.
Her: "what do you want me to do?"
Me: Dance :)!
Her: "I'm already doing that haha" :)
Me: With me silly.
Her: "Naah, i don't think that is smart" (she had her eyes to the side and subconciously said; this guy over here doesn't want me to)
I looked to the left and this guy was standing there, looking at me with the most creepiest grin i've ever seen. I thought he was about to give me a punch, so i ejected that one.

The rest of the night i danced with girls i knew. I held some girls hands and led them with my hands. I used spinnings which some of them didn't work out. I forced one and that made one girl uncomfortable. Lesson learned.

I'm not really happy of myself, i could have done better. The results weren't good enough, i need to keep myself pushing. I also learned that my friend kissed the HB i liked. I had to push him to do that, she was tipsy and normally she wouldn't kiss him. Now they make out every time they see each other. Lesson learned!

What have i learnt today?
- Don't give up, keep approaching!
- Girls love to dance, as long as you don't immediatly grind her ass!
- I gotta watch my leading, and don't make it forcing
- I need to be aware of my surroundings when approaching
- If she's reluctant in kissing you, you gotta make her comfortable doing it. Once you done it, she won't be reluctant anymore.

Questions to move on:
- Still need help with the BF or other guys
- Does dancing with girls make me a status guy, and shows DHV?
- I can't force an IOI without eye-contact. Should i just walk up to them and immediatly talk if they don't see me?

Game on!
Wallie

P.S. This weekend ( 3 and 4 august) i will go to a park party in Venlo (city) and a public party nearby. Those will be my next field reports.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 8:21 pm 
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*Quick note on goals*

In the first post, i didn't put too much effort in the goals. So i thought about it, and would give more goals, because 3 goals isn't good enough in my opinion

Short term goals
- Approach more
- Become social
- Getting more used to touching girls
- Focus on closing girls with numbers, kissing, f*cking (stuff like that)
- Work more on my bad habit to delay the things i need to do
- Become more confident (could also be in the long-term)
- Finish high school this year
- Get rid of bad habits (such as sometimes drinking too much alcohol, gaming too much, and spending money on things i don't need)

Long term goals
- i will eventually find that girl who belongs to me and shall love me for who i am
- i want to be able to handle every situation with girls, perhaps seduce them in every way
- i want to be social, confident, and enjoy life more
- i want to have a succesfull job that gives me joy, doesn't provide me stress and doesn't make me work 60 hours a week
- i want to have children eventually, and i prefer a boy and 2 girls.
- i want to be a good person, that shows empathy and connects with people.

So i divided it into short and long term, to eventually achieve the long term goals by achieving the short-term goals. This way i will dedicate myself to them, and become the person i want to be when i grow older.

Game on!
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PostPosted: Sun Aug 05, 2012 12:50 am 
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Day 5: 5th august 2012
Motivational breakdown

Goals:
- Approaching 10 sets (0/10)
- Getting 2 # closes (0/2)
Refer to:
- Approach anxiety
- Social circle

Field report:
This was just another bad day. I didn't have any motivation at all. Me, 3 guy friends and 2 girls were heading to a public party nearby (at cycle distance). I drank about 5 beers and 1 coke. But my motivation was just bad. I've had a rough working week + the girl i liked now has a relationship with my best friend. Maybe excuses but i still hit me. I didn't like it at all.

There were more then enough opportunities to make approaches to hot girls. Believe me, i've never seen more then enough beauties around. I think it's because i've masturbated a lot, and didn't feel horny or anything. F*cking sh*t, i don't want to masturbate, but i'm addicted to it :x

However, i came upon a bisexual (girl) classmate. We had a nice chit chat with each other. She said: why don't you have a girlfriend? I responded with: well, i haven't found the right girl. Her reply: bullsh*t, you just didn't put enough work into it. I'm 100% sure you can find the right girl, there has gotta be someone out there!

It kinda gave me a good feeling that she said it. Yet, i just wasn't motivated today. So i call this another down day. But i won't give up, that's for quitters. No, some day, ill be a winner!

What have i learnt today?
- Again, don't lose hope, sometimes i have bad days
- Other people see me as someone attractive, who can definately find a nice girlfriend
- Have goals
- Keep the motivation up

Questions?
Once again, no questions. I just need to stay focused and motivated.

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*Quick note 2

So one of my goals is finding a girlfriend which totally fits my personality. In ordrr to find her, i need to fill in my demands to screen upcoming conversations.

My girlfriends would have these personal traits/habits
- takes good care of her herself
- makes sure looks good on the outside
- likes to dance
- is open minded
- confident
- is nice to the people around her
- isn't sticky and sometimes gives me some space
- is not a attention freak
- adventurous
- likes to dance
- intelligent ( i hate girls who hardly can find their own butt!)
- age doesn't really matter, though i prefer younger
- doesn't really have big boobs
- isn't always quiet but also not too high energy
- at least 5 ft 5 tall, i'm 6ft.
- likes animals
- (loves children but this is not a big deal YET)

This list will also be a cheat sheet for my approaches.
I feel motivated for a new day-game this friday. Untill then.

Game on!
Wallie
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PostPosted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 8:04 pm 
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Challenge 1:

Masturbation has been an addiction for me for at least 4 years. That's why it's not easy to get rid of it. So by posting this challenge on my journal i will commit myself to stick with it, and ill be honest and NOT lie if i didn't pass the challenge. This way i help myself and perhaps inspire you!

FROM THIS DAY ON, I WILL NOT MASTURBATE FOR A MONTH, WHICH IN THE CASE OF AUGUST IS 31 DAYS. TO AVOID THE TEMPTATION, I WON'T WATCH PORN EITHER.

The purpose of this challenge is to become more horny, to have more testosteron in my body, which makes me motivated to go after the girls and not pussy out like last saturday. I also eant be more strong in my sexual drive and this challenge makes it happen. The final date will be 6 septembre, 1 week before my birthday, and that cool if i pass it?

So i proudly say:
Day 1 of challenge: success

I will include these updates in every post i make to ensure my commitment.
(and in the last post i accidently mentioned likes to dance twice :P )
Wallie

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Day 6: 8th August 2012
Relaxing day, no pick-up intentions

Goals:
- Just a day to relaxing at not really think about pick-up
Refer to:
- Inner game
- Socializing

Field report (well, not really a field report)
So today i had to work from 8 am. till 5.30 pm. I've got a text from a friend to hang out at the same place as last Saturday (see day 5). There was a cover/tribute band of AC/DC, a band i always believe has good rock music. A couple other friends came along with us. So we were with 4 guys and 4 girls (2 who are my friends GF's). I could have gamed the other 2, but i know from experience that they always act bitchy, so i wasn't interested.

My friends always split, and i always wander around. But my friend said he wouldn't join us if I would do that, so i sticked around a bit. Still found some friends from my older brother and had a fun time rocking with them. The cover band of AC/DC really played well, it was worth the money to listen. For a moment i forgot all the stress from work, pick-up failures, life failures and stuff like that. Amazing!

And yes, there were some hot girls out there. But like i said, i wasn't going for the pick-up, i was just going to have a great time. I didn't feel approaching for that night.

I've talked there that night to my superior colleague who said; well at work you always tell me stories about your pick-up, i never really believed it. But when i see you now out here, you dressed really different, really cool and i even think that someday you will become a player (by which he meant that i could get every girl i wanted). My superior colleague is very good at body language, he's a real people person. He can see through the fake defenses we all put up, and can see the real true person behind it. So if HE tells me that one day i will get what i want, then i just need to make the effort and go for it. After all, he never dissappointed me in the cold readings.

So i've noticed that more and more people see that my inner-game is improving, because they complement me about my confidence and my body language. That's a good sign. This already means to me that i'm improving into my game.

What have i learnt today?
- I'm improving, even though i didn't really notice it myself
- Sometimes you just need to relax, and not think about pick-up too much
- If you really, really, really want to become a PUA, and put effort in it, then it doesn't matter how long it takes, because in the end it will be all worth it.

Questions for progress?
- No questions needed, i'm just going to have goals of approaching and closing this saturday.

*Challenge update*
- Day 2: Success
- Day 3: Success ( because i've posted it, it's much easier for me to resist the temptation.

Wallie

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 12, 2012 12:45 pm 
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Day 7: 11th August 2012
I... have... the time of my life ......, and i never felt this way before :D

Goals:
- Approach 10 sets (8/10)
- At least one #-close (1/3 attempts)
- Introducing more kino: The Claw
- No ejecting from sets including guys
- Having fun being sociable
Refer to:
- Socializing
- Kino-escalation
- Closing
- Approach anxiety

Field report+
Yeah, i call yesterday a night that i don't want to forget. Why? Because i'm slowly progressing forward, becoming more of a PUA, and getting results. First, i started at home with some power-energy boosting music to get the pre-alpha feeling. Then i used some meditation to get rid of the blockings in my mind. After that, i went to a friend and drank a couple of beers there to get a little bit loose.

Then a friend wanted to go to the festival in town because he got texted from a lot of girls. Note: he's the most sociable guy i know, and happens to be a good friend :twisted:. Anyways, i lost him quite early, but that doesn't matter because i sarge better alone mostly.

Ill write here a summary down of the useful approaches yesterday:

Approach #1:
My friend had to go to the toilet when i saw him talking to some girls. He asked me over and i talked to the 2-set for like 10 mins? The girl i was talking to had a lot of fun, and laughed a lot. When she left i held her hand and i said: 'Hey, you're an attractive girl, is there any chance we meet up?' She replied with: 'i have a BF'. I said: 'naah i don't believe that'. She kept saying she had, so i let her go, because her friend dragged her away.

Approach #2+:
I saw a couple of guys i knew so i walked to them and had a nice conversation. Then i saw this girl who was quite tall, had a nice lipstick on and sure was attractive. I talked to her a little bit, because two years ago, she waved at me during a carnival, i said that, and she still remembered. She might be a future classmate, so i wanted to know her better. I said: "Hey, i'm gotta go back to my friends, but you're very cute. Give me your number and ill call you tomorrow" :D (with a smile offcourse). She immediatly nodded and smiled, and i got that number for sure.
*Note: She is a friend of the girl i kissed 2,5 years ago. Perhaps good or bad?*

Approach #3:
I saw a colleague of mine, who is about 15 years old. I walked up to him, and complimented on his new necklace since he lost his old one. Then i noticed 2 very cute girls next to him. I said: introduce me. He did and then i started talking to this 14 year old girl, and she smiled quite a lot. So i thought; let's use The Claw. It's very easy, never knew that, so i'm gonna use that one more often. And again, a friend wanted to drag her away, so i said again: "Hey, you're quite a cute girl, give me your number and we meet up some time" :D . Her reaction was kinda weird: "What, no i'm not gonna give my number, you're almost 19 and i'm only 14. You'll use me". I tried to make sure that i wouldn't use her, but i guess that was impossible. She already made up her mind, so i left her.

The other approaches were very short. I just gave a compliment, have a chit chat for 2 mins, and then i went further. I was the social guy, i have chatted up with so many people, girls/boys/friends/friends of my brother. I even heard some guy say to some other guy: "that guy over there, he's so gay". I noticed that, i looked at him and he said: "yeah you!". I laughed so hard at that, didn't react to it and took it as a compliment. Why? That means they see me as a threat; so that means i'm someone who could steal their girls.

What have i learnt today?
- The approaches are becoming better
- Guys are seeing me as a threat, which is a good thing
- By using The Claw, you can kino very well and show your interest.
- A few beers help me loosen up.
- I have to change the way i want to number close, it's not good enough yet. In order to not let the # closes flake, i gotta make some kind of connection.

Questions to move on?
- How can i improve my number close?

*Challenge update*
- Day 4: Success
- Day 5: Success
- Day 6: Success
Note: I'm starting to get more dreams about kissing, sex and stuff like that. Side effect? I like it :)
Wallie

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Challenge 2:
The kiss rejection: kiss-rejection-challenge-vt74765.html?highlight=

The information is found in the link, but i will type it here too:

The challenge is to go up to the girl, just f*cking doing it, say one or two things, and then try to kiss her at the very first opportunity. Yes that's right, whenever you feel to it, you do it. JUST F*CKING DO IT.

So when did u actually get rejected?
You are rejected when:
- When the girl blows you off, pushes you back and walks away.

You are NOT rejected when:
- She turns to the cheek.
- Asking for one but not getting it.
- If she says no but is still standing in front of you

Now this is gonna take some balls. And i'm not even sure if i will do this challenge this week. I'm updating it in my journal so that i won't forget. But one thing is for sure: I don't give a damn f*ck what other people think, because i have the f*cking balls to f*cking kiss her because i want to.

I'm having the problem that i am in my mind so much, and that i want to do things but don't do them at all and regret it afterwards. So i add this to my challenge:

- Whenever something pops up in my mind, i should say or do it with no filter, because that's the only to not play games with my own mind.

Oh, i almost forgot:
Challenge 1 update:
Day 7: Success
Day 8: Success
Day 9: Success

Yeah, my masturbation challenge is going very well. I've already made my personal record, because i could never commit to it, but now i can because i wrote it down. For everyone who reads this, and wants to do a similar challenge, JUST DO IT. Write it down, shut the f*ck up, and DO IT!

Next field reports are probably gonna be this friday and saturday.

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*Challenge 1 failed*

After 9 days, i couldn't resist the temptation anymore. I had a rough time getting into sleep, so i just had to do it. After i could sleep in just 2 mins. But at least i could hold out for quite a long time.

Day 10: FAIL!

I'm gonna start over and over and over until i pass this challenge. A month is long but i have to be able to pass it. So the next ending date if i don't fail would be:

Date to pass -->16th September 2012

***Also another thing. There are some problems in my friend group. I'm in a group of 16 people, and it has now split into 2 groups of 8. I'm fortunately on the 'more fun' side, however some of them aren't trustworthy. Hope that everything will be more fun in the future, but i'm not sure.

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Day 8: 17th August 2012
Barbeque with colleague's

Goals:
- Have fun
- Teasing the girls
- Not trying to be a try hard
- Perhaps a kiss-close (0/0)
Refer to:
- Socializing

Field report:
This wasn't really a good field report at all. I wasn't really in the mood to be socializing a lot with the girls, since there were like 20 guys and 6 girls. I've been trying but it wasn't easy, since the other guys did far better then me.

My best friend was also there and he was teasing me about the fact that he has a relationship with the girl i liked. I told the last time about her to my colleague's and now i have to hear it every time: how is .... doing?. So annoying, i won't do that ever again.

However there was 1 girl, who's in a relationship, that was sort of being very nice. But she has a BF, and i know that. She told me that her BF wasn't very happy about the fact that she cycled back with her ex-BF who was at the party too. Still she smiled a lot, did some kino, and teased me back. Nice girl, too bad her relationship is already lasting for 4,5 years.

Yeah there hasn't happened a lot, i teased some of the girls but it didn't really have effect. Gotta try it next time.

What have i learnt today?
- If you like a girl, don't tell anybody
- Girls like being teased

Questions to move on:
- No questions this time

Challenge update
Day 1: Success.

Wallie

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 7:06 pm 
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Day 9: 18th August 2012
I'm the man of the party!

Goals:
- Become the social guy of the party (success!)
- No bothering of the other guys
- Kiss-close (0/0 --> but i had easily the chance, the girls weren't attractive enough)
- Make new friends (success)
- Kino (did that a lot)
- Teasing (did that a lot too)
Refer to:
- Socializing
- Approach anxiety
- Closing
- Kino
- Seducing in every situation

Field report:
This is gonna be quite a long field report, because i've been at the party from approx. 9:30 p.m. till 4:30 a.m. (about 7 hours!!). But it's more then worth it.

First of all, my mom offered me the car, that was quite cool because the girl host lived quite far away. 2 friends were in my car too, i regret that, they were drunk afterwards. But because i was driving, i couldn't drink alcohol, and that's for good! I don't want to become wasted every party anymore.

We arrived and some of the friends were already there. There were about 10 girls, and i only knew 4 of them! I wasn't really that confident in the beginning, just chilling around. First i drank a few coca cola's and went into the swimming pool. Some friends and 2 guys i didn't know joined. So i befriended the guys and hang out with them. That was the first step into socializing. I had a good time at the pool, and it worked out very well. However i accidently pulled off a girl's bikini, and she didn't like it. I shouted: YEAH, I OPENED OP HER BIKINI!. That hurt her feelings, i talked about it with her, and she was then smiling again:).

Then i talked to the girl host, and flirted with her, kino (the claw), holding hands. There were 3 girls around her that i didn't know, so i introduced myself. And because i wasn't drunk at all, i could remember their names (Larissa, Talissa, Judith, Lloyd (guy)). I started teasing and found out that Lloyd and Larissa were having a relationship. So i kind off teased Larissa by kino-ing Lloyd, grabbing his nipples, and squeezing like he had tits. He did the same thing and the girls really laughed about it. That guy was funny, and he did everything correctly because i didn't come off as weird haha.

I also did a little bit of the "i'm the man here, i don't take the orders, i give them" attitude. Suprisingly, the girls don't mind it! It's really weird, they really do want a guy who doesn't get walked over, but actually controls his own state of mind. Lesson learned, bad boy attitude incoming!

When it was around 12.00 PM, 1.00 AM, we sat around the fire. The girl host took a blanket where we could sit at. I sat next to her, gave her kino, hugging friendly, eye-contact, holding hands. It all worked well, YET i still didn't WANT to kiss her. She's quite, but she really smells bad :( . Sweaty and all, it wasn't cool. However i didn't go away, she was having a rough time, and i wanted to make her happy, it was her birthday after all.

My AFC friend was trying to be a show-off and stuff like that. He was wasted, and wanted to show about his pentjak silat (it's a fighting sports, like martial arts, judo, taekwondo) to the girls. One girl has done 5 years of taekwondo, so she did all the kicking. It was so funny, my friend had no chance. All the girls loved seeing that he was being kicked by a girl, because he was so annoying. Luckily, i'm not seeing that 'friend' anymore, he was always trying to do things his way, but in the wrong way, that every1 get's annoyed by it.

When i had to go, and i'm not lying, EVERY GIRL WAS SAD! THEY REALLY, REALLY DIDN"T WANT ME TO GO HOME. But it was time for me, and i walked away, see what they would do. They all shouted; 'Hey, you're not gonna walk away here, before we hugged you!". Got hugs from all the girls, cool :D

AND I HAVE DONE ALL OF THIS WITHOUT A SINGLE PIECE OF ALCOHOL! YES I'M BECOMING MORE AND MORE OF A PUA!

So i call this day a great day of success: BECAUSE I WAS THE GUY OF THE PARTY!

Challenge update:
Day 2: Success

What have i learnt today?
- I don't need alcohol to be funny, social, and stuff like that.
- Tease the girls, if they tease back, you're in!
- Kino works on every girl, even the one in a relationship!
- Game the guys as well, they might help you!
- Make sure that when u drive, u don't have to take home other friends who might be drunk
- Don't listen to your friends who tell you out of things, you can control your own decisions
- By being the social guy, you have the girls around you
- Talk about sex, the girls don't mind it. They like it!

Questions to move on:
- Not really for moving on but: would u kiss someone who smells sweaty?

Wallie

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