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The golden rule of the Apocalypse opener is to never use it when there is someone else there. The girl could be really wanting to go with you but if one of her friends or even a stranger hears her say yes then her ASD takes over to preserve her social status and she will either walk off or play the "what type of girl do you think I am card"
When you hold the silence after the question it puts a lot of psychological pressure on the girl to answer and it could go either way but third parties within earshot will 99% tip it the wrong way.
After the question if she says "no" flat out just reply "Ok" and flow into the next piece of your conversation as if nothing has happened and it's no big deal. If however she says "well I don't know" or "maybe" or "well I'll have to see what my friends are doing" this means yes just continue the silence till it's either verbal yes or no.
Use it during the last hour of the night; if a girl has spent 3 hours getting ready and been out with her friends for 2 she will want to enjoy the night and not cut it short to go back to yours.
Use it more on a girl when you see her friends have scored with other guys, she doesn't like being the gooseberry as it drops her social status. By leaving with you she can play the girly "romantic instant chemistry card" on her friends.
This is anecdotal and somebody else has mentioned the same on a current thread but girls who wear red shoes or lipstick are more receptive to the opener. I think it's due to hormonal fluctuation which make girls more sexually charged at the most fertile time of their cycle and gives them a predilection to the colour red.
When you give the question hold full eye contact (increases the tension) and nod slightly, subconsciously the girl picks up the nod and interpretes it as a yes (hypnotists use this a lot)
When you see a group of girls deep in conversation look out for the one looking around the venue and not listening to her friends conversation; she's there to pull a guy and scouting out the room for what guys are there.
When you approach do direct full on without non verbal time constraints full alpha. Yes it takes balls but it's a big turn on for the girl.
In hypnosis there is a phenonema called "the pygmalion effect" where if you totally 100% expect someone to behave in a certain way they will. The reason being you give off very subtle body language cues called BMIR's (behavioral manifestations of internal representations) and the other person picks them up and drops into that frame. So. on your approach expect it to work!!
And finally: when it does work get moving before the mood changes, her excitement levels have peaked so get her out the club/bar within 5 minutes before they drop off.
It's great you expanded the topic to give more tips. Few questions:
- Is this your field tested method? Or did you just read it somewhere and shared it.
- What if she says: I've to say my friends that I'm going with you, you don't want the friends to cockblock it. What is a good response to it?
Wallie