Now I am 21 and I have slept with 22 girls in my life-time.

This is something I regret as a high number such as this was 'cool' when i was 18.

Anyway, I made progress with some girl a few weeks back and since then it has fizzled out to nothing. We had no intention of being an 'item' in the relationship but the way things were going, sex looked on the agenda, until i told her how many people i'd slept with, she seemed put off and seemed to believe I was using her as another 'number'.

Just wandering, anyone else ever had girls put off by the number they've slept with and if so what did you do? Good idea to lie if its not going to be a serious relationship or not?

Any advice/replies would be appreciated

I believe Style mentioned in his book The Game that ONLY THEN u are allowed to lie. lets replace in her shoes. U just heard that ur sleeping with someone who had sex with 22 girls andd only is 21 years. I believe it would sure scare me. But it also depends on personality.

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I've never had anyone ask prior to us being in a relationship. My number isn't astronomically high, but they assumed it was going to be so it didn't have any negative affect.

This is something very personal which I keep only to myself. A gentleman never tells.

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First off good work haha that's not an astronomically high number but that's nothing bad either by far. I agree with what was previously said somewhat though. If you're forced to talk about it then lie. You don't want to come off as a complete virgin but you don't really want to give the exact number. One I the big things about PUAs is we are good at not letting people know we are PUAs when flirting with em, so the best PUAs are the humble ones in this case. Of course I could be wrong haha

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No clue, the moment, desire, and passion mattered far more than adding a notch to my belt.

I really don't have a clue how many I have slept with (not that it is some exorbitant number). It doesn't matter to me, so this is an honest answer.

You can also reply:

Sharing mistakes I've made before meeting you aren't something that should matter. What matters is the moment we are having together.

Are you saying I'm not a gentlemen? Because a gentlemen never tells.

870 is spot on with his statement. Its not something you should tell and frankly it doesn't matter.

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You slept with 22 girls and you're 21. Why exactly are you here?

Cannot remember who it was but someone once said

"never give a women a straight answer to any question that she asks unless you are telling her no! "

Good advise all round IMHO

Can't agree with that fully, only 50%. Saying no when you mean no - great. Fluffing about something instead of giving straight answer seems strange.

I would really like to know where this fashion came from to fake something, to be indirect or so. It actually just makes things harder.

You can keep women interested in you by having interesting personality and lifestyle.

As for the question about count - my answer is simple - it doesn't matter.

Routine reply. Timeless. And works like a charm.

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