So I've been gaming this HB9 for a week or two, mostly just me occasionally texted her and use my odd sense of humor to fluff talk. She gave lot of IOIs over the texts. I invited her to hang out once but she was busy that week and didn't suggest a reschedule so I let it slide. Yesterday, after reading a bunch of funny autocorrected txt message online. I thought I would try something new just for fun. So I texted her the following:
I told her it was an autocorrect, she called it bullshit and I ignored it like a shit test. We went out with our conversation about her new job, made couple sexual innuendos then she stopped responding. I didn't push it and just let it go.

Today, she texted me at noon.
She replied after 10 hours
3 hours later, at 2 AM.
I think I handled it pretty well and the autocorrect opener I used did work great for putting the idea in her head. I actually don't have to work in the morning, but she lives 40 min away and I didn't wanna come running to her like an AFC. But I'm still kicking myself in the ass for turning down such an opportunity.

What would you guys have done differently?

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Damn man, that was fucking sweet! I hear you with running over like a little puppy. But in the end, it could have been a lay! I think I personally would have gone over. She was horny as fuck man.

But seriously, this text game is fucking gold.

I know man. It could have been my first 9.5 fclose. But regardless, I got to this point by being non-needy and aloof about sleeping with her. So I think it was a good move to not come over. Now the most important thing to do is reward her for that behavior so she doesn't have buyer remorse for being rejected and encourage her to do this again

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Bump.

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You should have definitely gone over and given the HB what she was begging for.

Too much texting back and forth once she told you she wants it.

The moment she said: HB9: "Then fuggin come ova" your reply should have been:

"I am on my way right now. Go and shower, shave and be ready. lol"

Was good teasing before that though but keep it light.

Next time do not even hesitate for 1 second and go and bang her!

I disagree with the above post, she won't have been turned down before and if you'd of gone over she'd of put you in the same league as all the other AFCs she can click her fingers and get

If she was being serious you'll be banging her before too long, just make sure you put the performance of your life and you'll have a 9.5 sat on your dick on a regular basis

Agreed. Because of this her view of you has gone up... massively.
Your text game was pretty sweet as well to be totally honest with you.

Good work, my friend!!

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I think you did the right thing and didn't go there. Anyway, she live far away and was pretty drunk so she might sleep by the time you get there Make her feel comfortable, and say that you get to know girls more after you sleep with them..

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Right now she'll be feeling insecure wondering why you turned her down and trying to think up ways to take back the power. Good job not going there and with the textgame. Dont give her the power Thats when you'll loose her interest and become one of the many.

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why didnt you fucking call her lol

texting all day and shit. thats not gonna get you far

Women are emotion based, because of this, they act on emotion, do not give them the opportunity to talk themselves out of it.

In my younger days I had let my ego get the better part of me, I was gaming 5-6 women at one time all the time, this gave me an abundance mentality and if I didn't want to play a girls game I would simply freeze them out, flat out turn them down.( no matter how much i wanted to fuck them)

One lesson I learned from this is women are emotion based, just because a girl wants you to fuck her right then and there, doesn't mean she will want you to fuck her the next day. I've had women on several occasions give me the opportunity to fuck them but I didn't, for whatever reason.

I can't even count how many women have taken away the opportunity, especially hot ones, just because I didn't act when prompted.


ALWAYS STRIKE WHILE THE IRON IS HOT!!

It's a completely different story once you have already had sex, but until then, take every opportunity you get. Women can flip their script at any moment.

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This is correct. I should have fucked her first then reframe later. It was an out of the blue booty call, she was extremely horny at that moment. I texted her today asking how her interview go and what she is doing tonight.
Well at least I learned "fuck first, you can always reframe later. Even if you can't, you still had a night of your life to brag about!"

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you should turn it down if ti compromises your integrity.

You see what I mean now?

I have lost many times like this with my not being Alpha enough and hesitating.

ALWAYS STRIKE WHILE THE IRON IS HOT!! is a great example and also ALWAYS MAKE HAY WHEN THE SUN SHINES is another one.

Do not text her again and sound needy. Ignore her and see what happens.

If she wants you then jump in and give it to her.

I guess you've developed your abudance a lot to turn that one down lol

I wouldn't do it but I'm not too sure whether you did the right thing

Ages ago in my early non game days when I was still a virgin I had a girl I was kinda in love with at that time texted me at 3 in the morning. We had strong rapport but I was very shy at that time and I was shit at attraction in general. She basically wanted to invite herself to my place but I turned her down. After that any attempt from my side to contact her was ignored and when I finally had the chance to speak to her she said she was only messing with me(which was bullshit). That was one of the most regretful part of my life lol.

A week ago a had a hb8 texted me at 4 in the morning after maybe 30% response to all of my messages. And now the things were different - I learned from my mistakes. I knew it was on cause I've been escalating on her loads but she was really flaky on the phone. We just met and went straight to my place having wild sex even though she was drunk and I wasn't ... I haven't heard from her since then but that's a different story since I thing I've messed things up by being needy on the phone afterwards

It really depends what you want from her. But fuck buddies wouldn't be problem if you had banged her really well lol

I assume you're probably posting this because you wish u had fucked her. No worries dude you'll have another chance just wait for it don't rush anything

If not you still win - the experience and next time fuck that pussy.