Yo guys im a newbie to the forum, but im an old hand at PU in general ... I was wondering which is the best way to keep a GF on lockdown i read a few good articles .. I just wanted a few opinions on which is the best way to keep her on lockdown

Heres a few things i know :

How to make you, her drug
Eliciting Relationship Values

What do you guys think ?

Basically, keep doing what you've been doing. She engaged in a relationship with you because of the things that you've been doing together. All you gotta do is make sure you don't let it die out. Don't allow yourself to take her for granted and start getting lazy about certain things. And once in a while, adding something spontaneous and special is the key to avoid the relationship to become monotonic.

And do not be jealous. Let her live her life. Don't ever keep her under surveillance, don't ever forbid her from doing something she wants, etc. This shows TRUST, which is key for relationships. Without the trust, there is no love and without the love, there is no relationship . . .
I challenge you to keep a relationship alive for more than 2 months by 'not caring'.

Of course you need to care - it's your relationship. It's your commitment to a human being of the opposite sex. You NEED to care and you NEED to be ambitious about it.

If you stop valuing her for what she means to you and what you mean for each other - you will lose her very fast.

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Yeah I get what you saying ... but obviosly I wont stop valuing her or what we have its just I saw tons of guys getting dumped because they putting too much into the relationship... if you show her that you not dependant on her or that you got other options and your world does not revolve around her... she will be putting more into it* and craving you when you not around... but its so easy to take that to far or not far enough !!

There's a general misconception between having a life on your own and being needy.

In a relationship, you have the other person as your partner - but you also have your own life to live. This does not mean you 'don't care' . . . it simply means you value your own ongoing life as well.

The point is to be ambitious about the relationship, for as much as you CAN . . . While you live your own life the way you always had. Prioritize studies, family, etc as well.

Those guys don't get dumped because they put too much work into the relationship. The get dumped because they drop a lot of things in their lives and put all their energy on the girl. The girl notices this guy is completely needy of her and values HER more than he does his own life.

Who the hell wants a partner like that? She has to drag him along throughout her life now as well. Nobody wants a burden like that.

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Great advice Panda!

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LOL Thanx for the help mahn

I just heard from RSD video, girls rather you spend 1hr 30 mins with them give them total devotion and enjoy the moment, than 10 hrs where you bitch, moan, and pretty much have a poor time. I think that is key here.

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