Date: 31 mars 2012
Members: Valentyn, T_Rex, Froggy, Wildguns & Swinths
Location: Au Rouge
PUSHING COMFORT ZONE
I realized that lately, I've been staying way too much in comfort. It became relatively easy for me to approach and get a kiss..I was feeling like flipping a coin, no effort what so ever. However, I get intimaded by girls who look older or who are more mature than me. I don't have any fear of interacting with girls my age, but when I see a hotter and more older girl, like 25+, I'm starting to feel really uncomfortable. And what coincidence, because Au Rouge was filled with girls looking much older than me. This field was for me, harder than the last fields that I have been and that literally woke me up that I still have a lot of work to do. I need to remove this thing from my head that mature women would not want to talk with me..each time I'm opening, 90% of time I get great responses and move forward but this belief always bothers me. I don't see myself as looking old, although the majority of girls give me at least 20-21 years old.. so I'm currently working on changing this "mindset"
We first meet at a cafe and when we sit down there's 3 hot girls that come sit down near us. After trying to convince the guys to open, I got fed up and opened with a situational opener. They hooked really easily and we shoud've asked them to bounce with us at the club. Next time, I'll do that..it would've been awesome they were giving many IOI's and were pretty good looking
So we get in the club, and there's a LOTTT of people. The place is big and it's crowded as fuck! I see that people in general are older people and I started feeling uncomfortable, but it's good that means an opportunity to grow. I haven't felt this feeling for quite a while so at first I did some warm-up sets..I was even pecking in some of my first ones and I usually never peck but finally I got in the zone. I made more than 15 approaches. I did so many stuff that I have trouble remembering so here's some sets I did
Set: There's one girl that steps on my foot. I look at her and say: "I'm tired of girls always stepping on guys feet in clubs". She responds and I immediately put myself phisically between her and a guy and girl that were with her just to block them out. They left so it was good. I said to her that she has beautifull eyes and I asked her if I could touch them. She laughed and said that's it's dangerous because she could have an infection or something so I asked her if she were a doctor. I gave her a high five and I started escalating it was going pretty well but her two friends suddenly come and my target looks at me than she looks at them..of course a girl will go with their friends so they literally took her away from me but anyway..
Set: There's this mixed set, 1 guy - 2 girls. I gave my self as a challenge to approach at least 2 mixed sets because it's one of my current sticking points. I approached the guy and said: "Hey man are you having fun?" He said yeah but I don't know what to say to guys with girls in a set, after I said the first line. So I froze a little bit and I repeteaded the same line lol the guy was like wtf yes I'm having fun..I ejected not knowing what to say..so I have to work on those mixed sets..however, I did another one where it went great! I isolated one of the girls (1 guy - 2 girls) and she started giving IOI's..but once again when her friends came back our conversation stopped because they started talking to her. Finally they walk off..I say to her that we'll talk later
Set: I say "Hi, how are you" to a HB 7.5. However, this AMOG comes in and touches me a little bit so I look at him weird implying that I'm not gay. He backs off and tries to qualify himself that he's not gay lol so it was good my target saw that. However, the guy wanted to block me and T_Rex spot it..he started handling the obstacle really well so I got some isolation with my target. It was going really great she started to give lots of IOI's but I forgot to qualify!! Damn it! I never forget to qualify but because I was feeling a little bit more uncomfortable, I neglected qualification..but I did some pretty good stuff I could've NC relatively easy..the only thing that backed me down is that she was looking wayy older than me. I didn't want to lie when she was going to ask me my age so I ejected just using that girl to gain skill
I can't remember my other sets, I did way too may stuff..and this is the first time I said a joke to one girl lol. I said: "Do you know why blondes can't call 911?" She's like: "No, why?" and I respond: "Because they can't find the 11 on the phone"
She laughed it was pretty good
So basically 95% of all my sets I thought only to increase my skill. I didn't thought about closing, although I wanted to have at least a NC just because lately I've been in a killing spree lol. One thing I realized is that I escalate much better than before..I'm touching a girl almost each 5 sec..and they like it so it means I'm doing it pretty well. We leaved pretty early..I wanted to stay at least 30min more because I felt like I could've done more but T_Rex wanted to leave and we both came in the same car so we leaved. Already that I'm going only 1 time/week, I woud've loved to stay and continue to push myself there were some pretty tough sets man in this club..fucking 4 - 5 sets, huge sets, with hot girls so it's pretty intimidating so I'm definately going there again you can gain so much experience from a field like this one. Anyway, I have a date today so I can't wait to see this girl! Take care guys and good luck!
CHAT
(Credit to The_Mack) I'm thinking about going skating with her..this is something original and actually really cool to do. I also understand much better dynamite theory (text game)..she's actually a short fuse and my text game is becoming stronger and stronger..like really solid! The reason is that I have a LOT of practice when 4 girls are into you and they text you almost everyday. HB Pink is a PSYCHO! Wow I'm removing this girl from my life as soon as possible! She told me she cries all the time and all because her boyfriend left her but they were together for only 4 months 
She texts me EVERY fucking DAY! Every 3 hours she wants to see me and I'm getting sick of this. I don't want drama and she's making my life miserable..fuck that. With my other 3 HB's it's going mediocre..one of them I'm still in it..but the other 2 I'm losing them due to some text game errors that I now learned from. So I have my options it feels good I'm not stressed and I'm enjoying life a lot..I don't even think about lay reports, kiss closes and shit.