Would any of the more successful guys take the time to walk me through their last 3 lays. I'm not trying to be a troll or waste time, but maybe if I see how it is actually done, it will steer me in the right direction.

(I think this is the appropriate section, as opposed to Lay Reports)

Tinder, be cool and flirty, go on a date where you can grab a drink, get a connection and ask after 3 drinks to chill at your place... if you were cool and hit it off with her she will say sure. In your house turn on some music and ask her if she wants a drink, 9/10 she will drink wine.

Sit next to her and continue having fun while slowly building up sexual tension, look her in her eyes and go for the kiss, just go for it and if she likes you she will want it, from there keep escalating and fuck her...

Same principle going out, be cool and flirty and ask her to your house. From there its easy. She knows the intention when you ask her to your house, its not to play video games.

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Can you give an example of being flirty?

I'm really no good at this.

Can you use google for once?

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Last Lay: Tinder.. I used a funny opener.. 3-5 messages of banter. I then say give me your number so i can call instead of texting. I forget to call.. I call a week later. We chat for an hour, set up a date to go out for a walk along the pier, next day I invite her over and tell her to bring wine. And you know the rest.

2) Okc.. We messaged back and forth with solid banter, i asked for the number. I called the next day. We chatted for an hour plus. She text me the next morning.. more light banter. But I'm not the biggest texter so I just called her again the night after this one. We chat again for an hour and I invite her over to my house that weekend to watch the movie she gave me shit for never seeing while we were on the phone. You know the rest.

3) Im on the sub way, sitting down reading over an article I was working on. A decent looking chick gets on an sits to my right. I immediately hand her my phone and tell her that I wanna know what she thinks about what I wrote. She read half of it, asks me to email her the link because he stop is approaching. I say i'll text it to her. She resist and says why can't you just email it. Im like nah. She's like " Why can't you just accept what I'm offering at this stage" i say " Cause i know my worth". It trips her up, she gives me the number, I call, we talk about the article, we talk about her, her love life, etc. We go for a drink the next day. I bring her back to mine...


Now are you going to do 2000 approaches before you make another post on this site? Because thats the only thing thats going to help you out.

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Last one I had was this week, it was from Tinder and she wanted to get fucked while her hubby was away. Not much i can tell you otherwise that I once flirted with her and had her number through cold approach. (she recognize me on Tinder it appears lol).

The two others where two leads I had from random girls I met while doing cold approach for numbers. At the beginning of the year I picked over 50 phone numbers and I texted them with the same lane to start things (how do we met).

Some started convos, some answers a week later, some never replies.

You gotta go down in the street and grab some numbers, make some marks on their memories. Sorry for the langage, English isn't my first tongue.

I suppose at this point, there is no point in me not spitting game to every girl I see.

It's the only thing that's going to get me out of my funk.

Thank God for Zoloft or I wouldn't even be at this point.

Ok.

1) She messaged me on one of those sites, I answer her, include a little verse of poetry since she wrote she was an english teach. Hook, she answers back, text, one single conversation with my deep voice turned on, date, I make her pay the dinner then I tell her we could go to her place read some poetry. I didn't read a single line that night and had a lot of fun for zero dollars.

2) Another one on the same site, she lives close to my house (always nice to have a side bitch or 2 in the area) she answers...around 1 month and half later, saying she is busy, I give her my number. IDGAF. She ends up calling me on the next Monday, I tell her no I am too busy ( I am always busy when talking to women ok), then change my mind and tell her oh you know what I have a window of 2 hours this evening but I want you to come close to my house. We end up at a café like 10 secs from my door, I speak with her, notice how shy she was, and took a good notice of her big and pointy boobs, 1h30 in, jsute when she starts investing I tell her I have to go cuz I have a UFC match and I can't miss it, and ask her if she wants to come with me since I live so close. I am gonna show her on my big tv and all (it's just a 42'') She is like ok. I think we watched maybe 10 mins of UFC before I started seriously escalating and bam.

3) Another girl, I read her profile cuz it was short (otherwise im so jaded i wont read it until she answers if I msg her 1st), and she seemed cute and full of herself. She was from Bulgaria. So yeah negs work. I told her hey that picture on it you look like you just lost a boxing match with those cooking gloves on. She was like omg no its not boxing gloves etc so I gave her my number like out of nowhere. I knew she would be tempted to call me just cuz she felt her image threatened by me and I was counting on that to hook her. Anyhow thanks to that we dated and after one hour I asked where she lived (she too lived close) and she was like suuper surprised that I wanted to end the date so fast (i timed just when she really started to enjoy herself) and all of a sudden I became the prize cuz she had to ''convince'' me now. Anyhow we bounced to a restaurant, I didn't pay for her btw, and after that I brought her home. I wanted a regular side bitch and didnt want any buyer's remorse so I witheld the sex until I could create enough familiarity etc, on maybe umm 3rd date I fucked and then made her my mistress for the next 2 months or so until I tired of the current batch, her included.

Lol you trying to find some magic lines like every other smoocher?

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I lost count of threads like these or similar where I have posted and yet the ops never took action at all to emulate or replicate the patterns of behavior that led to several lays.

To be on topic, but with some reservations and bitterness for the futility of this post, here they are:

1. Last Wednesday at the university canteen, a pharmacy student opened me and requested an old song by The Calling. She gave me a coin and eye fucked me throughout the song as I belted out my cover at the videoke machine. Before I left the canteen for my Capital Markets class, I took her number. After my Behavioral Finance class past 7 p.m., it was a great coincidence that on my way home via public transport, we were on the same vehicle. I invited her for dinner at a cheap restaurant shack along the street.

After dinner, I said "Let's go" and took her straight to my house. You know the rest.

2. Last Saturday, my classmate in corporate law, a transferee from another university, wanted to borrow my book in preparation for the midterm exams. I said, "I left it at home. Let's get it." Well, she went alone with me to my place. You know the rest.

3. The week after last, I went along with my buddy to the mall to help him get a new pair of eye glasses. After shopping for glasses, we went inside a designer jeans shop to look at some t-shirts. One of the sales crew was really cute, chubby and bubbly. I told her I dreamt about her flying up the sky and other emotional roller coaster ride stuff. She took my number. So I texted her I'm going to fetch her at closing time. She replied, "Sure."

We had dinner at a fastfood chain. I took her straight to a nearby motel before escorting her home.

Dude, it's not what I said. It's what I did; nonverbal stuff and all.

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I'm not in college anymore. I don't think it will be that easy for me. I have trouble starting a conversation let alone maintaining it or showing any sexual interest because I'm pretty sure it would be rejected unless she's a stripper, escort, sugar baby, etc.

That being said, I do have about 100 different potential sugar babies I could meet. But I think that's kind of cheating.

Perhaps I'm really just not good at this. It doesn't help that I'm becoming an alcoholic, but without alcohol, I am silent.

And even when I do start a conversation, it's boring. I have severe anxiety. I don't even know what to do to help myself at this point. I'm too socially awkward to make anything happen. I hope it's something I can fix.

Op, it isn't about the verbal conversation. It's the nonverbal stuff.

So what do you really want out of this thread? Learn the verbal stuff which is ineffective in getting you laid without the nonverbal stuff or learn the nonverbal stuff which will get you laid even if you say boring verbal stuff?

If you read carefully also, item #3 is mall game; not uni game.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Dude, try the sugar baby thing, then perhaps you will loose a percentage of your fear of women.

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How exactly can I learn nonverbal stuff over the Internet? Other than = get fit.