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PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2016 3:41 am 
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I haven't been gaming for 2-3 months now. Been working a lot and all of sudden, it's friday night and im writing this post.
I have 2-3 girls in rotation but i would like get better quality girls.

How do you do this?

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I haven't been gaming for 2-3 months now. Been working a lot and all of sudden, it's friday night and im writing this post.
I have 2-3 girls in rotation but i would like get better quality girls.

How do you do this?
Approach better quality girls


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For me it's always been how the girl looks walking away from my bed, naked.

I've had a lot of one night stands, and "let's be friends" talks because of this, lol. These situations motivated me to approach better women.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2016 6:55 pm 
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The thing is I can't seem to get myself to do it. push myself.
I feel inadequate. Maybe i'm thinking a lot.

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The thing is I can't seem to get myself to do it. push myself.
I feel inadequate. Maybe i'm thinking a lot.
Is it because of fear or lack of desire? Both?

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 27, 2016 3:00 am 
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@jackzero

probably both. I do feel scared, i don;t know of what.
Even though i have decent memories of going out, taking action.

But somehow I can't bring myself to take enough action.


@Mr. Assertive, i see your post. And i couldn't agree more. But somehow i have plethora of excuses. I don't know why.

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probably both. I do feel scared, i don;t know of what.
Even though i have decent memories of going out, taking action.

But somehow I can't bring myself to take enough action.


@Mr. Assertive, i see your post. And i couldn't agree more. But somehow i have plethora of excuses. I don't know why.
You're taking the easy way out. Drop the girls that don't meet your standards because you'll be more motivated to pursue the girls you want because you don't have that safety net.

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I haven't been gaming for 2-3 months now. Been working a lot and all of sudden, it's friday night and im writing this post.
I have 2-3 girls in rotation but i would like get better quality girls.

How do you do this?
My motivation comes from increasing my skill level.

That's not relevant to you though.

For you, you need to discover why you want to talk to more women. The why is important because that's your motivation. What I like to do is visualize my why in the morning and align my emotions to it. Whatever it is that I'm aiming for during that period of my life.

The emotion I like to use is an overwhelming urge too take action and persist. It's the feeling you get while running and your mind tells you to stop, but then you push through it. Or when you're lifting weights.

When you align a powerful emotion to the visual it becomes easy to call upon motivation at will. The thing is that that rut, non motivating shit is also an emotion. When it get's activated the chemicals are in your blood stream, and so you'll have to call upon the motivation for at least a few minutes while the other crap leaves your blood stream.

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probably both. I do feel scared, i don;t know of what.
Even though i have decent memories of going out, taking action.

But somehow I can't bring myself to take enough action.


@Mr. Assertive, i see your post. And i couldn't agree more. But somehow i have plethora of excuses. I don't know why.

You have to embrace the dry spell man. You'll be planting seeds during that time. Depending on how good you are at speeding up interactions it can take you about 3 weeks to see results with BETTER girls.

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@Jackzero: You couldn't be more correct.

@Starboy: LOL! 'Why' is important. I need to find mine.

@Mr Assertive: I think I'm doing that. This is my excuse and I'm become more aware of it and i proceed with my life.

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I haven't been gaming for 2-3 months now. Been working a lot and all of sudden, it's friday night and im writing this post.
I have 2-3 girls in rotation but i would like get better quality girls.

How do you do this?
Shoot yourself in the foot. Easy.

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Man.. these 2-3 girls are your safety net and fuck up ur motivation. You need to ditch them and tell yourself that you deserve better!

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The thing is I can't seem to get myself to do it. push myself.
I feel inadequate. Maybe i'm thinking a lot.

So did you come here to bitch and moan or to actually take action and go after what you want? I don't understand crying about your feelings of inadequacy.. Get over yourself. Go after the girls you want or wallow in your sorrow and accept the fact that you're not worthy. No one here is going to baby you. Man up or give up. Just make a choice.

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“I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”

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