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I haven't been gaming for 2-3 months now. Been working a lot and all of sudden, it's friday night and im writing this post.
I have 2-3 girls in rotation but i would like get better quality girls.
How do you do this?
My motivation comes from increasing my skill level.
That's not relevant to you though.
For you, you need to discover why you want to talk to more women. The why is important because that's your motivation. What I like to do is visualize my why in the morning and align my emotions to it. Whatever it is that I'm aiming for during that period of my life.
The emotion I like to use is an overwhelming urge too take action and persist. It's the feeling you get while running and your mind tells you to stop, but then you push through it. Or when you're lifting weights.
When you align a powerful emotion to the visual it becomes easy to call upon motivation at will. The thing is that that rut, non motivating shit is also an emotion. When it get's activated the chemicals are in your blood stream, and so you'll have to call upon the motivation for at least a few minutes while the other crap leaves your blood stream.