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I've been called "creepy" quite a few times. I am a lot better than I was.
Is this something that's possible to fix?
I'll give you an example of my thought process. I see a girl in short shorts and I can see her pussy through her pants and I can even smell it and even smell her butthole. Lol.
Is that creepy or normal? I read in "Models" that in order to be successful with women, you have to realize that you will creep some of them out sometimes. But I don't want to over do it. Is there a way to fix this or is this a permanent part of me? My dad is pretty creepy. Is it genetic?
I feel like if I fixed this, I would get a lot more, but I don't know where to start or if it's possible to fix this.
What are you supposed to think about when you see a girl in short shorts in front of you?
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And to add to this and to another thread where I talked about "toxic shame," a part of that is hating your own sexuality. Thinking that it is wrong and bad. Maybe this is why it comes across as creepy. I don't know. But it's hard to just "let it out" naturally. That being said, I don't think I'm the only guy with this problem.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with sexualizing a woman, that said if you're being overt about it that can be unsettling to women as they tend not to enjoy being objectified by men they've yet to feel comfortable being around.
What are your non-verbals when you approach? Are you making eye contact, or starring at their nipples?
In addition, often times by trying NOT to engage in a particular behavior, the behavior becomes even more apparent.
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