Hey all PUA's

I've read some of the books on this subject and I've studied psychology, NLP and Sociology.

So I met this girl and I started like her to much, we texted back and forth 24/7 so i cancelled that and took things slower. This girls was very clear that she only wanted friendship (in my mind all girls like to get there pussies licked good).

When this happens I know for a fact that this has been studied and that the way to get out of the friend zone is to use sexual language, display that you are a sexual person. Maybe ask her about her sexual desires, fantasies and experiences.

So I proceeded with kino escalation and subtle sexual references in text.

And now she seems somewhat pissed at me and called me out on the sexual comments.

I'm supposed to meet up with her in the coming week so what should I say/do? Please I need help, I could let this girl go but I'm so tired of being alone I want a GF.

There is no twist here. You're going after a girl that is sexually unavailable to you and shown hostility when you tried to change it. You can't say or do anything the next time you see her to change that. You can try to push and pull her over time but just how you wrote this post it makes me feel like you don't have the mentality or ability to do that. Smart move would be to try to find a girl that hasn't disqualified you already.

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Yes I was thinking of disengaging but then she kept writing me and I suffer from one itis...

I think I will try to patch the wounds and be her friend, and then let the rest be orginical chemestry.

The thing is she does like me, and have explicity said that she would consider me as a partner but she just broke up with this abusive guy. However I do not want to tie her down I want her to live her life but I still like her a lot and would rather be friends then nothing.

She clearly wants to be friends with me there is no doubt about that but maybe not after this episode.

Maybe I will just have a good talk tell her where I'm coming from and what I expect out of our relationship. I think that is the way to go.

Girls will rarely be candid / direct with you. This is her letting you down easy -- her intentions are clear. Take it at face value and move on, OP.

If you want to be friends, fine, but you aren't in an emotional state compatible with that.

Okay you are probably right guys thank you!

I'm just quoting this because this is solid advice.

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Just going to reinforce this as this happened to me two nights ago.


Saw a girl I dated once a year and a half ago, didn't like her like that but decided to practice game on her. When I wanted her number she said "she doesn't have a phone"

Bullshit. i knew it. But I kept plowing. I said Facebook then.

She said she had one but no computer. Bullshit alert. I looked at her like "this is the best you can do ?"

Next day she adds me on Facebook .

OP this girl just told you that she isn't interested, but in an indirect way. Take NR2 advice and move on.

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Hi buddy,

How is this situation going ?

Any updates,? I am in the exact same situation, it is so hard lo let go a girl you are so crazy about.

Regards,

Sarging Pepper

You have nothing to lose, so see her as a friend, tell her you are attracted to her, but as she is "damaged goods" due to her past relationship, agree nothing will happen between you.
Then ask her to help you with other girls. Even mention a specific girl.
It may spark a jealousy trigger, or she may just help you bang some other pussy. You have nothing further to lose from your current position.

I'd suggest against getting so sexual via text message. There's not much point aside from making sure your intentions are known. Once a girl knows that you're trying to fuck her, you don't have to keep "shoving your cock in her face."

She gets the idea... So get her alone and be more aggressive with the sexual stuff THEN. Things can be taken out of context via text message. Pretty easily.

Man what kind of stupid advice is this? Seriously?

@OP,

Being sexual is not the way to get out of the friendzone, it's the way to not friendzone yourself in the first place.
Just like a vaccine is used to prevent a disease, not to cure it. It's useless at that point.

And yes, all women like sex. Just like all people like food. That doesn't mean you shoving food in my face when I clearly stated I'm not hungry will make me eat it.

I get that you're feeling lonely and want a GF but it's not gonna happen with an unavailable woman. So instead of wasting the next two months trying (and failing) to convert her, why not spend them talking to more women? Which do you think is more likely to land you that GF?

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I'll dumb it down for you as you appear too stupid to get it. Read slowly.
It's good to have female friends that you don't fuck, they attract more females into your circle.
Push her away, as currently it aint going to happen anyway.
Chase other women and see if she gets jealous or stays just friends.
It's simple stuff, unless you are stupid.

Here's why this advice isn't the best. The OP is lonely and desperate. Him trying to keep her around is going to keep him on the same hook he is on right now. Every move that he does in front of her will be for show while he secretly hopes he can change her mind about him. Doing this won't allow him to move forward.

Sometimes you have to look at the big picture.

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I agree in part with what you are saying Jack, and I agree wholeheartedly he must move on.
Only he knows if he can do it with her in the background as a friend or not.

I have just experienced it too many times when someone you have been friends with, work colleagues etc all of a sudden change their demeanor, booze helps, and they want to fuck your brains out. It happens. Usually when you don't expect it, and you are certainly not chasing them.