So lets say you like this girl. You guys finally sleep together and afterwards you're kissing her, holding her, etc, you drop her off. She doesn't say thanks had fun or anything like that. You don't hear from her. If you think she's not interested anymore how would you go about handling things?

Just leave it alone altogether?
Turn it into a FWB?
Try your luck and see if she really has lost interest?

Personally, I would have reached out by now because there's no way I really would have thought she'd lost interest. You on the other hand are too worried about it, so I would recommend that you wait for her to contact you and meet up with other women you know or meet some new ones.

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It was ya'lls first time sleeping together? Of course she's gonna be awkward about it. She feels dirty now. You do not want to ignore her. If you ignore her, she's gonna think that you just used her for sex. Nothing more, Nothing less.

She don't call you? No way! Calm down... this isn't the movies. You're not someone famous so "the girl" 90% of the time WILL NOT initiate the "call back" after sex the first time... unless you are in Junior High School.

If you haven't talked to her for 2-3 days after sleeping her... you might be able to pull her back in, but I highly doubt it at this point. Females don't like to feel like they were just used for sex (played). They want to feel wanted, needed, loved...

So good luck trying to pull this girl back into your arms... think of some GREAT excuse for not calling her back... for however long it's been. Make the excuse really huge that it would take anyone's mind off of everything.

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Huh? Why would she feel awkward?Don't make excuses for why you didn't call her.

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Why the hell didn't you contact her after????

Good question ^, lol.

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The younger generation isn't really like this, IMHO.
I typically find these are more sexually experienced girls (not necessarily numbers of men, but practice within relationships, etc) who are testing your neediness level. If you blow up her phone like this is your first time, she's bolt, lol.

But if you did your job in the bedroom, she'll be back. Give her "hey" text to let her know you aren't using her, but keep it simple.

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Damn, why don't you start texting the girl you fucked the day after ?

A simple

"you were something else last night"

will help build more comfort and keep sexual tension

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That makes it seem like sex is rare for the guy. There's a saying "act like you've been there before".

I tend to wait for a girl to contact me after sex for the first time. If she doesn't and I dig her, I'll hit her up in 5-7 days.

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You really, really care too much about what things "seem" as opposed to what they are. Close to nothing will make is seem the sex is rare for the guy if the sex is not rare for the guy.

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