Date with an "ugly" girl (I'm not interested): What to do??



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2015 9:22 pm 
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Hi guys,

I will call them "ugly girl" and "cute girl" just to differentiate. (doesn't mean she is super ugly lol)

So there was this ugly girl (that I am not interested in) that I met a while ago that kept sending me text messages saying that she would like to see me again, and inviting me for cinema, go to bars with her and so on. I always got excuses to not go on a date with her because I was interested in another girl (a cute one), however a while ago the cute girl rejected me in a polite way and I was friendzoned, so one hour later I decided to call the other girl (the ugly one) and invited her to a date (she obviously said yes in a happy way).

Now I regret the invitation that I’ve made because she doesn’t attract me, but its too late and I don’t want to be a jerk..so how should I behave at the “date”? she thinks that I invited her because I’m interested so if I get there and tell her “lets just be friends” or “you’re nice but I’m interested in someone else” would it be awkward? Or would it be more awkward to make small talk during the entire date and then finish it as soon as possible?

What should I do? I feel very stupid right now


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2015 9:52 pm 
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It was a stupid move, but I'm sure you know that.

Can you not take her on a day time coffee date and friendzone yourself? ...If you're really too scared to tell her how you feel.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2015 9:54 pm 
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Why is a girl that you're not attracted to even relevant? Fuck sake.

I need to quit forums and escape this retardation.

Geez

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2015 9:59 pm 
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Fuck sake.
^ this lol

It's weird, because you're asking for advice on how to unattract a woman... from a load of guys who spent years studying how to attract women.

Brb, asking Chris Rock how to stop being funny.

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The entire thing sounds like a waste of time.

How about you spare her the disappointment and yourself the purposeless awkwardness and just flake.

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 01, 2015 9:06 pm 
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Next time you get texts from unattractive girls, text like a woman/behave like a woman.


1. Ignore the text...if she texts again...keep ignoring...

2. Offer no investment in texts...

3. Tell her you just want to be friends at the moment...(in case she has some cuter friends...or some value you see in her)


Or you could just do number one...

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2015 11:43 am 
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- OP wants to not be a jerk after leading girl on
- OP is planning on giving her false hope and wasting her time after having led her on
- OP plans to "let her down easy" after doing the above
- OP asking how to detract girl

Peb, I don't know where you're going but I'm coming with.

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