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PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2015 4:34 pm 
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Been rather stoic lately. Has been helpful since I have been rather indifferent to what has been happening around me. Last night was dope, I went out to a club with my friends and a girl who I am on the fence to whether I want to see her again, she is on her second strike. Back to my problem, I was in the club, but I pretty much was indifferent to all the beautiful women around me. It is awesome knowing how many beautiful woman are in this world, it's like , holy shit, I love being a man and appreciating all this beauty.


I only opened a couple of sets because I had this girl with me and didn't want to neglect her since i invited her out with me. However, I wanted to be more upbeat but I was pretty chill (i didn't smoke mari j) more than usual. Maybe it was just last night...either way I had a good time with my boys .

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2015 4:50 pm 
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You can't really fake enthusiasm. It's fine to have a chill night every now and then.

If you really wanna do it though just make a conscious decision to be upbeat. It will feel counter intuitive at first but quite quickly you'll get into that mindset.

You know how smiling correlates to happiness? meaning that if you're happy - you smile. But the causality works in reverse as well. If you force yourself to smile soon enough you'll start feeling happy. Same applies with this.

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Some nights are definitely dull nights.

But you can also easily get yourself pumped up by taking a grand action of some sort. Opening sets like normal won't do it. You're already used to that. Its like adrenaline. You have to do more and more daring things to feed the adrenaline addiction.

Or you can just chill lol..

Sounds like a casual night to me.

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