This may not be worth a post but, whenever I text a girl and we are texting back and fourth quickly. as soon as I put in something saying we should meet up. there is always a long pause until the reply. I mean like a 6 hour pause. Has anyone else noticed this? I am just curious to why they do that.

Overthinking this

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If you're having back and forth's about how her day at work was and then suddenly propose a meetup, don't be surprised with the results you're getting.

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R.C. poses a great point..

Whats the conversation like before you pose the metope?

And have you talked to any of these girls on the phone?

How about you post the entire back n forth from you last texting interaction when this happened.

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Of course it's worth a post. As Mr. Assertive and PEBBLE said, you are overthinking. But what's wrong with that?

Remember that if you want to win these games, you have to be an alpha. Be on the top and simply don't give a flying fuck about the shitty feelings that amuse you and most of us. Overthinking is the right way to go down when all your efforts are focused on the top. If you are thinking too much about how long she takes to answer you, you are not being an alpha. You are putting the target on the top. Do not worry about it - maybe that's the reason she is taking so long. Some girls knows the game's rules too, never forget it.

Never overthink. Don't give a fuck.

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Just assume the best case scenario.

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Do your convos go something like this:

You: "How was your day at work?"
Her: "Good"
You:"So wanna go out?"
......tick. tock . tick . tock.....

Are you building into it, or just asking out of the blue or are you piquing her interest and THEN suggesting the two of you do something together?

E.g., the two of you get into a discussion about her lunch at work, and then segway into food, she says something about loving greek food..."K I'm taking you for the BEST greek spot you've ever been to! How's this Saturday work for you?"

E.g., "Let's go workout I"ll show you my routine - real butt burner (girls love working on their asses its the latest craze)" And before long she'll be squating on your tongue.

Anyway say it how you will, the point is you have a pretext rather than busting gout abruptly with a "You wanna go out with me?" vibe which smacks of desperation.

These guys are giving you solid advice. If you are having a conversation with a girl through text it should naturally flow into a meetup. Let me find a text message convo.

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it's not just 1 conversation it happens every time I ask a girl. No I wasn't building up to it at all, so thanks for the advice. I was just coming out with it. I didn't realize that seemed needy.