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PostPosted: Mon Mar 16, 2015 4:50 am 
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Does sex with multiple women in the same group increase the sexual desires of other women in that group? Furthermore, if women know you are getting sexual favors/desired by other women, then does that significantly increase their desire as well?

For the most part I am a low key guy, and like to keep a level of discretion when it comes to my sexual encounters. Recently I went on a vacation with a large group of mutual friends. Privacy was pretty much non existent. Although I tried to keep my sexual activity as discrete as possible, I'm sure people found out. Even if they did not witness any evidence of it, I have the feeling that girlfriends talk about it, even though they more or less swear the guy to secrecy.
The strange thing was I felt that after I had slept with the first girl, I would have to game a different group of women. That was not the case. I was on vacation for 3 nights, and slept with a different girl from our group each night. The ones I did not sleep with, I was dancing on them or made out with them. Additionally, I believed the group witnessed me getting physical with other girls, and getting a good deal of female attention. Even now, one of the girls I did not interact much with, other than with the group as a whole keeps texting me and asking me too hang out.

I don't know what the deal is, not all girls can be sluts (ones in the group, and not in the group).

I like to keep my business private, though this was an intriguing experience. Should I be more open to this type of thing in the future? Should I be trying to game social circles of girls instead of just one, as well as less discrete when talking to her friends? IDK i get the feeling that girls tell their friends anyways.

I do not want to come off as too sleazy.


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Your frame is important because it has direct impact on how you come across. Like you said, you don't wanna come off as sleezy, but rather as a guy that's confident in his sexuality.

Anyway, some women have nothing against it, others do. My advice? do whatever you want to and don't worry about what others think.

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Does sex with multiple women in the same group increase the sexual desires of other women in that group? Furthermore, if women know you are getting sexual favors/desired by other women, then does that significantly increase their desire as well?

For the most part I am a low key guy, and like to keep a level of discretion when it comes to my sexual encounters. Recently I went on a vacation with a large group of mutual friends. Privacy was pretty much non existent. Although I tried to keep my sexual activity as discrete as possible, I'm sure people found out. Even if they did not witness any evidence of it, I have the feeling that girlfriends talk about it, even though they more or less swear the guy to secrecy.
The strange thing was I felt that after I had slept with the first girl, I would have to game a different group of women. That was not the case. I was on vacation for 3 nights, and slept with a different girl from our group each night. The ones I did not sleep with, I was dancing on them or made out with them. Additionally, I believed the group witnessed me getting physical with other girls, and getting a good deal of female attention. Even now, one of the girls I did not interact much with, other than with the group as a whole keeps texting me and asking me too hang out.

I don't know what the deal is, not all girls can be sluts (ones in the group, and not in the group).

I like to keep my business private, though this was an intriguing experience. Should I be more open to this type of thing in the future? Should I be trying to game social circles of girls instead of just one, as well as less discrete when talking to her friends? IDK i get the feeling that girls tell their friends anyways.

I do not want to come off as too sleazy.

Do whatever. I have known my best friend and her friends for 4 years. I have slept with 3 out of the 5 girls in this group. They are okay with it.

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As you have already discovered.. Women tell each other EVERYTHING. And they leave nothing out. Guys tend to only talk about the highlights. Selected ones at that.

I'm like you in the matter than I NEVER kiss and tell. I learned that lesson in high school very quickly. I lot more women were open and actively trying to sleep with me until I opened my big mouth to everyone and started bragging about some of the women I slept with in the school.

My lays shot down instantly; and I haven't made that mistake since.

More so than information actually getting passed along; guys that keep their mouths closed produce a vibe and state that attracts women. Women are also a lot more likely to get extra freaky and be a lot more sexual vulnerable with you when they know that you aren't going to run off and tell people they slept with you. Even if its people they don't know; its an intuition thing.

So I'm even very selected about the stories I choose to write on my own website(without there names) about the women i sleep with. There most always be a higher purpose to the reason I'm doing it otherwise I will not. Strictly to preserve the natural sexual chemistry I have with women. 9 times out of 10 I don't even tell my closest of friends.

Any guy that starts practicing this will notice that they will get lot more lays as time goes on. The vibe they give off will slowly but surely begin to change.

But yeah man, if you're good in bed chicks will talk and other chicks will come lurking wondering what it's like. Not too many guys are offering good sex, and if you can deliver there will be a line down the block at your front door. I hear it from women all the time about all the poor sex they've had.

I say embrace it and just keep quiet. You're doing well.

P.S. this section of the forum is not exactly the section where you're going to receive relatable answers to this question.

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