| As much as you hear people say that women like to have sex as much as men, this is simply not true. My opinion is that there is a certain natural progression to hanging out with a woman, getting to know her, and then sleeping with her. One can reasonably expect certain obstacles and delays in this process. However, some women will completely ignore that process and drag it out it, complicate it, and make it excruciatingly aggravating.
There may be no good reason why she is doing this other than she is insecure or unsure, or perhaps has some personal hangups that have little to do with you. There's also the possibility that she doesn't fully like you, or there is someone else she's more focused on, and she's just playing you for attention or until she finds out if she can do better.
Believe it or not, I'm going through this exact situation right now with a girl. What I'm doing, and what I'd advise for others, is to just tighten up your game and make sure you are doing your best to game her. Build tension, push/pull, escalate, etc. At a certain point you will need to make it clear that you want to get physical beyond what she is comfortable with. That way she knows there is an expectation and she won't be allowed to continue stringing you along unless she either commits to fucking you or admitting she is not intersted in being with you. Like I always say, do something which will produce a result. Whether it's good or bad, at least you are guaranteed a result.
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