I generally don’t know what I want, to have a relationship or not. I sleep with random girls and I just cut them straight off which to be frank isn’t a good thing. I was in the club last night and some girl got my hand and made me grab her ass. Fair play, but my buddy was at the bar so I left to talk to him. 2 minutes later she is teasing some other lad. It made me think maybe I want to get back with this girl I was seeing before. Now, I’m thinking I can’t deal with the soppy shit she posts on Facebook and twitter, also her mate irritates the shit out of me.

I go out with a good see of mates that I feel comfortable with and like going out with the ‘lads’ but then I have this girl next door saying stuff like you’re nearly 23 now and you need to be with a girl for at least 3 years before you can marry hey which it lulzy but it makes you think.

If I’m going out i’m meeting new girls and acquiring new contacts ect... but I can’t find a girl I like. I am a bodybuilder which some of you may think straight away of the trait of narcissism which I’m not and don’t put too much emphasis on vanity. I just want a semi-decent girl I guess with a mint personality.

I don’t know what I should be doing and this is the point of this tread. I don’t know if I want to get back with that girl as I like her but I also enjoy single life. I’m just looking for your thoughts.

Finding a girl you're compatible with is hard. Very hard. Out of ALL the girls I've ever been with I can only say I truly liked one. Just one.

You'll never find a half decent girl in a club. Girls don't go to clubs to find decent men , they go to slut around.

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Your sentiments are shared by most. It's hard to find someone you like and you are compatible with. Most guys enjoy the single life because of the freedom and the promise of new pussy, but we also get frustrated and annoyed by all of the undesireable things women subject us to. Then we start to wonder if we'd be better off getting with some girl that we already know whom we like better than all the others we've met, eventhough she is far from our ideal. Because we think that may be as good as it's going to get.

You may not get your ideal woman anytime soon. All you can do is manipulate your life and the people in it so that you are as happy as you can be given the circumstances.

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Try different venues. Certain venue offers you certain type of women. Clubs and bars only allows you to meet very limited certain types of girls. I've know a lot of attractive women that aren't into the whole party scene and never set foot in a bar before in their lives. You should write down all the qualities that you like in a woman. Then make some research to find out the venue where most of women that possess all those qualities usually go to. Start sarging there.



EX: If you like sophisticated and high educated women, you won't find them in a noise trashy clubs. They're more than likely be in a bookstore, art show, charity events or classy wine bar.

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