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This is exactly right. They did as you said, "nothing wrong" and therefore had to find out what they did wrong. The girl in my situation, the girls before her, knew that they had done something wrong-they didn't need me to tell them what that was therefore they didn't ask.
You've said that this girl wouldn't have known that she's done something wrong. This is where you found the error. The part where you realized that you should have said "not cool!" instead of "no worries". The part that you say that it'll make her wonder and have to think about what she did wrong.
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Women are very intuitive and pick up on often pick up on non-verbal communication better than direct literal communication.
Women remember what you say. Attraction is lost and replaced with distrust when your words don't match your actions at any level of any relationship. Your words with this girl do not match your actions.
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Lol if there wasn't truth in all of this you wouldn't be so invested in "exposing" me to everyone on here.
You've already exposed yourself to everyone when you performed mind reading in another thread. You've exposed yourself when you said that you had an error in your technique that always works. You've exposed yourself when you added psychic game and stated that this girl will never flake again. My issue with you is that there are going to be noobs that read this and think what you say would work when all you do is read someone else's stuff and incorrectly apply it, call it field tested extensively, and say it always works. You don't even account for the original author of your thread saying that he gives 1 or 2 quick warning before applying a soft next. You don't account for the original author stating that this is done when a woman is causing drama. You don't account for how the original author says the women do ask why they've been ignored and you say it never happens.
I'm like that one guy who said that if the mods ever give bullshit advice, he'll expose it (paraphrasing).
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Since we are pointing out a lack of experience, this is how you mess up a relationship. A lack of definiteness on a man will lead to confusion and typically drama in a relationships. Again, as a man you lead the relationship. It also signals that you had a lack of other options and could settle for the girl you had been seeing before, since you had waffled. I have found the respectful thing to do in any situation where you want to get rid of the girl and she will actually care such as these is to tell her.
But I am not here to find cracks in the armor, only to share my experience so those can gain from it.
This is something that you say that I definitely agree with. That's why I'm glad that I found the seduction community. It helped me fix things like that and pointed out my errors in thinking. And even after fixing that, I was like you and still doing things wrong (as I've already stated). The reason I mentioned that stuff is exactly what you pointed out, it lacks definiteness and leads to confusion. This right here lacks definiteness:
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Doing a soft-next is effective in this same way because it lets her find her own answer. Why hasn't he talked to me in three days? Was it something I did? Extensively field tested.
Then again, this is why I keep saying you're fictional:
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The girl in my situation, the girls before her, knew that they had done something wrong-they didn't need me to tell them what that was therefore they didn't ask.
You can't have it both ways. You've extensively field tested them wondering if they've done wrong and then saying that they know they did something wrong.
Like I said, it's not me exposing you. You're exposing yourself.
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