Intro
I'm going to keep this short and sweet. First you have to understand a basic principle:
You have to learn to walk before you can run.
Many guys come on here with horrible social skills, no friends or social life, and generally nothing that makes them stand out in a good way yet they start asking how to approach "10s" in clubs and get laid. It doesn't work like that.
For this guide to work (and for ANY pick up guide for that matter) you need to already have some basic social skills. If you cant talk to people, make friends, and not come off as weird then you need to work on that before you worry about getting your dick wet.
If you need to work on your social skills I recommend the book
How to Win Friend and Influence People.
After you read that go out and be social. Spend a few months talking to as many people as you can. When out in public keep your nose out of your phone and talk to everyone.
The Three Obstacles
For normal guys with normal social skills there are three main obstacles that stop them from getting laid
1: The dont talk to enough women. It amazes me how many guys go out and talk to five or some women, get rejected by all of them, then come back on here complaining about how they cant get any women. Make it a goal to talk to 30 new women a week and then you can come complain once none of them jump on your dick.
2: They spend to much time on uninterested women and dont know how to get sexual. Getting sexual will make the uninterested ones go away and make the ones who do like you like you even more. If you arent sure how to get sexual you can check this out:
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3: They look like shit. Go to the gym, dress better, take care of things that make you ugly such as acne and yellow teeth. Stand up straight and look people in the eye. Lots of websites and articles on this forum and the web that can help you with this.
The Game Plan
TheMajikalMethod posted something on here a few weeks ago that sums it up perfectly:
1. Learn to look as good as possible all the time.
2. Meet a lot of new women on a regular basis.
3. Learn to screen girls quickly. Only spend time on interested girls.
4. Focus on building sexual tension and stimulating her emotionally.
5. Always move things forward sexually as quickly as possible, without making her very uncomfortable.
6. Always have a plan for how you're going to get her somewhere where you can actually have sex.
7. Never over invest in a girl. If you like her more than she likes you, step back, if you don't walk away altogether.
Decide now if you need to work on your social skills or getting laid.
If you need to work on your social skills then spend the next month talking to everyone and being social. If after that month your social skills still suck then spend another. Keep at it. You dont need to be a charasmatic salesmen or politician but you do need a baseline of social proficiency.
If your social skills are fine then spend the next month talking to at least five women a day and following the action plan above.
Approaching and talking to so many women you will probably notice problems that pop up time and time again. These are called sticking points. When you encounter one you come onto the forum, go to the Sticking Points section and post it up. Be detailed and someone will come along and help you. Then then go back out and apply the changes you were told to make and see how that works.
Keep experminting and refining things until you have a system that works for you.
That is how you learn and how you will get good with women.
Now go do it.
CHAT
