I met this stunning girl two times briefly at this night club I work at....(she came up to me) I was feeling nervous and tired so I wasn't my usual funny/witty self; unfortunately this has persisted.... the second time I chatted with her I suggested we hang out sometime and she was eager...

she's so eager to hang out that it's to the point where it's making me nervous to flirt and wonder if there's something wrong with her. we really haven't talked much.... I'm also thinking that I'm being too nice; I'm wondering if I should challenge her before I invite her or save all the flirting/attraction game for the date.... It's like I'm experiencing a sort of writer's block...

Her:
So great to meet you[my name]! Let's dance and or hang soon. (Hands praised emoji

SAT 5:12PM

Hey let's hang out sometime soon

it was nice to meet you as well...
SAT 9:40PM


Definitely! You are lovely! (Various emojis dancing, kissy face etc.
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SUN 5:05AM

really?? maybe you have me mistaken with someone else lol you keep mentioning dancing. ok I got it.
("lovely")\
SUN 10:55AM

We will go dancing sometime
SUN 12:37PM

Her:
Well I'm flex! I also like to chill out with a glass of wine. Or a cold beer! Happy Sunday!


I'm thinking about saying: can you handle an amazing adventure?

I mean, you are older than me do you have enough stamina to keep up ;p

Or
Before I whisk you away on an amazing adventure, tell me what's three unique/ interesting or funny things about you?

Dude just set up the date and bang her. Stop trying to be clever.

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These hos ain't loyal

Yea, no need to keep chatting here unless you are telling her the dirty things you want to do to her

well I might of fucked up the invite with the long message ask out, not keeping it spontaneous, and with the writing errors(was on my phone)

if you're available Thursday or Sunday evening(late evening or early evening) I could hang out.. think: amazing adventure

There's a small gallery I want to visit that has works of: Damien Hirst, Calder, and Basquiat but I'm content w doing only drinks just the same
P.s hope you're getting outside with the awesome weather

Attention all guys: stop with the adventure stuff. You're not James Bond! Once the girl is into you, step off the pua acceleration pedal and just establish where and when.

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These hos ain't loyal

Cancel the first date or reject her date idea. Basically, show her she is not in control and you don't care that much about her. But do this only if she seems like she's playing games or giving mixed signals. If you are green lit then by all means meet up asap and escalate from the moment you greet her and hug her.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Why is it so many dudes believe handling hot women is like trying to carry the hope diamond in your ass cheeks across the grand canyon on a tight rope in a wind storm?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

My message prob had too much emphasis and was too long...

she hasn't responded and prior to that message she returned my messages quickly...


I Figure I might wait a week or two and then send her a simple short message hey what are you up to tonight? come to____ if you're available to hang out...

Two weeks, and I'm the meantime go out hunting for more ass. You may end up forgetting this whole thing because you find more women!

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These hos ain't loyal

What an image!

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futility is doing the same thing over again expecting different results... change the way you do things and get different results... experiment

^ +1

great quote

You guys are my heroes haha, couldn't have said it better

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"So, what do you think is the best pick-up line?"
"Hey"

hold my beer

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A woman is basically inviting herself over, have her over. Adventure? WHY? YOU are her adventure.

I think I made this over complicated... The girl went on about how "lovely"/"amazing". so I took that as if she wanted a invite for a well planned date. even though she was suggesting activities she'd be interested in doing (dancing, drinks etc).... my message was too long and badly written. it was unnecessary. This chick is southern and traditional in some ways, so that might of been why she opened the conversation in such a way

A chick friend of mine who is big a socialite, older, suggested I send her a message Monday or sooner saying "hey what's your availability? Drinks would be cool" but she also added that I say "excuse me, I misinterpreted your message; you know, work, tired." does explaining the situation come across as desperate and not confident? [basically, overcompensating] she has the message to look back to so unlike a phone call she may hold it against me.. my friend also pointed out that two weeks is too long. and in her opinion she will have forgotten me in terms of interest and the feeling that I gave her...

Is it better to engage in conversation before asking her out again, so she doesn't just look at the previous message??? or should I just keep the conversation or date invite simple because i kind messed up the opportunity already? or should I be cocky and say "that's cool this week didn't work for me either jk..."

Another way I fucked up was that I added her on Facebook rather than taking her number. she gave me the option when we met.... I thought about something a friend had said about women forgetting you if there's no face with the name.