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PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 7:46 pm 
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i need something but i don't know what.

i am at a point in my game were i feel no need to improve or sarge. i have milked all the information between books and this forum and a few others. i am at the point where i feel no need to pick up or sarge, i have lost my desire. i was already an alpha before i was introduced into the pua world so unlike some others my goal isn't to become a more popular person(sorry if there could be a better word to describe popular, but thats how i see it). I can walk into any party and often close out any girl in the room, day game is something i could improve but i can number close in most situations anyway.

Anyways the point behind this post isn't to brag. it's to get back on track i know something is wrong with me currently but i can't seem to fix it by myself. i have no desire to pick up. i am sick and tired of running the same shit over and over on girls. i have tried changing routines and lines but in the end its always the same type of shit. i no longer want to pick up girls because the fire is gone, i feel like i don't need them because i could get them if i want (before the challenge was there, i needed to work for them)

i even went to the point where i was challenging myself by gaming older girls and juggling multiple relationships. once i succeeded with those all motivation was lost.

this shouldn't be happening, i know i should want to pick up but i see it as a game i have already beet, there is no reason to play it again. i'm not saying i am a mpua but i have not seen a post of information on any site or in any book that i did not already know.

what should i do to get back on the pick up track?

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 7:53 pm 
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hi pal,

I am exactly on the same boat as you I have no real motivation to sarge done everything and tired of it.

But I will advise you that Mystery and other top lads within the game always say never give up ? Best advice get into a ltr.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 8:01 pm 
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Maybe you can teach what you know. If there is no motivation to sarge for youself maybe going out in the field and helping some AFC's improve their game could light the fire once more.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 8:02 pm 
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Maybe you can teach what you know. If there is no motivation to sarge for youself maybe going out in the field and helping some AFC's improve their game could light the fire once more.
the problem with this is that i live in a small town and have offered to help some others and even tried to introduce the pua word to them but the rejected it. but i wouldn't mind teaching

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 4:21 am 
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I have to agree with scotch_man, get in a LTR.

That or start teaching, like See Kay said. Here's an idea. Post up a thread asking ppl in the forum specific sticking points that they have, and then go out sarging to get into the same situation as that forum member has. Then you can either post it up here or on your blog and link to it so that you can teach and help forum members here.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 4:32 am 
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hmmm... just forget about it.
get busy with something else, you're not just a PUA, you're many other things as well, right?
there is nothing that says you gotta go out all the time and try to get girls, it's okay to feel like, "hey, i'm tired of this."
you're not a robot. nothings wrong with you.

just think about something you've always wanted to do, and do it. take a class, learn something new, explore the moutains or forrests in your area, hang out with friends. maybe there are things or people you've neglected since being a pua?

just do something. you're not a one trick pony?!


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 6:23 pm 
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thx for the help guys. i think i'm just gonna take a break and focus on school right now. yesterday i went to the mall to day game and i would game a girl for like 1min and then i would just stop cuz i was like f**k this. so i think a small break is in order.

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Concentrate on school, but you still have to have a release. All work and no play just makes you a dull boy. Get a new hobby, take up golf, rock climbing, the guitar, painting.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 8:54 pm 
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No motivation?

Try this on for size, then see if you still lack motivation. :)

40-days-40-nights-vt16316.html

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 2:44 am 
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Here's something you can do:

Become a guru.

Seek to SPECIALIZE in a certain aspect or style of pickup and help others that need help in that area or in that style.

Another one...

Challenge yourself to become a mPUA for the purpose of making an accomplishment. The definition of an mPUA as according to Mystery is 5 for 5. Approach 5 sets in a row in the same night, and have a sexual relationship with the target from each set.

In all actuality, though, you don't need any more pickup stuff yourself. I think it's about time you give back to the community in whatever way you can.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 11:29 pm 
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Here's something you can do:

Become a guru.

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like i said i would love to become a guru but i have limitations because i live in a small town. once i move to toronto full time though ina year or two i will give it a try.

also

thanks guys for all your support and suggestions i am going to take it a little easy for the next month or so. i was getting to caught up in pu and made it my life. i decided to focus on school and pursuing my career in professional golf and make pua a 2nd to those. you guys are the best and i appreciate all your help.

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taht was my lil bro writing that i think his name is korona oir somthing!

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 4:51 am 
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yes srry about that when i went on my brothers comp to post that i forgot to change my account lol. my bad

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I find good motivation is to set short and long term goals for yourself. Try competing with your other wings with challenges like I can get her # within 2 min or I can makeout with her in less than 5. If you watch Keys to the VIP it shows some interesting ways if you get bored


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 1:19 am 
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actually i watched keys to the VIP last night. i was quite impressed by one of the guys who was a magician. he got a hb10's number with ease.

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