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the more I read such posts, and the more I experience this in my life, I am starting to fully grasp the curse of the text.... lol...so many things can go wrong.
This cant be emphasized enough. Simple, more direct is best. Charm in person.
Even in my one year relationship i follow a loose version of this rule: keep it light, playful,and sexual. Feelings and drama are in-person only (unless she sends novels which I then set up a meet), and not a majority of the time. Her eyes and mind should light up when she sees your texts.
Which guy do you want to be?
Texter Guy 1: Hey Susan, i was thinking about last night and the argument over what food to order. Are you mad? Things have been a bummer. Sorry bout all that. We should talk later, okay?
Texter Guy 2: Hey Susan, I want to bend you over your office desk, lift up your skirt and pound you until you beg for mercy. And if you're loud enough, maybe your co-worker Amy will come in and watch.
Texxter Guy 1: Ugh, stuck in traffic, Susan. And the boss was such a jerk today, ad it's supposed to rain. Damn. Catch you later.
Texter Guy 2: Drugs, hookers, and loud music. Let's get fucking crazy tonight.
Texter Guy 2 is how i text my gf on an afternoon. Just crazy fun shit out of the blue, no debbie downer crap.