Your problem is that you're putting all your eggs in one basket. If you only spin one plate and you drop it, you lose everything. If you spin 20 and drop 1, you've tsill got 95%... it's no big deal.

Get more girls.

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Don't ignore her unless she refuses to meet up. Don't constantly ask what day shes free, after 3 "im busy's, that doesn't work" you're done. Give her a choice for example "theres a great coffee shop downtown we should get together and catch up, what works better tuesday or thursday" Stay away from weekends girls flake more because their girlfriends invite them out. If she doesn't come up with a alternative feel free to call her out and ask if shes nervous about meeting up, she will try and justify it and if she doesn't shes not worth it. If she friend zones you invite her out and flirt with other people in front of her that will make her think " why isn't he paying attention to me, I'm better than those girls." It will make her want you.

3 times? Really? Waste of time..

Don't ignore her to play games ever. Only ignore her if you literally do not want to talk to her.

Ask what day she's free, DO NOT ask "Tuesday or Thursday?" because seconds later you'll be posting "She said she's busy on both days! What do I do?"

Coffee date? Gtfo

If she friendzones you then say "Alright. That's a shame. I think we're onto something here and would like something more than friends... if you ever feel the same way then get in touch" and cut her off. Never try to purposely make her jealous. That's needy, reaction seeking, pathetic behaviour.

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I've met up with her twice recently, the issue is her going silent. It's been a week and she's always online on Facebook and is blatantly ignoring me. It's driving me mental to go from 6 months of speaking everyday to nothing.

I don't know what I've done wrong!

Are you different in person than you are on text? Most of the guys that I have met will text me and be so much fun and great to chat with but when I meet them in person they are boring.

I would say I'm pretty similar when I meet in person. The last time we went out for drinks she complemented me a lot and said she had a really good time, however the time after that it was at a party and she was cold and distant with me.

I don't know if she's annoyed because I didn't make a move.

Lol you like wasting everyone's time here

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Well you asked so I answered.

dont do this

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Never worry bout what I do
I'd be coming home back to you
Every night, doin' you right

Your options when a girl won't talk to you:

1. Stop all contact with her or you'll look like a creepy stalker.
2. Get in shape and date other women. Eventually she'll see you with one, and if she has the slightest interest she'll reach out again.

That's it.

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I'm already in shape, I'm very much into the gym that's probably the reason I got attention from this girl in the first place. I go 4-5 times a weeks and having been going for years now. There must be a reason this girl is pissed off? Could be a number of things.

SHE JUST ISN'T AS ATTRACTED TO YOU AS YOU ARE TO HER. YOU'RE NEEDY AND IT'S SHOWING IN YOUR ACTIONS - TALK TO MORE GIRLS AND DATE THEM.

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ok I have fucked up! I asked if things were ok? and she said things were fine she had just been busy. I know this is bullshit and she is actually giving me the silent SPAM for whatever reason. I asked her again to tell me if anything was bothering her and she said everything was ok. This is the part I major fucked up! I said to her were good mates now and she should be able to talk to me, she said she knows and same to me.

I've never actually called her a mate before as it's been pretty flirty. so saying it out loud kind of makes her think that.

we just continued to talk about what we she had been up to. I don't have a clue where to go from here. I should have just chatted to her normal and then asked her out on a her date. now she will automatically think of me as a friend.

how do I bring it back so she doesn't think of me as a mate. I feel like she's put me in a position I won't get out of it.

Ugh.

You were given sound advice, man.


Read the advice I gave you and follow it. Don't be so lazy.

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I think OP is just going for another 10 page thread. I'm outta here

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