The threat of seeing other girls has already been exercised and she has no emotional attachment to this guy. She isn't going to do anything.

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Have you ever been in fb relationships? The attachment always rears its head.

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For me it lasted like ~3 months a handful of times, so the attachment was always minimal. I have no doubt it's somewhat duration-dependent, but I don't think that's important here. There's women out there who are pretty emotionless sex addicts - and given what the OP said I think she might be one. Not to mention she flat out told him relationships suck. Her turning around is going to be like him winning the lottery.

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Just about every fb relationship I've had, the women have always said that they don't like relationships. Weeks and/or months later, they start questioning how many other women I may be dating. Then sometimes they'll pull the "we can go out with other people, but only have sex with each other" or start getting jealous of other women. Then it turns into "what are we" when we've already talked about what we are. This happens when you don't say anything about wanting to change the dynamic but show that you have value.

Never take a woman at her word when she tells you that she doesn't want a relationship. She usually says that because of bad experiences. If you are giving her a good experience mentally and sexually, that claim of not wanting a relationship goes away.

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"Never" is obvious hyperbole, because there really are women out there who don't want relationships for a plethora of reasons. You're free to gamble that she's "bluffing." I agree that some will say that due to crappy previous experiences, but that's far from all women and we have no evidence of that here. I'm still betting against this happening. Hopefully the OP will fill us in down the line.

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Why would you bet against him? It's not that complex of a situation and from what OP says about himself, it's not that hard to see him pulling it off because he doesn't have to put anymore effort then what he is currently doing.

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Actually, I'm betting against her. All he said was that he's getting attached, and nothing about her.

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He also said he had other women that wanted to go out with him. He said that they have mutual friends. All of that leads to him having the ability to demonstrate value without having to say a word to her.

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Well we still haven't gone in a relationship, the main thing that i was with her in her room with her 2 roommates, and they tell me some other girl from their class came so they have girls night out, and the other girl knew me, she gave me the number few weeks ago in daygame, talked about going out but she was busy ( atleast what she told me, but we met 1 week ago at the club and i kinda refused her) my girl knew i have gamed the other girl. I really want to know if they will talk shit about me, what do you guys say ?

That's a good thing especially if you're good in bed. Girls tell other girls if their guy makes them orgasm a lot, and other girls get envious.

It's rather hilarious.

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She ended up texting me at 3:20 am and called me at 4:10 again, don't know what she was doing, but i was sleeping

Chasing you

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Well she is attracted to me, but the thing is i want to lose the need of seeing her, before i become needy and shit, need some advices. I was teasing her few days ago and she told me " you really don't care about me at all ?", " and i told her that she really got under my skin, not like most girls. Maybe needy move ?. And today i called her at 2 pm and told her im comming over ( had a bad day and wanted to talk to her) she said she is gonna take a shower and call me after to come it's 19:30 and she didn't call. Btw usually i never initiate conversation with her, only today i did. Any advices guys ? Really getting tired of feeling the need of seeing her.

The need to see her is because you don't have any control over the situation with her. Don't get defensive when she makes a claim on how you feel about her. Her making that statement was her telling you how she feels. If she didn't really care about relationships, that would never be a topic for conversation. You explaining that she gets under your skin was enough to help her establish the position of power over you when you could have made her explain how she came to that conclusion which would have given you a more dominant position.

So you want to get over the feeling of needing to see her? Don't be so eager to vomit your feelings and let her be the one that's more concerned about where she stands with you. When you don't give her that same emotional security that you have been giving her, she's going to want it again and will work for it. If she's working for it, you'll start feeling more secure in where you stand with her and you'll drop the needy mentality. Until then, fake it until you make it.

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