Hello. I need some tips to improve my text\SPAM game.
I have this childhood friend, she is living in another country now, and she comes back every summer, and i am planning to try my luck with her when she comes here. And so i am trying to generate some sort of Attraction with her via texting.
The tactic im using is just "10 minutes or more between each answer, with the occasional fast response \ treat"
i dunno if this is being efficient, but i notice that the more i "ignore her" the more needy she kinda gets, and the more she spams me. (slowly, gradual increase in spam over time, not instantaneous).
Im also not complimenting her, and i am disguising some negs (I guess thats what u call masked critiques?) inside banter, and whenever she tries to GayFriendize me with her daily problems instead of offering help, i just say stuff like "ohh

thats fucked up" or something like that (I show some sort of empathy but dont give too much shit careing about it).
I said to her that when she comes back to our country i will take her out to have some fun (i didnt ask, i just said we would) and she told me to take her to a certaina place in my city (which i will not disclose because of privacy thing), and i told her "if u deserve it

"
of course for obvious reasons i will not reveal personal details because everything we write here goes to google, but u understand that..
She lives a lot on the social networks to compensate her lack of social life in her new country, so i think that is an advantage for me.
And btw, she has some fanatic religious girl friends that are a lot toxic to her and try to turn her against me, and i am atheist
Any Tips on how to generate attraction in a situation like this where face-to-face real life contact can only happen rarely? I really want some help here...
Any books or tutorials dedicated to social networking and seduction?