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PostPosted: Fri Jul 08, 2016 1:11 am 
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The women who want to be a challenge, only do so because they dont have anything else to offer.
I hate to agree, but I do. At least that's my experience with the "I'm a challenge" women.

Smart, attractive, and sexual women respect a man's time and go for what they want.

If a woman is still playing "the challenge" two dates in, I'm gone...unless she's a 9 or 10. I've left many 7's and 8's "challenge" women in a trail of meh dust.

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Another fallacy.

Note how the troll emphasizes that a "man" gave her the advice. She wants you to infer that her argument is the mature perspective.

In reality, don't judge women by their being challenging. Embrace sluts, if you have to use the word. You can judge someone by the quality of the company they keep, in terms of their character. Their actions in the bedroom...or the back of a van, are a different matter entirely.

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The women who want to be a challenge, only do so because they dont have anything else to offer. When you make yourself a challenge, the other person's focus is now away from you and is now on achieving something. And that doesnt last long.
I don't sleep with a man on the first 3 dates, or at all, depending on how I feel for him, because sex is an intimate act shared between 2 people. That's how I view it and I hold true to myself.

Many men on here will sleep with a chick like it's a handshake. This is from a strictly animalistic point of view.

But I disagree about the whole anything else to offer. Maybe some women, but not all women.
And this advice was coming from A MAN.


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Another fallacy.

Note how the troll emphasizes that a "man" gave her the advice. She wants you to infer that her argument is the mature perspective.

In reality, don't judge women by their being challenging. Embrace sluts, if you have to use the word. You can judge someone by the quality of the company they keep, in terms of their character. Their actions in the bedroom...or the back of a van, are a different matter entirely.
Yes, it was a man. Oh, and for your information, open the book Robert Green "Art of Seduction". Because I'm not a revolutionary when it comes to this idea.


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The women who want to be a challenge, only do so because they dont have anything else to offer.
I hate to agree, but I do. At least that's my experience with the "I'm a challenge" women.

Smart, attractive, and sexual women respect a man's time and go for what they want.

If a woman is still playing "the challenge" two dates in, I'm gone...unless she's a 9 or 10. I've left many 7's and 8's "challenge" women in a trail of meh dust.
Does it never occur to you people that sex in an intimate act? If you're sleeping around with a woman on the 2nd date, what's so special about it?

You haven't developed enough bonds, enough intimacy, enough of a connection to really feel the same in sex.


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The women who want to be a challenge, only do so because they dont have anything else to offer.
I hate to agree, but I do. At least that's my experience with the "I'm a challenge" women.

Smart, attractive, and sexual women respect a man's time and go for what they want.

If a woman is still playing "the challenge" two dates in, I'm gone...unless she's a 9 or 10. I've left many 7's and 8's "challenge" women in a trail of meh dust.
Does it never occur to you people that sex in an intimate act? If you're sleeping around with a woman on the 2nd date, what's so special about it?

You haven't developed enough bonds, enough intimacy, enough of a connection to really feel the same in sex.
What makes you think that you can't continue to bond after sex? There is no rule that says that there is a specific order to create connections.

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Does it never occur to you people that sex in an intimate act? If you're sleeping around with a woman on the 2nd date, what's so special about it?

You haven't developed enough bonds, enough intimacy, enough of a connection to really feel the same in sex.
Utter bollocks. The ,ore impulsive the better IMO. Some of the most intense 'Bonds' have been from meet to the bedroom within 30mins

But this more from turning her on, on the dancefloor and taking her home.

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Does it never occur to you people that sex in an intimate act? If you're sleeping around with a woman on the 2nd date, what's so special about it?
If you aren't finding a person where the both of you can't keep your hands off each other, you're running into/dating the wrong men.

Attraction, as others have said, is not a choice.


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You haven't developed enough bonds, enough intimacy, enough of a connection to really feel the same in sex.
Sometimes it's just there, at least physically. And if you have self-awareness and keep doing this, hopefully the emotional part can kick in through positive shared experiences and interesting chats.

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It's amazing how girls love Justin Beiber without even dating him or 'creating a bond'... lol

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My point is, waiting 2-3 dates is as much risk reducing as deciding not to fly a plane so as to reduce the risk of transportation accident.
As for the stats, do the search yourself, you'll go to bed a smarter lady.

Uhuh, I see. And your advice would be what? To meet men at their house on initial dates?
I'm telling you that not taking the plane ain't gonna reduce significantly your chances of transportation accident, and you retort "Right, so your advice is to drive with a bottle of Chivas in one hand and a joint in the other!"
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I don't think it's so much waiting 2 to 3 dates. More to do with getting a better idea of who the person is before being alone with them. In theory creep guy or aggressive guy would get screened out before date 3 so a chick wouldn't go to his house.
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A guy who wants to rape you won't mind waiting 2-3 dates and play the gentleman.
The idea that rapists are mainly creeps or aggressive guys who can't control themselves is a fallacy developped for the sake of action TV series.

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Don't date guys with these type of glasses:

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This will filter out the rapey dudes

A lot of these rape claims are the girl getting buyers remorse and then putting the blame on the guy to justify her shame.

Like Stoliar says...The cliche is being stalked by rapists in dark alley's but it tends to be a date gone wrong, perhaps mostly due to the girls playing head games with him, but hey ho....Let's stick with the dark alley rapists

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From a guy's point of view, this experience depends on your own level of attractiveness. For a guy, if you are doing online dating or cold approaching and getting new tinder matches every day, or going out and grabbing a bunch of numbers every day, you can afford to screen out girls for easier dates. Girls that are too picky or want to be a challenge just get tossed aside in favor of easier more appealing options. The majority of women are not going to be very excited for a house date immediately, but there are going to be girls that know exactly what is going down and if they think you are hot enough and you are not crude or pushy about it, they will be willing to do close to anything. This makes the screening process much easier, as a date that starts at your house, is a much easier date to pull off and takes next to no effort.
First off, I don't do Tinder, never have, not interested. It's mainly known for getting you quick lays. Secondly, I don't think asking to meet in public is that much of a big effort. Thirdly, it depends what your're looking for. Are you looking for an easy lay? Are you looking for commitment? Because that really sets the tone of the date. If you're looking for an easy lay, then you're going to put less effort in. If you're looking to settle down, then you will put in more effort.
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Also you should keep in mind when on dates that it isn't how long you make a guy wait that makes him decide if you're a keeper, it is how much of a connection he feels with you.
Actually, it depends on the type of guy. There are men with high regard for their culture and religion, as an example, Arabs. Arabic men highly value virginity. A woman that gives it up too easily isn't valuable in their eyes. That's not to say they are bad guys, or good guys. It's a preference.


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A lot of these rape claims are the girl getting buyers remorse and then putting the blame on the guy to justify her shame.

Like Stoliar says...The cliche is being stalked by rapists in dark alley's but it tends to be a date gone wrong, perhaps mostly due to the girls playing head games with him, but hey ho....Let's stick with the dark alley rapists
Rape is a serious crime. Buyer's remorse? So she slept with him willingly, didn't like him after, then claimed it was rape? I don't think that's how most rape victims operate. Even in the 'mildest' scenario of rape, if a girl says stop, you be a gentleman and stop.
Rape is a serious crime. Please don't tell me you're one of those guys amongst many that believes if a woman was walking down the street with a miniskirt, she brought it upon herself.


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Don't date guys with these type of glasses:

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If he took off his glasses, fixed up his hair, and worked out a bit, he would be an attractive guy.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 08, 2016 9:56 am 
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Stoliar:

It doesn't matter what I say because at the end of it all, you're still on a mission to point out everything I say is wrong, skewed, illogical, etc. Whatever. You do you.


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