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From a guy's point of view, this experience depends on your own level of attractiveness. For a guy, if you are doing online dating or cold approaching and getting new tinder matches every day, or going out and grabbing a bunch of numbers every day, you can afford to screen out girls for easier dates. Girls that are too picky or want to be a challenge just get tossed aside in favor of easier more appealing options. The majority of women are not going to be very excited for a house date immediately, but there are going to be girls that know exactly what is going down and if they think you are hot enough and you are not crude or pushy about it, they will be willing to do close to anything. This makes the screening process much easier, as a date that starts at your house, is a much easier date to pull off and takes next to no effort.
First off, I don't do Tinder, never have, not interested. It's mainly known for getting you quick lays. Secondly, I don't think asking to meet in public is that much of a big effort. Thirdly, it depends what your're looking for. Are you looking for an easy lay? Are you looking for commitment? Because that really sets the tone of the date. If you're looking for an easy lay, then you're going to put less effort in. If you're looking to settle down, then you will put in more effort.
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Also you should keep in mind when on dates that it isn't how long you make a guy wait that makes him decide if you're a keeper, it is how much of a connection he feels with you.
Actually, it depends on the type of guy. There are men with high regard for their culture and religion, as an example, Arabs. Arabic men highly value virginity. A woman that gives it up too easily isn't valuable in their eyes. That's not to say they are bad guys, or good guys. It's a preference.
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