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The Hail Mary for a flakey girl
'It's going to be REALLY awkward If you're going to be this quiet when we have sex
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Use with caution
Yeah , I remember reading this one from you last year as the high risk one.
Side note, since you mentioned it. I also remember the one "House is dirty and messy, kids are wondering where you are. We are worried you have been kidnapped". I have used the second one last year after one month no contact with an Indian girl (first date made out in the car, then chatted with texts, called, tried to set up another meeting, was flakey and then she was going away for few days, told her to send me a text when she is back and nothing). Long story short, had couple more dates, took her back to my place, made out at my house, picked her up took her to bed, she froze out, gave me speech that she takes time to sleep with someone and guys in the past have stopped contact with her because she was not sleeping with them, then she started talking about random stuff. Had one more date about 3 weeks later after I came back from holidays but didn't go anywhere.
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I agree with alot of pumpingtons assessment here. My guess is you did too much teasing and it got tiring. I mean damn man, you ran the fasting/breakfast food talk into the ground. I think what pump was talking about is annoyance on her side, and I cant blame her because I groaned reading it. Shes probably thinking shes not in a rush for date 3 and more banter back and forth. Teasing without escalating = not good.
Also, heres the thing about inviting a woman to your place. Most women know what that means. The problem is, she has to be in the mood to fuck you, and if you havent turned her on prior or currently, she's not going to want to come over. You gotta seduce a chick, and this talk of fasting and breakfast was not seductive. Jumping her bones on date 3 at your place, unless she was really into you, is not a good move.
If in your country kissing is forbidden in certain places, you gotta arrange your dates differently. Cause you shouldnt have been taking her to places you couldnt kiss, and you shouldnt have been delaying moving her to a more private location. You say you like to be playful; well you have to use that playfullness to escalate. Trying to push her in the pond, laughing, then grabbing her and kissing her deeply = GREAT. Trying to push her in the pond and doing nothing after = CHILDISH. Use that playfulness and familiarity to move her. Not for callback humor.
- Probably true about the too much teasing.
- Last 2 text interactions there was no effort to be seductive. Could have easily flirted with the vampire context.
- Noted about the playful vs childish. I can modify it in the future to give a more touchy and sexual vibe. e.g. " try to push, laugh, put our arm around her waist and say "Hey, I am not that bad of a person. I don't wanna get you wet... (pause) Yet "(grin)"
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