I have seem to run into a dry spell. Yup, the longest dry spell since I lost my virginity at 19. I think it has been about 3 weeks going on a month by the end of the week, since my last lay. I got too involved with my main chick and neglected a lot of areas of my life. Eventually, things got too much for me and I have since then parted ways with the main chick. Right now, my rotation is at a nice 0. I just went on a date yesterday with a single mom of 19 years of age. She seemed flustered by my presence, like she really likes me. I have become pretty calm and aloof and struggled to acknowledge her feelings. Maybe she might be my first lay. Maybe I might screw it up, but I am ready for anything. I am chatting up a few girls but am struggling to make it into dates, I have been flaked on a couple of times and honestly that is the nature of the beast. I do know that once I get my first girl for my rotation, everything will come naturally. I have went back to the books, rereading, resfreshing my memory. It is definitely easier since I have done this over the years.


Thankfully, I have been busy with work and my job. I have been practicing my guitar, I hve been going to the gym, I have been eating healthier and getting ok amounts of sleep. I have been on a good groove improving myself. This time last year I was going through a destructive break up with my ex and we lived together, I gained weight, hated myself, hated life, hated chicks and went through a two month depression. It is funny to see the opposite happened this time. I am calm, I am not depressed, rather anxious to keep going and improving my life for the better.

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I got bored and decided to break the streak. Decided to put my dick in crazy.

This girl has been blowing my phone up for weeks. I have been ignoring her and not going to her house because she got severely attached after our one date. I decided to go over to her house Thursday night and I got down to business. I came to her door and kissed her immediately. After some fondling, I told her I wanted to go lay down. We went to her bedroom and got the deed done. After sex, she looked at me and she told me she loved me. I said thanks and resumed cuddling. I told her i had to leave in 20 minutes because I had work in the morning....


I will never call her again.

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Lay Report for Friday.


This is pretty long...but alot happened. ALOT.

Sure. I got laid Thursday...I did Friday as well. It was party bus time!!!!! My best girl friend was having a birthday night and she got a party bus. This was a big deal for me...I was going to become integrated into her social circle even deeper, she hangs out with cute girls because she works at a restaurant where they only hire attractive women. My roommate and I were fashionably late. We came in and there were about 5 guys to 10 girls. Man, was I going to use this social proof to my advantage. We had dinner and I was chatting with my boys while eyeing up the girls in the group, I introduced myself to a couple, not the rest because it was a long table and I didn't want to yell in a crowded restaurant.


I did some maneuvering though, I forgot a condom! I told my friend that I would leave for a second to go to my car and she started pouting lol. I loved it, I handled her like a I would do to a little brother, I blew her a kiss and told her I would be back soon. Once I came back, I went to the bathroom to regather my game plan. I came to the table and proceeded to chat with the rest of the group. When it came to the party bus, I was ready. We started passing a bottle of fireball with everyone. I knew that no one in the group was comfortable being the life of the party...so I told my wing that myself and him would share that spotlight. I told my buddy to crank up the tunes and lets get this started. The first half hour was slow, everyone was getting into the groove slowly but surely. I maintained my composure and told everyone to keep up the tempo. I did neg the 5 girls in front of me lol. The other dudes were sitting by each other and I couldn't fit so I sat in a spot surrounded by chicks. I made it work, they were like "oh you wish you were broing out with your buddies over there" and I told them yeah...you guys just aren't doing it for me I need some life to the party. Then the girls let down more of their guard and started really getting into it.


The party bus came to its first destination: the strip club. My friend wanted to take everyone there before going downtown to a club. I KNEW that no one would be comfortable enough to start giving the stripper money. So I told my wing listen, no one here will start the party here either. We have to motivate them. My wing went to the stage and proceeded to throw ones on the stripper lol. I was about to join him when one of the girls opened me. She was like "heyyyy gimme a hug, you haven't said hi". This girl kissed me out of nowhere in the past. I gave her a hug and I knew she wasn't going anywhere. I had to help my wing with the mission of getting the party started. I sat down next to two semi prudish girls and I convinced to go to the stage. Once they did, most of the other people did. We all proceeded to throw some ones on the chick lol. And the chick after that and after that.



It was time to move the party downtown. We had more drinks. We were in party mode. My wing put on some banging tunes and everyone was singing along to the song. It was a great ride. I knew who my target was, it was the girl who hugged me. Once we got inside, she singled me out and said we are taking shots. I knew I was going to game her. I proceeded to look into her eyes and started kissing her. She then pulled me to the dance floor where we proceeded to grind on each other....long story short, I was with her for the night, regurlarly taking breaks and checking with the other people. It was getting late and we were all saying our goodbyes. Unfortunately my girl was being taken away by her roommate. Her roommate has cockblocked me twice....I don't know if she doesn't like me or what...but I managed to number close her and gave her a kiss goodbye.



THE NIGHT DOESN'T END


It was around 2:30 in the morning. I told my wing, hey, lets go to the bars. We went to one of our favorite watering holes and my wing kinda broke the wing code and started chatting up some chick once we got into a bar. I was looking for a target and wow...a mutual friend of ours comes in with her little orbiters of guys. I chose her. I quickly went to work, I am deadly when I get into a one night stand mode. Very foward, very drunk, very agile with the wordplay. I quickly isolated her and asked her if she wanted a drink. The dudes had no chance, they asked me how did I know her, and I quickly told them "through college" and proceeded to keep chatting with Linda. We did tequila shots and I gazed into her eyes. She was feeling it too....we started making out...and she at first was like "I am drunk" while smiling, i knew it was the LMR. I just said "mhm" and kept my kisses coming, she was feeling it.


Eventually last call came and I was like lets go outside. My wing finally found us and offered to drive us home. She said she drove but she decided to drive her to her car. I wasn't letting this get girl away. I told my wing that I will chat with her and let you know if I am coming home with you or not. I looked at Linda and without hesitation said "Lets go home" she at first said how are you getting home....I just shrugged and she said she would drive me back lol. She was horny. So we drove to her house and I kept chatting her up. Sealed the deal, and the in the morning to reduce LMR, I snuggled with her until she drove me back and I said I will see her later.


Don't even have her number, but we both know we will be at the watering hole.


Sadly, the girl that was whisked away by her girlfriend texted me at like 4 in the morning. My phone was died...and I was already moved on.... Time to get this bread....


Stay tuned.

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I am crazy.


The girl that my phone died on was at the bar. I texted her earlier in the day and she didn't respond back...so you know what ? I called on another girl and invited her and her friend out. We hit it off well, she was already making sexual advances with me when I came to the bar. My roommate winged me with her friend...she wasn't ugly, but but, her teeth weren't exactly pretty lol. She had a stain on her tooth that I can't explain through text, it was just noticeable...this turned off my wing. I knew i couldn't take her home, another obstacle came up, there was a third friend that was coming. It was her birthday...how cool would i look if I just zoned in on my chick. I told the girls "listen, your friend wants to go to the club, you should take her there and make it a good time for yall".


Of course they wanted us to come but I did it for my wing. I didn't want him to stick with girls he didn't want to. He was being polite about it and saying everything is good, but I know my wing and he wasn't feeling it. I told my girl hey we can schedule another meetup at my house. She was very aggressive though. She claimed me in front of the whole bar. Put her hands around me and everything. The girl that I gamed the night before was in the back of the bar. I know she was watching, i know that she noticed me. When I went to go get a drink her roommate tried opening my friends and I was within ear shot. I politely said hello, but I couldn't ditch the other girl...besides she didn't answer my text, so I was keeping myself free.


She did mention "was that you that texted me" ? And i brushed it off and was like "save my number this time, make it count, make it memorable"


I then went to see the other girls off. After they left I rejoined the girl I gamed the night before, but I know it would be a dick move to go after her after having a girl all over me. I knew I had to do some ground work, and dial it back a bit. My wing handled her roommate. She was pretty cute, I knew my roommate would be happy with the situation this time. We gamed them... I kinoed both girls to assume the Alpha status. Of course, I kept my wing right up there with me. He is learning from me, I like working in teams of two...anything more than that, ehhh not for me. I work better alone but my wing is doing a decent job and i don't mind having him as the second dude.


I knew I couldn't take Melissa home, so I just gamed her normally since I knew she was still hungover from the night before...the night ended at last call. I said goodbye to both girls and my wing and I went home....


If any seasoned players want to make a comment by the way feel free, i am open to learning a few things.

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This isn't about pickup. This is just to update you to what is going on in my life. How it is coming together.


I have taken up the gym and it has done me well. I feel more confident, I feel sexy and when I feel sexy, I own it. I want to make others feel what I am feeling. Eating wise, I need more help, I am not eating totally clean but I am losing weight little by little and that is all that matters. Other than that my health is okay.



Career wise: I am making moves, I want to become a nurse, and no, not because it is a field dominated by women. I have pondered being a nurse ever since I was in college. I have been working in a group home the last 8 months. I can handle cleaning a little shit and handling some blood. Actually, I have taken a permanent position at my group home as the Team Leader. It's funny, the whole house is with women too.....I didn't pick that house by the way, Human Resources needed a Spanish speaking person and I was chosen to go to that house. There is one other dude but that guy is married. I am definitely not going to sleep with any of them, I know better. i will befriend them though, and pickup has prepared me to handle the mood swings of my coworkers. I am just being revolved around women...I can't imagine the way being a nurse will be like. Just on the floor the girls etc. Of course, i am doing it because I feel like I would be good at being a nurse. I may even want to be the head nurse, run my little harem and do work I enjoy.


I am going back to school soon. I do need to get my medicine for ADHD. It isn't set but I was diagnosed with ADD. LOL. So me being aloof is actually me daydreaming. Go figure. It only helps in the beginning of a relationship. It is detrimental in a long term relationship. The girl thinks I don't care and feels unappreciated and unloved. That is why I am seeking help for this.


Financially, I am doing okay. I have saved up money over the two years. I won't be broke any time soon. I am thankful to god and everyone that has kept me on the path to being responsible. I know I haven't been an angel all the time but who's perfect ?


I am in a good place right now. I don't regret being a long term relationship when I am young. I am glad that I got into one with an older woman. She taught me a few things. I learned a few things about myself. Unfortunately, she was set in her ways, and we didn't see eye to eye on things. I ended it awhile ago. Lately as you guys can see, i just started up my player status. I want to see it through this time. I want to enjoy being a fresh 25 year old. I am ready to master my skill. I am ready to learn and to teach.

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LOL, I haven't been this harshly rejected in a long long time. I kinda was stumped for a few seconds.



It was ladies night at a local bar. It really isn't ladies night, hordes and hordes of dudes come in during rush hour and really, really try to get laid. I dislike it, every girls bitch shield is on unless you roll in with your own group of chicks. Which I did the first time, and girls were more open to talk to me. This time, I didn't have them so I thought I would try using my own skillsets without a social proof. I had two wings with me.


it was going ok in the beginning before all the people came in. I found a spot at the bar near two older ladies who were drinking and finishing up. At first I took it slow, I was trying to get some drinks me and my buddies. One of the girls were in the bathroom (I assumed at the time, since it was an empty seat) so I didn't talk to my target yet, just stayed in arms length trying to get my drink. Once her friend came, I made a small comment of "oh someone was sitting here" and they were like "yeah yeah, we were just closing out our tab"


At this point I am ordering drinks and they close their tabs. I waited for 10 seconds to see if they would bounce. They didn't so I opened. "Calling it quits already ? Blah nblah"


The girl closest to me started telling me how she was out of town. blah blah, I started asking them how they knew each other. I made sure to touch them on the elbows, and establish friendly touching.


I then pawned the girl I wasn't talking to my wing to which HE later complained that I threw him the grenade. I was like "bruh, I opened, I choose". I talked to the cuter friend who was 28, she gave me the boyfriend line I just told her "wait, what's a boy....boyfriend?" "huh".....and continued the conversation.


She didn't want to give me her number but I got her Facebook. Maybe I should have persisted but I didn;t. Then more people started rolling into the bar. Friends...saying hi to me and interrupting our conversation....I didn't want to blow them off...and it was interruption after interruption. Maybe it was a good spin, social proof, but my target was cut off when she was going on a rant. I apologized after 3 interruptions. But she left after lol....oh well.


So girls i knew came into the bar...same old same old. i DIDN'T want to rely on them. I wanted to open myself...I opened another set. I coulda swore she gave me an approach invitation, but of course it was too damn crowded and the dude cut off my path to get to the bar LOL, I was goddamn this was supposed to be smooth. The girls interpreted as me being hesistant...like a unit they formed a closed circle, I still tried to open them but damn, were they unreceptive, they even moved away.... it was about damn time I was rejected. It was great. I ain't shit lol. I have been becoming cocky and I was glad i was shutdown like that.



Anywho, I couldn't realistically open any more sets, it was just so crowded. So I decided to find the social circle and work on a girl I have been working on. I gamed her and took my wings home.

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FIELD REPORT.


This is my birthday week. I will be 25! God, I feel old lol. I actually have two field reports for Friday and Saturday. So this post will be for Friday.




FRIDAY


My roommate's friends invited him to their house for a pregame, but my boy only wanted to stay for the pregame and not go out to the bars after. I tried to coax him but he's been feeling sickly. This was my chance to inherit a new social circle and becoming one of the leaders in the group. It was going to be tough because the people in this group were a year under me in college so they are tight. But, I just have to show that I am a cool dude and I will be set. And that is what I did.



I went to the house and gamed the top person there that gets laid the most. His game is good, he is a well put together white boy. Very smart. It was just the guys in the beginning, the girls came later. I was not trying to get wasted or drunk, I have been going out so much the last two weeks. I was just laying back and watching the boys play some games. The unsaid leader of the group kept trying to push me into the game because he said out loud "Mr. A, always so calm and collected" which was a good little compliment to which I just put my drink up in the air as a form of thanks.



Then the girls came in. I knew a couple of them, and they knew me. They got fat. I was totallly put off. But I gamed them anyway. I noticed the hottest one of the group right away, I gave her minimal attention and talked to everyone else. I did grant her eye contact here and there but she turned away every time.

We all played flog, it was a combination of pong and flip cup. I was on the team with Mike (the dude I have been complimenting to get an in with the group). He recruited, straight looked at me and was like " i want you on my team" the girls were on opposing teams. Perfect. I got into the groove of things, everyone was having a good time, I was killing flip cup. One flick two flick , cup down.

As time went on, I touched Mike on the shoulder and asked him when are we leaving. He went to work on rounding up his social circle and said we are leaving soon, call the cabs!

My wing introduced me to the girls, since they know him more, I opened them and introduced myself. It was going to be tough, they don't know me as well as the other guys, so I made sure to smile and make a good impression.

THE BAR

I asked Mike right away what his plan was for the night. There were about 7 chicks in the group. He told me that him and his boy have an eye on two and pointed them out for me. I thanked him and mentally told myself that I will not be part of his wingman mission so I needed to go solo.

I opened the guys first, and then I opened on of their girlfriends to get warmed up. Now it was time to go to work. I chatted with the bartenders for a few minutes. I managed to get a name, so everytime i needed something I just yelled "AYO Becky!"


I watched the room, took in the scene. Some guys were not doing anything, either too scared or just not trying to do things tonight. I did not give those guys attention. I watched one dude open a 3 set in the corner, they were not part of our social circle, so I kept that in the backburner of my mind. My boy Mike and his boy were grinding on their chicks. Good for them. I opened a two set in the group, i knew one girl, she was a jersey chaser a.k.a. fucked only athletes back in college. I was cool enough to be considered at the time, as she would flirt with me BUT if an athlete came into the room, she would flock to him.

She was not my target, she got chubby and she didn't look cute tonight. I was gaming her friend, eh she was alright, I needed a layup.. Her friend was receptive but I felt that I intimidated her. After running some attraction game, I excused myself and I asked Mike what was up with her, I knew he would know. He told me if I want blue balls to keep talking to this girl. She was very reserved. He told me that a couple of the boys tried talking to her but that it didn't go nowhere. Good to know I told him. I put the girl in the backburner, just to speed up this field report I asked the girl I knew what her girl studied in school, and she had the balls to tell me "she has a boyfriend" I straight up told her "who cares, I asked what she studied". She told me biochem and I was on my way. I managed to get out of her that she's only been with two men in her life. I fucking knew it. I decided to game this chick later on in life.


Now, I noticed the guy who opened the 3 set wasn't doing a good job. But I noticed another girl in the social group who is chill as hell walk into the bar. She had a boyfriend in the group but he wasn't there. I bumped her from behind and she gave me a playful bitch stare, to which I playfully disarmed with a wink and a smirk. She and chatted for a second and then gave me a beautiful push she asked "so not having any luck here ?" I smirked and said "luck ? lol, who needs that"


I immediately went to the 3 set the guy was bombing with. There was an open seat next to the cutest chick in the group. I slid into the chair and looked her straight in the face and said "sup" lol. She smiled and I made light of the situation "smooth huh, saw how just slid into this chair" she laughed more. We started talking and she revealed she got in with a fake. A sophmore in college. Her friends checked in on her, I asked her to introduce me to her two friends and they were not a problem ever since.


She mentioned she didn't have a drink and needed a drink. I WAS NOT BUYING HER A DRINK. I told her "ok go get a drink" and she said "oh but I am broke blah blah" and I had such a genius idea ....wait for it....

I told her to use her looks to get a drink. She looked at me like she didn't know what I was talking about...a girl that hasn't realized her power over the average man since she is only 20. I took the role as the coach and I told her that I would coach her to get a drink. So we had fun scoping out prospective guys to


At first we saw an older man who had a beer belly. I told her to go that one, she was like "ugh, that one? " and I was like "it will only hurt for a second" what a great sport...she went for it but she came back and I was "come here sweety, why didn't you go for it" just like a little puppy she came back. She noticed the man had a lady on the side she got cold feet and thought it was his wife or something.

I showed how secure I was. The next dude I picked was taller, decent good looking guy. I told her, "alright alright, I'll give you a cute guy this time, how about that one" , lol, she wouldn't do it, intimidated by him.

So I led her to another area of the bar we scoped out a dude in a blazer, maybe PUA, but I introduced them and left. She did it!!! She got a drink for the first time . The dude came back to the three set with her but she sat next to me, so the dude started hitting on her friend . My girl started to tell her friend how that dude bough her a drink and that he is hitting on her now.


I Facebook closed her first. I took the chance to make fun of her name. Then I number closed her. It was getting late, my social circle was leaving so I decided to leave. I gave her a hug goodbye and the next day texted her about how she should have hit on the old dude. She laughed and thanked me for coaching her and teaching her a valuable life lesson.


I'll see her again sometime. She has finals next week, most college people do. But now, if I play my cards right, I will have an in for one of the colleges for the year to come.

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Saturday


I met out an old fuck buddy of mine. She was rolling with a going away party. We haven't seen each other in two years. She went to Africa and found a black man that she married but they had a falling out early this year and she is back on the horse.


We reconnected a couple weeks ago. Lately, I have been gaming her more and more. She was an awesome friend. And a nice fuck. My roommate came out with me this time. I was looking good, and I felt good. I rolled into the bar and looked around the room, they were cool looking people. I noticed some girls give me some eyes and I just smiled and moved on to find my friend Sam.


Sam was in the back playing with two dudes. One of them wanted her but when I rolled up I introduced myself to them and then her. My roommate was real cool, he helped me engage the group. At one point one of the dudes left. So it was just us three, I bullshitted with my roommate, my friend's dude was trying to game her, but I have no idea what happened, he left. Maybe I have more game than I thought. I gamed her some more with my roommate, she was very receptive to me, like old times.

I asked her to introduce us to the rest of the party, i went up to them and introduced myself with her help. My roommate was in too. So we all bullshitted for some time until we all went to the next bar. Most of the group left to go home. Before we went, my roommate ran into a girl he had sex with once and she has been giving him the runaround ever since. I tried to encourage him to be positive but he has been on a dry spell for the last 3 weeks. Oh well, her friend was all over me. She wasn't cute but damn was she all up in my face. She demanded I take down her number when we were about to leave to the next bar. I said sureeeeee. Only because my roommate needed to get his dick wet with the other girl. I will just play along. It's the least I can do, he has been winging me for the last couple of weeks.


So we go the next bar and it's dead. The bouncers know us since we go there like 4 times a month. I spot a girl that I used to fool around with and she is giving my girl Sam the competitive girl eyes to see what does she have that she doesn't. To be honest, I have contacted her a couple times and she hasn't been meeting me out. It was worth seeing her check me out with another chicks. We made eye contact and I just yelled out, yeahhh i see you girl, do you.


My friend was trying to get with Molly but she's kinda weird, bland personality. I had to call the shots and move the group to get some food. I am getting used to the leadership position. Lead lead lead. There we gamed some more and I texted Sam across the table that if she wants to come over later tonight. I like being discreet and she told me as we were walking back to our "so yeah I got your text" and I was like "yeah I know, "

She told me she didn't shave and that she had her period, so maybe next time. She knows I want to fuck, I can tell she is contemplating it. So we will see how that plays out. I think it has been a while for her.

We will see.

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Friday is my burfffday.


I rounded up my squad of four girls and my roommate and his sister. His family was visiting for the weekend. Bad timing but we made it work. I was certainly in a mood. I was slightly depressed about being 25, I don't want to be old, but I knew this year would be the best year yet. I will get good at game, I will dominate and master this part of my life. I am working hard and playing even harder.


We all met out at the bar and I made my way and hugged my girlies. It was slow start, I was getting warmed up and my roommate and his sister were warming up as well. Since the vibes were slow to pick up, I suggested we move to another bar. I gamed my social circle by being flirtatious and the Mr. Assertive they all know and love. We found another girl from our social group out and about. That made the girls to a total of 5. This one though, man is she fiesty and a closet freak. I grinded on her and made a power move. I told her "you like being dominated" and grabbed her by the hips and close to me. I kiss closed her and she liked it.


We moved to another bar to up the ante. This is one of the bars that I feel most comfortable with. This is deadly, it's like the place where I subtle prime the girls for sex. The girl that I told her that I want to dominate her was feeling me, we made out some more and she grinded on me. She was having LMR and I was getting too drunk off of birthday shots to stop it. I blundered and towards the end of the night most of the social circle left since it was getting late. I didn't close!!!!


Guys, if you can help it, don't drink. But since it was my birthday, I let that rule slide. Besides, she's in my social circle, all the girls are going to try to hook us up now. That's how it works normally, I hook up with one, they start gossiping about my sex skills and try to encourage each other to be eskimo sisters.


I started going into extreme game mode. If I get riled up and don't get a sexual release, I actually bypass my drunken state and go into the best game you have ever seen.

I moved to another bar and a girl opened me and I took it from there. She wore my hat, I shot the shit, I didn't think I would F CLOSE her since I only had 20 minutes to work with. She wasn't giving off the one night stand vibe. She did flirt with me and I did number close her. While she was typing in my information, I stole a kiss from her. She was like omgggg, but she didn't go anywhere. Unfortunately last call was made and I left. Oh well. I had a good birthday.

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F CLOSE



I reconnected with a friend/fuck buddy of mine who went to Africa two years ago. She came back to the U.S. and I saw her out at a bar. We reconnected and I made sure to make the impression that I was still a player. Over the new few weeks, I built up attraction and we met up one night. I flirted with her and at first she was apprehensive. She gave me shit tests but I blew past that and that wasn't a problem after I made my intentions known that I wanted to fuck her.


The power of winning over a girls friends never ceases to amaze me. That night, I gamed her going away party group. I was polite, social, and gamed everyone there. Regardless of how they looked or what sexual orientation they were. One of them was a gay guy, I gamed him in a friendly way. He liked me. She texted me throughout the weeks that her gay friend wanted us to hook up.


This further solidified what was going to happen. Last night was that night. Once again, some people from college were out. I did my thing, gamed the dudes, gamed the girls. I was on point. My buddy, Sam, was open to my flirtatious advances.

This is how it went down.

I told her that I needed a second to see how sexy she looked tonight. At first she was like blah blah, but I held my frame. I kept piling it up. In sprinkles of course. One step forward, two steps back. I flirted with her, teased her, and we moved around the bar a bit if the conversation was dying a little. I kept it fresh. I kept it social, I kept amping up her attraction towards me.


At one point I started going in to state, the state where no one can touch me. I went up to the bar and while she was looking, I told the girl next to me at the time "I bet I can get the bartenders attention before you "

she told me "no way, I got titties". I told her that won't work on the girl bartender and right on cue, I flashed my pearly whites and she came to me. The girl was laughing and said "ok you got it". I just shrugged.


i turned to Sam and looked her straight in the eye. "Did you think about what was said"

she gave me small resistance by telling me she didn't have a bed anymore but an air mattress because she is going away for three months to the middle east. I just told her "I got a bed".

She said , hmm ok. And we went back to our friends with the thought in her head that at the end of the night, we were going to meet up and seal the deal.


And after more socializing, I told her lets get out of here and sealed it nice and tight at my place.

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Field Report.

A date


I met up with a 33 year old woman. I knew I had to accept that I had to be the man, that I had to lead because she was older. i couldn't be an immature guy around her. I had to have my A game on. We have been texting a little, we mostly worked out logistics rather than have a long flirty text exchange. She was willing to meet up, I didn't have to build up attraction or be a dancing monkey. Just meet up and get it done.



We met at a spot near her home, but the place was closing in 20 minutes. I chatted her up a bit. LOL. Before we get to the details, I donned a pose that you see in the movies. You all know this guy, the one who stands by his car with a leg on the door and smoking a ciggarette, I thought it would be funny to be looking up at the sky like I am a G motherfucker. She pulled up and i couldn't help but smirk. She liked it.


We ended up going to another place. I don't do dinner normally, but I felt that she was invested enough that I could just do it this one time. I highly recommend not doing dinners but I was going with the flow so I did. We went to the diner and she was submissive, she was indecisive. But that is where my cue went in, I lead her to the diner, I asked the people there if we seated ourselves and I asked the waitress to further explain a dish if neither of us knew.


I kept eye contact, I made sure to caress her hands. Since the table acts as a barrier, I had to push for physical contact or the interaction will not go my way. So we chatted blah blah. She invited herself to be my gym buddy unfortunately i agreed to it but I will have to play her off....I don't really like having gym buddies. Maybe go with her here and there. Just for the social aspect. We will see. Anyway, she then asked if I had a Facebook. I told her I did. She got that and saw that I was pretty social. Attraction spike.


We got the bill. I paid since it was the first date. On the way out she started flirting saying things like don't check out my ass. Of course, I made it a big deal and said damn mami, keep walking in front of me. Before we got to our cars I said come here. I hugged her and teased her with a kiss by having my face close to hers. I knew she wanted me to try harder. I went for it. She kissed back. I then walked her to her car. I smoothly transitioned from that moment like its not a big deal to me to admiring her car. She has a Camaro! A sexy red Camaro. I played with the idea that she has to take me out in that bad boy sometime. Then I was like alright I have to go. Give me another kiss for the road....



Date sealed. She has been hinting up at future meetups. Time to get the ball rolling.

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F Close

Managed 3 days of banging. All different women.



The woman who I took out to dinner has been texting me lately. I wanted her to come out Saturday but she never picked up my phone call. So I made plans with another woman. That turned into an F Close. Last night this woman reappears and says we should hang soon, all I said was I like her thinking and she throws a tongue smiley emoticon. Next text I threw in was "sure, there could be some tongue involved".


Boom. She doesn't text for a few hours. I didn't mind. I already have slept with two girls. One on Friday, and one on Saturday. I was content. I didn't think about the text and went on with my day being productive. Then twelve oclock comes around and she is texting me "you're bad"... "sluuuuuuuuurrrppppp"


If that isn't the most obvious booty call signal, then I don't know what is. I figured out logistics and she gave me small resistance by teasing where she lived. All I said was "that isn't an address" and she finally gave it to me.



I would end the F Close here but when I got there I called her phone three times. She didnt answer. I contemplated what to do. Go home ? Ring the doorbell ? There were two of them, if I rang the wrong one, I'd be pissing off strangers because it was like 12:46 at night. After further inspection I realized the door was open.... was she playing some fantasy ? I opened the screen door and entered the empty house. I checked the shoes/jackets on the first floor. Nope can't be her apartment. I walked up the stairs and the door was open. I looked around and saw girly furniture...maybe I am in the right place. After walking cautiously into this random apartment I looked in the bedrooms. She lived by herself. I made sure to get this piece of information before coming here. Finally, after feeling like a burglar/creep, I found her in her bed. Her phone was in her hand in the air.... she was "asleep" I think she was playing out some fantasy.



Just to make sure I wasn't going to get yelled at, I turned on the light. She pushed the covers up more. She knew it was me. I got myself comfortable and touched her body, kissing her....I went downstairs and that confirmed my theory. She didn't have panties on. She set this all up...luckily, I picked up on the cues and took the risk.



F- Close finished. Not gonna lie. I am feeling a little drained of my man seed. Sexed out right now. Time to work out and shit.

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Ah another weekend. I am calming down and relaxing. I am rereading text game and keeping myself sharp. You never know when or what you missed after reading material. I have been tutoring my roommate on this stuff and I really want someone to converse game with or reinforce these skills but I know I should be dependent on me.



I went out this weekend and I got laid by a recurring fuck buddy on Friday night, so I won't write about that since I already did that.



Saturday night....I just got out of work, I felt like shit from the last night and I knew, I knew someone was going to message me to go out. That was my roommate. I came and started showering and got the call. We went out a dance club and I appreciated the difference in scenery. Lots of skin action going on for the summer. I appreciated the girls who went to the gym to keep in shape. I also noted the girls who couldn't hide behind layers anymore. Get in shape fatty!


Anywho, I met up with my friends and they all graced me with love. I talked to a potential PUA there, I told him I might consider him for the team. I felt like a G. This night though, I didn't want to game as hard, I wanted to watch my roommate solo game and he did. Eventually I had to step in to finish up because our friends wanted to leave and i knew that we needed to go. I came in and sped up the process to a number close.


Hmm, the rest of the night we just shot the shit, I didn't expect anything, I have been slowing down. I can't do late ngihts like I used to anymore. I went to the local watering hole and trannies started hitting on me. I soaked up the ego comments like " you are hot" blah blah. They even number closed me. I kept my cool, I knew I wasn't going to fuck a tranny, but they kept on coming.



Anywho, went home ate four slices of pizza and called it a night. I ignored a call from the tranny and I am so glad I wasn't that drunk for that regret.

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I have been slowing down. I need some me time. I need to set up my hobbies. I need to adjust to the new work schedule. Girls have been very patient. You know what sucks...my only free days are thursday and friday. I either have to go on two dates each of those days or alternate with with the girls each week.


I will figure it out this week. You guys can expect some more field reports. I will start putting in some text game from the initial interaction ONLY if I F close the chick. I won't bother putting good text game if I can't close anymore. I want to keep things concise in my journal. i want to document my f closes. I want to get organized. It's time to aim high.

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Field Report:


I went on a date. Eh, she was 39 years so a good 14 years on me. I think this was a perfect way to test my maturity. The date went well and we got to talking about our experiences, I think I am more sexually experienced than her. Oh well. I ended the date on a kiss close. Just rebrought something from our earlier conversation, about how the first kiss makes it or breaks it. Pretty much grabbed her hand "lets test out that theory of yours", and sealed it. I didn't take her home because she had kids to take care of. But eh we will see. I wasn't too impressed so I don't know if I want to do another 1 hour with her.


Hmm, I did flex my responses to her questions like "oh why are you after old women like me" or "wow you are pretty young"


Been there done that.

Adios!

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