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PostPosted: Sun Feb 07, 2016 7:56 pm 
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She is saying she has a bf to test how alpha you are...because alphas go after taken women.
Nonsense. What does that have to do with being alpha?


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She is saying she has a bf to test how alpha you are...because alphas go after taken women.
Nonsense. What does that have to do with being alpha?
LMAO...you missed the sarcasm.

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The other guys had persisted and had hit paydirt. It confused the hell out of me how these guys were managing to steal another guy's woman and how they did it, so I swallowed my pride and asked the two hottest women I knew from my social circle. The answer of course was "They don't have BF's".
Maybe those guys just didnt get "I have a bf." Girl's not interested in you, she says "I have a bf" so you leave. Guy who she is interested approaches her, she doesnt say anything about a bf and just proceeds. Unless youve heard girls tell guys they have a bf and they persist and get to makeout, its not the same thing to assume that those guys got the same reaction you did and they just persisted past it.
It's a possibility. When I had my revelation it might have inadvertantly filled me with more confidence. I did watch for girls who had previously IHABFed me beforehand and see if they were still up to their old tricks and it did look like it but I only had body language to go on (loud club environment) so can't be sure.

The good thing is though; I started ignoring it from then on and it did get me some really good results by just carrying on as normal. If I had carried on just accepting it my FC total would literally be 50% of what it is now.

If I could send 10 tips back to my young AFC self when I just found out about PUA then ignoring IHABF until it's proven true would be one of them.


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LMAO...you missed the sarcasm.
Oh! Lol my bad, @neo82


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OP has 2 posts, both are on page 1. Any advice from here is a waste of energy

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OP has 2 posts, both are on page 1. Any advice from here is a waste of energy
Nah....bad thinking happens. Regardless if the OP is reading this or not, someone else can benefit from the experience of others.

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the problem is your escalating where you have these time gaps. It might be too complicated (or maybe a pua can help display a good time bridge) so just restart on attraction with dhv YOURSELF. it sounds like you have had the dhv on the boyfriend.

Bringing up the boyfriend with ideals she wants is like a dhv for her. Instead kino and neg (ex. below) when you talk about the boyfriend and then lead in into a strong dhv about how you in a future projection

ex. her: blah I have boyfriend

you: oh i bet he works out (pushes her) to protect you (actively look at females and show off guns)

her: blah (it doesn't matter)

you: it reminds me of when i did (something active and kino) was in the boy scouts and ended saving a kitten (cheek stroke) but it such a big deal cause I had allergies and I had to fight against my body's natural reaction to be allergic to something new.

the psychological background is letting her to be used to accepting new things and its a dhv.

BUT Great POST!
You serious with this shit? Lol


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OP has 2 posts, both are on page 1. Any advice from here is a waste of energy
Nah....bad thinking happens. Regardless if the OP is reading this or not, someone else can benefit from the experience of others.

Good point. I will say though, in the rare event of me using a boyfriend destroyer (straw man technique specifically), I think it has about a 75% success rate - by success I mean the predicted reaction happens. It is extremely rare for me to do it, though. For example 10 guys beat the living shit out of me for absolutely no reason about 9 years ago... I only managed to find a few of them, and the one that I could only find on Facebook... I added his girlfriend pretending that I thought she was single. We got talking and I wasusing the straw man technique whilst telling her that I'll have to friendzone her and bla bla. One thing leads to another and before you know it she's sending me nudes lol. As I got talking to her though I decided that she was an innocent bystander and it's a little unfair to send screenshots to him when I'm not even 100% sure he doesn't beat her. Also he could leak them or whatever. I settled for a silent victory.

Maybe the girl was just generally unhappy, maybe she's a low quality girl. The boyfriend destroyer and disqualification obviously didn't magically create attraction, as they never do. Somehow did make her open up, though.

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Get some morals. Don't go after women who have a boyfriend. Things like 'boyfriend destroyers' piss me off. They're glorified by beta guys with low self-esteem who fantasize about stealing a woman who is in a relationship.

There are so many millions of hot, single women out there. For a guy to go full-wuss and be obsessed with one woman who's taken and wants to ruin her relationship for his own selfish desires is just pathetic.

So true, when a girl tells you she has a BF your only concern should be finding out if it's the truth or whether it's an "alpha credentials" shit test or an autopilot response.

If they do have a BF then flirt with them a bit then leave them alone. Don't burn any bridges as the next time you see them they may not have a BF and even if they do they may be with some hot friends who don't.
Agreed. A lot of guys aren't interested in a woman who's taken. Big mistake. I like to make friends with hot women who are taken. They offer a lot of benefits - as you mentioned - their equally hot, single friends, their social connections (not just parties and gatherings - I've needed filmographers and got a great recommendation from a 'taken friend' of mine who works in the industry), they make great wings/social proof for me or my students, etc. Also, I've gotten a lot of good feedback from their significant others. These dudes offer good insight as to how they've attracted their hot girlfriend/wife. And since they're not PUA guys their answers are often original and insightful. A lot of it is more about their confidence than how they attracted her. Fascinating stuff.

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Agreed. A lot of guys aren't interested in a woman who's taken. Big mistake. I like to make friends with hot women who are taken. They offer a lot of benefits - as you mentioned - their equally hot, single friends, their social connections (not just parties and gatherings - I've needed filmographers and got a great recommendation from a 'taken friend' of mine who works in the industry), they make great wings/social proof for me or my students, etc. Also, I've gotten a lot of good feedback from their significant others. These dudes offer good insight as to how they've attracted their hot girlfriend/wife. And since they're not PUA guys their answers are often original and insightful. A lot of it is more about their confidence than how they attracted her. Fascinating stuff.
Agreed. There is a lot of perks having a hot taken friends. You also have access all their hot friends, high social status circle and all those guys that are chasing them around trying to win them over. But if you're still not very experienced with the whole abundance and moving on concept, tread carefully. There is a huge difference between using them for all those perk and pretending to be their friend hoping to fuck them somewhere down the road. The latter will make you act desperate for their attention at times.

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Women are super intuitive (which is one thing I like about them). When they come across a fun, carefree man who doesn't complicate things with drama/wanting to hook up with them they love it. It's like a polka-dot unicorn.

This is why so many attractive women are friends with gay guys. Because gay guys aren't trying to sleep with them.

Though the polka-dot unicorn comes in when a hot woman comes across a straight man WITH MASCULINE ENERGY who is fine with merely being friends.




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Agreed. A lot of guys aren't interested in a woman who's taken. Big mistake. I like to make friends with hot women who are taken. They offer a lot of benefits - as you mentioned - their equally hot, single friends, their social connections (not just parties and gatherings - I've needed filmographers and got a great recommendation from a 'taken friend' of mine who works in the industry), they make great wings/social proof for me or my students, etc. Also, I've gotten a lot of good feedback from their significant others. These dudes offer good insight as to how they've attracted their hot girlfriend/wife. And since they're not PUA guys their answers are often original and insightful. A lot of it is more about their confidence than how they attracted her. Fascinating stuff.
Agreed. There is a lot of perks having a hot taken friends. You also have access all their hot friends, high social status circle and all those guys that are chasing them around trying to win them over. But if you're still not very experienced with the whole abundance and moving on concept, tread carefully. There is a huge difference between using them for all those perk and pretending to be their friend hoping to fuck them somewhere down the road. The latter will make you act desperate for their attention at times.

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Women are super intuitive (which is one thing I like about them). When they come across a fun, carefree man who doesn't complicate things with drama/wanting to hook up with them they love it. It's like a polka-dot unicorn.
Who has time for this, though?

A man should be either fucking or working, not hanging out with/texting ten girls who aren't blowing him.

Last night I had a great conversation with a girl who was naked in my bed. Pink Floyd's Animals was loud on the stereo. She brought over a cool psychedelic lamp and we smoked pot, then she blew me for a couple hours off and on in-between back rubs. Two days ago she texted that she was mad at me, and that I was in the "doghouse". i get a text last night, and next thing she's at my door, and marches up to the bed, stands on it and starts stripping without a word.

So why in the fuck would I waste one second on girls who I'm not physical with?

Never settle. You can get everything you want.

When she left, I went about my career/goals/dreams. i didn't text or ask to hang with the girl who "might" blow me if she breaks up with her boyfriend. I got shit to do. And the gorgeous girl who spent the night will be back. And the reason she will be back is because I've got shit to do. ;)

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This is why so many attractive women are friends with gay guys. Because gay guys aren't trying to sleep with them.

That's true. So why would you want to be that if your goal is sex/relationship?
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the problem is your escalating where you have these time gaps. It might be too complicated (or maybe a pua can help display a good time bridge) so just restart on attraction with dhv YOURSELF. it sounds like you have had the dhv on the boyfriend.

Bringing up the boyfriend with ideals she wants is like a dhv for her. Instead kino and neg (ex. below) when you talk about the boyfriend and then lead in into a strong dhv about how you in a future projection

ex. her: blah I have boyfriend

you: oh i bet he works out (pushes her) to protect you (actively look at females and show off guns)

her: blah (it doesn't matter)

you: it reminds me of when i did (something active and kino) was in the boy scouts and ended saving a kitten (cheek stroke) but it such a big deal cause I had allergies and I had to fight against my body's natural reaction to be allergic to something new.

the psychological background is letting her to be used to accepting new things and its a dhv.

BUT Great POST!
Trolling or being serious?
very serious... Drummingboy how did it go?


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