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PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2016 9:09 pm 
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Short story. Was looking for people to chill in Munich in a FB group since I'm gonna be working there in the summer. This chick PMed me saying she will also be there. Lot of banters, flirting and IOIs. She found out I'm invited to a July 4th Party at US Consulate and all the big figures will be there. She asked if she could be my date. I was like okay if you behave. I told her I gotta go to bed, she proceeded sending me a voice clip of her kissing me goodnight. 2 days later, she deactivated her FB. I was like okay and just moved on. Fast forward 2 weeks later, saw her post in the group. Figured she reactivated it. PMed her saying "There you are. Did the aliens finally decided they've done with you?" - no response. Also turned out she unfriended me also.

At this point I was like WTF and just laugh it off. No clue what happened but nothing I can do but onto the next one.

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She probably came looking for some attention for the moment, you gave it to her, and then her ex boyfriend called and wanted to work things out.

But who cares?

Theres no understanding women, Thats a dog chasing it's tail. You'll always be using your own masculine logic as an interpreter. It'll never nail it.

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Feminine women change their emotions from moment to moment. That's all you need to understand.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 06, 2016 1:54 am 
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Feminine women change their emotions from moment to moment. That's all you need to understand.
Umm, ok...


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 06, 2016 6:00 am 
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Fucking chicks... That's all I can say lol

You know as soon as you forget about her, she's going to come crawling out of the woodwork with some "you don't talk to me anymore!!" shit....


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 06, 2016 7:05 am 
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Who knows, but maybe she saw one of your Facebook posts or something and reacted in the moment. Instead of "well he's a cool guy overall even though I don't likey this post" it's "eww I don't like this post, goodbye." When some new information comes across that makes her FEEL like reaching out, she may do so. Bottom line there is no way to know, let women be a mystery. After all, men are a mystery to them.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 06, 2016 4:29 pm 
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As others already insinuated, it probably had more to do with her than you. I wouldn't mull it over, although it sounds like you kind of dig her. You should have had her number, I mean, if you do, give her a sincere and brief call. Forgive her for her fickleness; she'll float back in your life, I have a feeling. Maybe she's depressed or something, you'll have to cut her some slack. Even if this is true, this is all speculation.

If I were in your shoes, I would put this in perspective, too. There is a lesson(s) to be learned here. This is a woman you never physically met. You'll be alright. And I think you should have got her phone number earlier on, since you asked. Maybe you two could have gone on a date. Sounds like you liked her. Too bad, these things can happen. We've been there.
I was just confused for a second there about what happened but it was no point to mull over something out of my control. So I just shrugged it off. It's nice if we can hang out in Munich. If not, I'm sure there are plenty of other chicks there that I can game.

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