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PostPosted: Sun Nov 29, 2015 1:25 pm 
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I was a solid player 6 months ago and then I fell in love with 1 girl and I didn't know how to win her over and she hurt my feelings so I got blown out of the game. Now my mindset is that I can't approach any girl or even group and I was afraid of what to say to a girl and what if I run out of things to say. The reason why I have this mindset is beacuse I live in small country and town so I'm afraid if I fail I'll lose my social value. There are not many hot girls in my town so I don't wanna risk.
I'm going to high school so those openers I read on internet.. I don't think they are for me, I think they are more for adults. My town has no players I mean I'm sure there are but they are maybe few.
I have to calibrate game for teenagers, I'm approaching girls that are 16-18 years old.
So guys what types of openers would be perfect for those girls?
Also there are only few clubs in my town, there are no quiet areas or smoke areas. Music is loud and some opinion opener will not work.
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I was a solid player 6 months ago and then I fell in love with 1 girl and I didn't know how to win her over and she hurt my feelings so I got blown out of the game. Now my mindset is that I can't approach any girl or even group and I was afraid of what to say to a girl and what if I run out of things to say. The reason why I have this mindset is beacuse I live in small country and town so I'm afraid if I fail I'll lose my social value. There are not many hot girls in my town so I don't wanna risk.
I'm going to high school so those openers I read on internet.. I don't think they are for me, I think they are more for adults. My town has no players I mean I'm sure there are but they are maybe few.
I have to calibrate game for teenagers, I'm approaching girls that are 16-18 years old.
So guys what types of openers would be perfect for those girls?
Also there are only few clubs in my town, there are no quiet areas or smoke areas. Music is loud and some opinion opener will not work.
Feel free to ask me whatever If you need more info.
Why don't you get on Tinder since there no competition? That way, you will be only talking to the girls that dig you rather than blowing the whole town to get one girl. Segregate.

I get the feeling that you have never approached a girl cold though, if it was me though, I would move to a busy city, that was the best thing I did. I understand you're only a teenager though but consider for future when it comes to college.

If you know anything about cold approach, you would eventually evolve into situational stuff and even keep it simple such as 'Hi, I am Mayketi' *sexy smile*

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Why don't you get on Tinder since there no competition? That way, you will be only talking to the girls that dig you rather than blowing the whole town to get one girl. Segregate.

I get the feeling that you have never approached a girl cold though, if it was me though, I would move to a busy city, that was the best thing I did. I understand you're only a teenager though but consider for future when it comes to college.

If you know anything about cold approach, you would eventually evolve into situational stuff and even keep it simple such as 'Hi, I am Mayketi' *sexy smile*
I cold approached few times with "Hi my name is..." but I found that useless with HB beacuse I get blown of from the set. I will move to a busy city when I get to a collage for almost a year.


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Oh you're looking for one of those rejection free openers...

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I was a solid player 6 months ago
This statement is heavily contradictory to its entire follow-up.

Anyway, not sure what openers you've been reading, but what you say is of little relevance. It's mostly about how you say it. It just has to be compatible with who you are.

Just practice dude. Practice talking to girls in general. Anywhere. You'll thank yourself later.


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If you excel in school, if your testosterone is high from winning in a very competitive sport, and you are physically fit, all sorts of girls will open you. Moreover, the girls that you open will readily go to an instadate with you.

Focus on those three aspects and you'll bang lots of hot girls in college.

As for openers, you just got the best ones from Dragula and R.C. Make those work.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2015 7:16 am 
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If you excel in school, if your testosterone is high from winning in a very competitive sport, and you are physically fit, all sorts of girls will open you. Moreover, the girls that you open will readily go to an instadate with you.

Focus on those three aspects and you'll bang lots of hot girls in college.

As for openers, you just got the best ones from Dragula and R.C. Make those work.
I train rowing and train 7 times a week and i cant really go out. I dont drink and smoke.


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If you excel in school, if your testosterone is high from winning in a very competitive sport, and you are physically fit, all sorts of girls will open you. Moreover, the girls that you open will readily go to an instadate with you.

Focus on those three aspects and you'll bang lots of hot girls in college.

As for openers, you just got the best ones from Dragula and R.C. Make those work.
I train rowing and train 7 times a week and i cant really go out. I dont drink and smoke.

If you work and play 24/7 how do you expect to date girls ? If you was score some dates with girls you will probably find time, I'm pretty sure.

Stop making excuses. Perhaps come back to pick up when you're serious

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This is a common question,

You can get better if you don't practice. And the smaller your town, the less likely you'll get rejected because there are less people doing what you're doing. You're the big fish in a little pond.

However if this is something you're truly interested in, a small town may not be the place for you.

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