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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2015 10:37 pm 
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I realize that when a women talks about her life to me, I don't really know how to respond to it. I just give a smile (small laugh), or say something like "no wayy", or sometimes ask questions about the story, and then just say "ok". Is there a better way to deals with those types of situations ?


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2015 10:41 pm 
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Just listen and be quiet.

Who ever is doing the most talking, is the more invested

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2015 3:09 am 
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I think of it as catching a wave.

When she stops talking dont say anything for a few seconds, and she will likely continue with something related.

Once they are on a roll they can go on for over an hour even. Occasionally I might just ask a clarifying question.

I like it, I can build rapport and a connection and get to know her, without really doing anything, just sit back and listen.


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2015 5:47 am 
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Just keep her talking. She will talk herself into your bed

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2015 11:20 am 
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Show some genuine interest in her as a person when she speaks lmao what the fuck? Really?


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2015 11:24 am 
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You have two options.

Look down about 30 centimetres from her mouth... You see those beautiful tits? That's why god created them.

The other is to nod your head and laugh. When she asks "why aren't you listening to me"... Simply put your finger on her lips and say "Shhh", move your finger away and then go in for the kiss.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 11, 2015 11:39 am 
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You should be in active masculine listening mode; not in passive masculine or feminine listening mode. Observe how women talk and listen with one another. Don't do that. You'll come across as gay. When a woman talks, the other woman touches the talker's hand, arm, or shoulder briefly.

If you're not touching a woman or eyefucking her while she's talking, then you're placing yourself in the friendzone by being in a passive masculine listening mode. Hold her hand (not briefly or abruptly) for a long time while she's talking and look deep into her eyes. When she starts to cry, rub her back and blow warm breaths in her ear or stroke her hair. When she gets animated and happy, spin her around and guide her hand to your chest.

Just let the woman talk endlessly, treat her as a woman, and give her the gift of your masculinity as a man who knows how to listen properly to a woman.

Women talk. Men take action. That's your role as a human being.

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I realize that when a women talks about her life to me, I don't really know how to respond to it. I just give a smile (small laugh), or say something like "no wayy", or sometimes ask questions about the story, and then just say "ok". Is there a better way to deals with those types of situations ?
This is all good. Toss in eye contact.

Talk about 30%, her 70%. Keep that ratio in mind and adjust accordingly.

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