Well It's worth a shot got nothing to lose. I'm not expecting anything out of it. She broke it off.

Please stop over thinking things like this lol because it was 7 am doesn't mean much of anything either. It just means she was thinking about you and wanted your attention.

yeah you right, i'm not expecting anything so have zero to lose. I would just like to reply to her in the best way.

what is the best way to talk to an ex? I don't flirt because it's is too obvious and I just make normal chat. then it kinda goes nowhere.

This is so transparent...

Well, she probably stopped talking to you because you were so needy. Clearly, since you need to say the right thing, nothing has changed.

ive no idea why she stopped talking. Could be for more than one reason, being needy was probably one but I've messaged her then waited for her to reply I don't iniate contact with her.

You flirt. You. Always. Flirt.

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ok but she broke it off, so flirting might come across as desperate. surely I should just chat to her. I don't get girls. she messaged 3 times yesterday when I message her back I don't get much response. ahhhhh confused. why would she bother messaging me.

We've told you why. You're only listening to what you want to hear. Corey Wayne. Get reading - it's a great starting point. Move on, get other girls. Go into the relationship section of this forum and look at the sticky thread that I wrote "To the guys who want their ex back!" and you'll see everything I want to say.

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Like some others have said, she's wondering about you and to a lesser extent she's looking for a response/attention. Don't message her back right away. And if you don't want to see her again ignore her. If she bugs you you can make her your little science experiment (test PUA theories on her, etc).

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I give up.

I don't get you Moose. You always come back to this forum, ask the same exact questions, never take our advice and then come back asking some more of those same exact questions.

You want to improve but are by no means going to do anything about it. You went on 10 different dates with some chick at one point and created a thread after almost every single one of those dates, asking how to escalate. We told you how to escalate. Every. Single. Time.
And after 10 dates you still hardly even kissed her, if at all. Memory fades.

What do you want from us? Give me her phone number. I'll text her pretending it's you for some reason having moved to East Europe. Is that what you want?

I just fucking told you to flirt with her. Flirting isn't desperate. You are. Being overly concerned about coming across desperate is desperate. Wetting yourself over some ex texting you is desperate. And going on ten god damn dates scared shitless to make a god damn move is also desperate.

I honestly feel like I'm trying to explain quantum physics to someone who can barely understand basic addition right now, and are showing no interest whatsoever in changing that.

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Ok I'll flirt! I have taken your advice you told me to move on and I did. I'm seeing another girl at the moment. So to be honest I didn't really care about my ex but she messaged me.

I'm new to this so I'm going to admit I'm not experienced I'm sure you have all been there. It's a learning curve.

Good job.

Are you trying to lie to us? Surely you're too smart to do that lol!? I think you're lying to yourself.
Yes it is. Want me to summarise absolutely everything important that you will learn in the next year, into 2 words?

TAKE ACTION
Do something every fucking day that is WAY out of your comfort zone! Ever heard somebody say "I really wish I didn't face my fears. I wish I never stood up to myself and got over that fear that I had"? I remember the first time that I plucked up the courage to walk up to a woman who I wasn't even attracted to, and ask her for the time. I text a friend "I just did a PUA approach!" lol. I literally only asked her for the fucking time. I had SNL's and everything before it, but hardly ever and with ugly girls... I knew I was actually TRYING now, so the risk of failure was amplified, which made it exciting. Again, I only asked her for the fucking time. But guess what? It's not about what I said, it's about how scared I was to do it, and it gave me a craving for more of it! As soon as a thought crosses your mind, act on it. Don't use that as a justification to chase your ex, because I mean positive things. If I never asked that girl for the time, I'd still be broke, I wouldn't have gained so many qualifications recently, I wouldn't have started working out, I'd have fucked less girls (quality and quantity), I'd still be too shy to talk to girls, I'd have missed out on amazing nights, girls wouldn't chase me, people wouldn't think I'm as funny as they do, I'd get less opportunities in every area of my life because I'd be too shy to ask. The list goes on. Get the ball rolling.

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Thanks for the great advice. It's bizarre a lot of people say I'm not shy and have good people skills. It's when it comes to hot girls although I'm improving. Your right never miss an opportunity, I'm honestly speaking to as many as girls as I can. Might be going on a second date with another girl.

i just flirted with my EX, how the hell could you NOT flirt with someone who have already been with? its easier than ever since one doesn't care as much about the outcome...

i sent her a selfie of me looking pretty damn good, i asked her if she noticed my eyes looked darker

she says "cute! no your eyes look good"

then right after…"wait, who are you sending these pics too lol"

i said "just you, but I need some good selfies for my new tinder account"

hahahah….

i have zero interest in trying to rekindle things with ex, i just like messing with her head a bit.