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PostPosted: Tue May 26, 2015 11:03 pm 
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ok so here is the thing , i have recently broker up with my gf , she was a 9 and i had an amazing time with her , but i decided that i am not looking to merry her so i wanted to be fair and release her. now i am back to being single and i loooooovveeee meeting women , just fucking love it .
i am would say that i am pretty good in meeting women anywhere i want , but i am always trying to improve
my game on all aspects .
my biggest dilemma is this :
i have about 5 childhood friends that i absolutely loveee they are like brothers for me , and when i go out with them i feel great .
i know a lot of other people but i don't feel with others as i feel with them .
he problem is that when it comes to social gathering my friends are kind of a DLV machine... which really bothers me.
like really .
they always look around , they rearlyy approach any women , the don't smile , and so many times they just go to the corner of the venue and smoke OMGGG!!
for me it is horrible i am trying to get them going and in the mood and understanding the concept of feeling the best but they just don't wanna get it .
so i find myself thinking about going out with people that could be better for game but i don't really like .
what do you guys think i could do ?


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PostPosted: Tue May 26, 2015 11:32 pm 
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Best thing you can do if you really want to improve, in my experience, is to only go out with those guys when you legitimately want to hang out with them and don't care to meet girls. When you wanna go out and meet girls, go out by yourself or with a wing who shares your same desire to meet women and work off of that.

Truth is, people will resist learning how to pick up women unless they came up with that idea themselves, because learning how to pick up women also means that you are inadequate at it currently (in an afc's mind) and that's not an admission that a lot of guys are willing to make. You can try to ease your friends into it, but I promise you, the more you push, the more they'll resist, and I can almost promise you that they will cut you off as a friend before they will admit that they are no good with women and seek advice to improve. That's just the way it is unfortunately.

But, keep up the good work!


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PostPosted: Wed May 27, 2015 12:16 am 
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So you set your girl go because she wasn't going where you were trying to go in life. And you're asking what to do about your friends?

Go out and meet new friends just as you would go out and meet new women. You don't have to cut them off per say, but go out alone and start expanding yourself. The right people will gravitate toward you.

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PostPosted: Wed May 27, 2015 1:39 am 
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Expand your social circle. Meet people, there's a shit ton of people in the world and you will never guess who can be your next friend. As I get deeper into the game, I start meeting cooler guys. I don't ditch my old friends but I spread out my availability. Eye on the prize baby.

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PostPosted: Wed May 27, 2015 6:49 pm 
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I had friends like that. But it didn't stop me from talking to girls. I only used them (my friends) as my home base between sets. But I honestly didn't give a shit about them and started going out alone instead. That was the best decision I've ever made. Because no matter who I went out with, AFCs or PUAs, they only got in my way. I used random dudes as warmup, and made temporary friends/wings for the night. I had incredibly fun with many of them. More fun than with my regular friends. Today, thanks to all this, I met a dude who I go out with on a regular basis, and we are each others best wings I think.


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