Met a couple last night at a bar.

They were both really cool. Like exceptionally. Convo was fun between the 3 of us. But the wife, was REALLY touchy with me. Beyond what is normal. She would touch and grab my arm constantly. And the Husband, acted like he didn't care. There was a lot of talk about sex. She even tried to test me if I was gay and we continued with jokes after I assured them I was 100% straight. When I left they walked out with me and the wife told me to put my arm around her, so I did. Husband had NO reaction. But I took my arm away and she sensed I was uncomfortable. It was cool though. Just odd.

So I had their number. Texted 'them' and said how I thought they were cool. I was really drunk and there were also a lot of racist jokes (they're Asian) so I said my bad if I got a little too jokey on the race shit.

Guy answers back and says "no worries, doesn't care, that's what bars are for." and Lol'd

Then he just texted me and said "Here's my wife's number" and gave it. I haven't answered back yet. I'm just sitting here like, "Uhhhhhhh... okay"

I'm stuck. I need someone with some experience with this to give advice. I would totally have sex with her but I'm not into the guy stuff, if that's their deal. And I really feel they're 'grooming' me. Total Swinger vibe happening. Or maybe they have some agreement where she can fuck other guys.

I dunno. Need help on this.

Go for it. Let us know how it goes.

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But I'm not sure what's going on.

I can read people well. But Swingers or people with open relationships are hard to read.

Thats why you should just go for it as Mr.A says. If they are swingers, you'll find out and can decide. If they are in open rs, you'll find out and can decide. If they're not and just weird or joking you'll find out. Go for it. Its not like you're gonna see them at work if it gets awkward.

Why don't you just call her and ask her?

Stop being so scary.

They sound pretty open.. Call her and let her know you're not into the guy stuff. Talk about it. Have the conversation. If she objects to a solo thing, you don't waste any more of your time, if she says cool, you're in.

A simple phone call really takes care of all of this.

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I don't think it's about me being 'scary'. I'm actually an open person with sex but there are some things that make me uncomfortable. This is one of them. I told myself to challenge ALL beliefs and go beyond the bounds of society more and more lately, but this situation always makes me balk. I get a weird feeling when I think about crossing that line.

I'll see.