Or do you just game the girl you bring?
If you get blown out by other girls will you lose massive value in front of her?

Elaborate. I'm not sure if you are talking about a girl you have asked out or if you're talking about a girl that you are just hanging out with without having any expectations from her.

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if you are asking about a girl at a bar...I wouldn't...you're on a date already...there's no need to showoff. Just seduce.

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I thought "hanging out" would automatically mean I asked her out unless I'm already friend zoned

Wouldn't you still need to build some sort of social value? What if she's talking to other people shouldn't I talk to other people too?

Why would you need to build social value with someone that you're already out with? You're going backwards...build the attraction between you and her and not worry about how she thinks other people are viewing you.

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Nah, you're already on the date. The only thing that would help is if you knew the venue very well and you were well known there by the staff or the regulars... But it sounds like you aren't, so don't worry about it. You build that value some other time, not on this date.

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This totally depends on your own personal style.

For example, it's really easy for naturally extroverted guys to raise their value by being really social and chatting up other women, spark a little attraction, and raise his value with preselection.

That sort of stuff doesn't work for me, though, since I'm naturally introverted. What works better for me is to focus my attention completely on the girl I'm out with so that she feels like she's the only person in the world that matters to me. This makes her feel special, builds rapport, and lubricates her highway of emotions so that I can make her feel stronger feelings of arousal and excitement.

Damn, I've been doing it all wrong. I thought when I'm out with a girl in a party I need to spark attraction, and that's by talking to other girls. No wonder the girls I used to bring never stick around in the end, they were probably pissed. So what I really need to do is build comfort huh. I thought going to party with a girl would be a little different than a date since we're in a very social environment and the correct thing to do is to socialize with other people, So if she's talking to others do I stick around by her side? Would I appear needy if I do that?

What if I run out of things to say? If the conversation gets boring do I keep talking to her or do I talk to other people then come back? What if she's being approached by other dudes? Do I make it clear she's with me? Would I appear needy if I'm only talking to her?
Sorry for so many questions I'm bad at this

If you're unexperienced, don't do it.

Just be extra friendly to the bartender etc but please don't game anybody.

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what if she's not very engaged?

Then you need to brush up on your skills. Which is why we are recommending you focus on the chick.

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Reading between the lines it sounds like you're talking about asking a girl to a party. Don't. If your game is good you can do this but I wont recommend it for you. Other guys are there, you've probably not expressed interest so she see's it as a friend thing and you'd probably be restrictive. Do dates and work on 1 on 1.

You mean if you go out with a group of girls? Or if you just go out with one?

I'm pretty much myself everywhere I go. I met my ex girlfriend within a social circle and part of the reason she said she likes me is because she saw me out there talking to other women and enjoying myself. Sure some women blew me off, but other women embraced me and she took notice to that. It made her feel like i was CHOOSING her and not just setting for her. It made her feel special.

If you fear losing value because you've been rejected then you need to get out there and get rejected more often. Women reject men everyday, as so long as the guy was respectful, they admire the courage it took him to approach. A courage that most women couldn't dream of having.

A woman adoration for a mans courage far outweighs any value he could lose from being rejected. All rejected aren't personal. Some women have rejected superstars just because...Who cares what their reason is. You're still the superstar. They're the one missing out.

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