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- I've done about 50 approaches
- got 5 phone numbers
- only 2 actually responded
- 1 of them progressed into a date.
In my opinion, these results are great for a newcomer. Like REALLY good. I don't what you're expecting but I am hoping you haven't been brain washed into thinking you can seduce most girls you approach. It simply isn't for a cold approach. A large chunk of girls have legit bf's or husbands, a large chunk, you are simply not their type. You just need to find the potential leads and focus on those ones.
Here is something from the legend that is 60 years of challenge, please absorb this mindset into your brain. This concept allowed me to not react when ever i got flaked. My magic number for day game is about 25, night time 12 - online game is easy since the filtering has been done for you.
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What's your "Magic Number"?
The Magic Number
I am sure a person in sales would be offended if you told him that what he does is just a numbers game. Sales, as in seduction is both a numbers game and a skill.
What is a magic number
A magic number is how many women you have to contact before you find one who has interest in you based solely on your presence.
Attractive Presence / 1st Impression
- confident approach
- confident body language & posture
- confident eye contact
- looks: clothes, grooming, body
- smile, vibe, glow
What is your magic number
A guy with no confidence, bad posture and no style and could have a magic number as high as 100. Meaning he would have contact 100 women to get one good lead. This is an extreme example but still even with a few minor tweaks to his presence he could easily reduce that number to 1 in 50.
Why its good to know your magic number
What if you knew with 100% certainty that if you approached ten women you would go home with one of them. I think you would be really excited to start approaching ten women.
Having a magic number is helpful because no matter what happens with the other women you approach you know that once you reach your magic number you will have one really good lead. Because you have the seduction skills to turn good leads into closes this is really good news. This makes any rejection you get while working up to your magic number irrelevant.
It’s important to keep good records so you can figure out your magic number. Once you have your magic number you can work on reducing it. You do this by improving your overall presence and first impression.
Reward Rejection
Some managers actually reward their sales people with money for every NO that they get. Each NO gets you closer to a yes.
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