This is like my first approach ever guys so be mindful of that im still a noob. i didnt plan this approach or anything it kind of just happened...

I was at the library, not really thinking about approaching or what not then I saw this beautiful girl sitting by herself. I walked past her, gave her a look then went around the corner pretending to look for somewhere to sit... I came back near her and approached...

Approach 1: HB7. Blue hair, green eyes, petite build.

Me: can I sit there?... (Seat next to her)
HB: she's a bit suprised, looks around (there were free seats across the room) then nods like yeah ok...
She seems really timid/shy.
Me: stayed silent for a while (she was on her phone). Looked for something to conversate on.
Me: hey where did you get this from (was a USB with our schools logo on it attached to her keys)
Her: umm I got it from student central.
Me: oh cool. Are they free or do you have to pay for them?
Her: they're free. (Smiles) It has like 8gbs.
Me: really?? Wow I need to get myself one. Do they still have them?
Her: I don't know lol. (Smiles)
Me: silence for another minute or so... So do you have class today?
Her: yeah, at like 4
Me: what do you study?
Her: civil engineering
Me: wow, cool I didn't know they had that here... (Stupid thing to say, we go to a technical school >.>)
Her: what do you study?
Me: business.
Her: *nods with a look of approval*.
Me: is engineering hard?
Her: no, not really
Me: there's a lot of math involved huh?
Her: nods head...
Me: have you failed any semesters lool (facepalm)
Her: ummm no.
Me: are you involved with the structural side of engineering or geotechnical or what (me trying to sound smart lol)
Her: structural.
Me: cool.
*silence for another couple minutes*
*she's on her phone for the next 4-5 minutes so I leave her alone and pretend to do work*
Her: (starts packing up her stuff)
Me: are you leaving?
Her: yeah, I have to do something for my assignment. She's packing up really slowly. She reaches for her water bottle and gives me a lingering look. I look at her but say nothing.
In my head I'm like "dude get her number! Or at least say bye ffs"...

Any way that was my first approach. I feel like it was kind of lame, didn't get much if a response from her.

What did I do wrong and what could I have said to male the exchange more interesting ??

Thanks

You said you are new and you didn't plan any of this, so you have to plan everything until you became natural. if you want to talk to her go and start conversation with her friends if there is no friends then you should talk to her not like start looking around and then go for the seat. You ask for the permission to sit that was not gud. But one thing you did good was saying failure thing but you can be more creative if you go for one girl everyday. Your confidence is very low, she looked at you when she leaving and you did ask for the number. So i think you get everything here again you can be more energetic and confident if you go for 1 girl everyday.

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Thanks I know I should've planned it maybe then I would've had a better result.
I do lack confidence which is something I need to work on... But how
thanks for your feedback

Confidence will come with practice!! Go in-front of mirror and start the conversation to your-self before going out to try your game. Study the material, learn from it. Most important thing is you know what went last time and you have to make sure it will not happen again.


--Philosopher

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your conversation was boring, bland, not memorable.
you just didn't make an impression on her. I bet she didn't remember you 30 seconds after.
Planning is your worst enemy, dont plan!!! just go up to her and say "hey, I noticed you were checking me out" and when she says no say "it's ok, you dont have to be embarrassed, I do that too" and ask for her name. Then rest will follow naturally.

not judging bro, I suck at conversations too.

I would have cut the bs and went direct. Too obvious since you mentioned there were free seats. AND way tooooo many questions. You can count them if you want...if there is more than 2-3...it's an interview. Still kudos on approaching anyhow. It can only go uphill from here.

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I personally go direct, but I don't think that was too bad at all and I'm willing to bet that she would of probably giving you the number if you would of asked for it. What you did was typical indirect stuff, not really my thing.. I aim to get the emotions involved as soon as possible, but the fact that she asked you what you were studying would immediately suggest that she found you somewhat attractive.

I say always go for the number, always.. Sometimes chicks get nervous and they don't know what to say either, so they reject us for fear of an award moment.

Give it another try and next time ask for the number.. Only good can come from it. You'll exhale and feel good whether she says yes or no.

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Going direct as an inexperienced guy, with limited social skills, is a one-way ticket to getting a reputation on campus as a creep.

If you're not used to randomly talking to girls, I'd suggest learning somewhere other than school. Especially for the first few dozen approaches.

It's not bad that you didn't get her number - she wasn't interested. And contrary to what Bart said, it's not because you need amazing PUA skillz. If a girl is going to date/hook up with you, pretty much all you need is competence. Handling the conversation really well, is not especially important.

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