Pretty sure we all have had them. The girl who one texts, the girls who who is too hot for school to give you the time of the day, or the girl who you messed up with and has turned from a green light to a yellow light.
In this post I mention the girl who i messed up with to Eddie.
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I have recently turned it around with that same girl who I messed up with a month ago and man...took awhile to get that yellow light to turn green. My advice to you guys still pursuing the woman who gives you trouble :better practice and reading up on game in the meantime because it will take some time. GAME OTHER CHICKS. Makes it easier while you're working your magic.
If you really want to go through the trouble of getting this one girl, you will need to be in tip top shape because I am pretty sure messing up the second time will be the last.
Maybe it's just me and my game but I JUST recently kiss closed this chick mentioned in the above post today. She has said "cheek only" the last two dates even thought I went for lips.
Mentally I was ready to tackle it again and I have been generating attraction since the messup to today, and it's only Saturday morning. I didn't take her shit. Don't run away from conflict and this results in attraction, women love drama. Remember this. I expect to go further with this girl in the coming weeks. I got this now.
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Same situation, didn't mess up but facebook # closed and been trying to get her to meetup. Once again, St Patties day weekend, did not expect this girl to be texting me of where her location might be. I have been working to getting through that little shield for weeks. I had my chance, went to the club she mentioned, I was a little late because I chose to get a quickie with a f buddy earlier on in the day. By the time I got there, she was already saucy and grinding on some dude and generating attention to herself while other dudes where surrounding her.
I was too sort of late, but maybe it was all in my head. I could have pulled but got in my head again...thinking is detrimental. I danced on the dancefloor (by the way I was alone, i got out of work that day and my friends were already exhausted from drinking earlier) with other girls because at that point, my game has been progressing and I didn't do any verbal asking and just grabbed one girl and started grinding on her.
My target soon leaves and I didn't even say hi. Now, same process I have to start over. Have to schedule another meet again.
Can you turn it around with a girl you screw up with or giving you trouble? Possibly. Except, it will take work and it is up to you to decide whether it is worth it. Personally, I like the challenge and it makes picking up other girls who are receptive a little easier. If you get the first date or any green, make sure to give it to her good. Because if you drop the ball...expect to get pushed back and start the progress over again.
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