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Common sense does not apply.
Common sense= her vibe, SPAM, attention of how she is feeling, does apply. Easier with experience, but most normal people, would be able to noitce unless they are psychopaths or have autism.
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Common sense would tell you to stop and issue an apology when the girl throws up any resistance.
^ this is not so, a lot of women will put tiny amounts of objections. i can be fingering a girl and she dripping wet and she could say "oh ah we sould not be doing this", guys that are good with women are good with subcommunication and go by "women actions" not by "women words" pay attention to what women do, not what what they say.
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I haven't had one get up and leave on me since I've learned proper escalation.
^ there is not such thing as proper escalation this is mental masturbation...There is such thing(which is what i teach) of getting compliance and investement while you are escalating. But there is not such thing as proper escalation.
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The leaving happened when I was just winging it.
The thing here is that guys are being taught to ignore resistance all together, and to escalate more drastically when the resistance comes as opposed to dialing it back a step.
not once have a read in my 5 years in the community ANYBODY, teaching this...
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Apparently skills has used this method. Using the cop-out that you will understand when you gain experience. So what about when a guy without experience like ruhri is in the learning process, or someone with even less experience than him?
That is what you wrote and understood far from what i suggested... I dare you to make a post here in a way of a survey and i want to see how many dudes EVER been accused of rape, dj z did it in another forum(were all the guys that get laid a lot usually hang out at)... i believe actually 0 guys were accused of rape (again guys that get laid a lot as oppose of keyboard warriors)
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They get taught to ignore resistance and push further. "It's only a shit test." They will blindly follow the advice taking it as truth from the gurus. Learning their lesson and gaining experience through a girl pressing charges. Like what happened to this guy.
Again i have never seen anybody teaching this.... If you read it in some type of feminist or sensaonalist blog (like Julien Blank edited story). That is a different issue.
Guys you can believe me or not, DO NOT WORRY ABOUT THIS SHIT! This is a buggy man like Iraq will invade usa with wmds....
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