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You make this sound as though the idea is to sit around and pray some girl comes to stand next to you.
That is the way you made it out or sounded it. Spamming is a miniscule way of saying approach every girl who turns you on. A better way of viewing spam cold approach is to think of the movie T2 with arnold carrying the chain gun and unloading.
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I believe in moving towards women. Getting her attention. Ensuring that she sees you, and gauging how she reacts to you.
That is why you approach bro.
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This is by far the best way to know how well the interaction is going to go. It's mostly an unconscious reaction. But that tells you how she's going to react, the entire night.
Again, very assumptive. Noticing a pattern here. Assumption on how she will react. Assume how a rsd boot camp or event will go. Worse, listen to what other people say of pu and group think? Reading social cues is one thing, picking up on body language is fine but, letting it excuse you from approaching or blaming logistics is weak.
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If she gives off bad signals, and you approach anyway, know what usually happens? She's initially polite, and if you're charming, she may indeed turn around. She decides she likes your company. But she still doesn't have sexual interest in you.
You place too much emphasis on what she thinks, does, feels. I do not. If you recall, I stated I do not care what people think. I do not go out of my way to hurt feelings or affect people negatively but, I am not micro managing feelings. In all do respect, your thinking is short sighted as you are missing the larger picture.
Her initial disinterested is irrelevant. You built social proof in the bar. You can do as Traveler suggested from RSD Alex and approach again later. Again, she has friends, sister, knows other girls, and now, you have got the ball rolling. Its something you should consider. Something else I have come across from PU is that, women have extremely declining SMV, and they know this on a subconscious level. Once it has manifested, she will sing you a different tune, and her being elusive tends to change. I am quick to point this out in a subtle way. Women have kids, put on weight, SMV drops, and now, she wants to play victim hood. It is absolutely disgusting.
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Even if she starts feeling some degree of attraction to you, her dinosaur brain is still where it was from the start. It doesn't like you. And it keeps nagging her the whole night saying "Not him! I feel uneasy!".
Again, too short sighted. I pulled doing that pinball method. Approach lots of girls. Interact, lots of push/pull. Lots of flirty teasing but, no heavy esculation. I bounce back and forth. I do like RSD Alex suggested, approach and re approach. Start new sets. Pawn old sets with chodes, introduce mixed sets, mix and match. Mix up isolation. Spread myself out.
Guess who pulled? One girl I wanted was drinking. If she has had more then three drinks, its off. I will take a number. I followed up and ended up taking a girl's hand, leading her to the dance floor, and then my front seat. She invited me in for "coffee," I agreed but, stated I had a early morning. I got naked and we fucked. I seen her a few times since. Nice girl. Real cute but, too much party for a old soul like me.
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That's where "LMR" comes from. Contrary to the community perception that it's worry over being perceived as a slut(by herself or by you), it's mostly that she is not sexually attracted to you on a primal level. You've gotten her logical mind on board. You're fun and cool and sexy! But that urge just isn't there. She isn't having to restrain her inner desire to fuck your brains out. No, she's having to actively try to get herself turned on.
Women today are more trashy now then in the past hundred or so years. We got phaggotry like KW marrying a woman who pimped herself out and prostituted her way into "stardom" for monetary gain. Yes, some women have anti-slut defense but, she is one girl meaning, this is a problem due to your not approaching or spam approaching enough girls. What you do in a week, I likely do in a night. I do not think of PU when out. I just talk to lots of girls, I flirt, and see who is my type, who I like, and have chemistry with. I even push some girls off and away, approach more girls, re approach again, and see who I want to leave with. Again, I am not great at ons but, when they come, its because of spam approaching.
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Not particularly. I don't meet all that many people that way. I meet a lot of new people, of both genders. And the way I prefer to do it, is to meet strangers, not going for SNLs, but literally networking and establishing connections. Yes, I target physically attractive women who look professional. But from there, I'm not even looking for SNLs.
We take different approaches but, even if you are not into rsd, I highly recommend listening to vids. take something, if anything at all. If a company can pimp individually and rake in over a million plus, they are doing something correct. Be with women who like you. You know that through trial and error. PU is messy. Its not suppose to be easy. It is hard work.
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I've always got two FWBs that have me totally fine in the sex category. I'm not looking for a new girl until one of current friends starts becoming stale. Then I already have a number of acquaintances to meet up with and get things rolling.
Again, we live by different approaches or methods. That is fine but, dismissing rsd or cold approach via spam is ridiculous.
As I stated, I pulled over the Holidays prior to Christmas, left to do more cold approach, spamming girl after girl, and then a after party with more girls. Even through spam approaching, you can go on a dry spell but, with your method, I assure you you enter dry spells more then someone that spams cold approach. I pull or have a fwb, I am banging the guns regardless and then some. FWBs are nice as is ons or a open relationship but, it does not last. Men are not antifragile. Women are as they are prone to having sex even if they are shitty people. They are prone to social assistance, child/spousal support, white knights/social justice warriors, and female privilege. Our society promotes YOLO. Pop bottles, be emotive rather then stoic. Spamming cold approaching and pin balling from girl to girl is stoic. It is hard work. It is time consuming. I will state again, PU as a system is not the most effective system.
If you take David Deangelo or Eben Pagen, real estate agent and business man; this guy did it correct in making loads of money. Millions of dollars were made because the man is a genius. If people spent 75% of there time obsessing over PU with something like real estate or business, they likely would be a lot closer to financial freedom then they are now.
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Most of the girls I meet, I don't try to sleep with. I get them in contact with business associates, I have them as a personal contact in their field. I invite them to do things with my friends.
Networking is fine but, we are talking cold approach. I am doing cold approaching to the point of spam. I have made contacts through cold approach but that is a bonus. Getting laid is the point. If you are not getting laid through what you are doing, it is not effective and should be discarded.
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I have a lot more potentially interested women, than I have time to date. When I was younger, I tried the idea of seeing 4-5 women and it's just insane. I didn't like it. 2-3 is best, and I really prefer just 2.
I do not limit myself with petty numbers like that. I had more then your largest number stated above over the holidays. Currently, I have less due to my hectic lifestyle, trade school, apprenticeship, business ventures, and a variety of other things.
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And because I have options and I know these women, I already know which ones have their shit together and will be compatible with me. That's something I can't even establish in a single night. Girls are different people from day to day and situation to situation. To have a good feel for her, I need to see at least several times in different contexts.
Which is why again, rsd gets shitted on but they have some of the more bad ass players on the forums like JMLUB/V with 200+ kills in a year, Ambiguity, Distantlight, Chinaboy, and so on. Users like Manwhore who make appearances at 21 Convention. Many of the users who are good were 1) natural 2) former assistant but, they approach lots of girls in areas like Vegas, LA, NYC, London, etc. where PU is huge but so is feminism jargon. It is not without consequences.
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I know you can say, "But V! You've only slept with about 60 women. That's like 5 per year!" Yes, it is. But I have the opportunity to easily quintuple this number. I don't personally want to do this, but other guys easily could. At which point you'd be looking at 25-30 lays per year, with very little effort and almost all of it as fun, positive, and building areas of your life outside of just sex.
Which is still a miniscule amount of women when compared to Zyzz or Yaboydave or Jmluv/Ambiguity/Distantlight etc. I do not agree with everything rsd does. I can say Alex and Julien are pimp from first hand experience. They are legit. Alex kind of seemed to brag a bit about having a company visa card in attempt to pull some girl back. It did not happen and what it taught me was that, sometimes, shit happens and it wont go down. Julien is just fucked. The guy eats, sleeps, and breathes game. Spits fire in his sleep and posts videos to create a dramatic response. He is the most known PUA on the planet and not liked but, he is among the most effective I have come to know.
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I talk to random women in the mall, in bars, at conventions, at churches, in the park, etc, etc. But I still follow the principal of getting a physical response from her before saying a word. %90 of women don't want to talk to me. That's cool. There are tens of thousands of other women in the city and certainly nine more in the general vicinity. Why would I even want to spend time chasing a woman who's not even interested in me?
Again, you are being assumptive. I would say the samething of myself. Even 10% may be a bit high but, through pure cold approach, spam girl after girl; that is a ridiculous conversion rate. 1/10 girls you pull? Even Julien was saying that is high. The emphasis of pulling 1 girl of every ten approaches is fucking ridiculous. The thing about approaching nonstop like firing a chain gun is that you ween away the bullshit. If I put my head on a pillow, I would pass out. I am tried.
There is a difference between chasing and approaching and chasing and re approaching. The difference is subtle. In many of cases, I approach, take a number, and do it just to do it. I am sharpening my social skills. I am moving into my prime SMV (sexual Market value) whereas, women are moving out of their SMV with each passing moment. Women 18+ are into older men. Women who are older are baron, lacking in feminine qualities, and expiring. Women hate it in hollywood but, the peak of SMV in females is youth.
EG K Stew banging a older married director > Chris "Thor" fucking Hemsworth.
Men need to wake up. I do not care about her disinterest in me or what people think. You called me a sociopath. I bet JMLUV is too. Ambiguity is a narcissist. Distantlight just seemed like a cool black kid with game and a awesome lifestyle.
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I'm only attracted to women who are attracted to me. If she isn't, I'm not even interested in her. I've never had to deal with unrequited love, and that's because of this reason. I don't want most women, and most women don't want me. That's cool. I'm selective and I expect the same out of any women I would be with. I'm screening for basic compatibility on a primal level. Nothing does that better than eye contact and body language.
That is fine man. To you, this is what you like but, you could definitely improve on SNLs or ONS. I know I sure could. If I was Julien's assistant for a couple months or a year, I would be looking like a Super Sayjin in the bars throwing fire balls and getting laid. My lifestyle does not permit such possibility of being a servant for a month or year unpaid. I want to buy more properties and expand a business. Cold approach will show me who is into me.
The problem with your method or my method in not getting consistent ONS is that, women who are attracted to a man will go home with him then. She makes men wait because of beta male shaming and the fact she fucks psychos, sociopaths, the Julien Blancs and the JMLUVs. Men that fuck with her self esteem and psychology.
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Have you ever read Blink from Malcom Gladwell?
No. I have not. I am looking over A brief History of Time by Stephen Hawking and glancing over 3% by Corey Wayne. I think he is beta but, like Doc Love's the System, I am compelled to see what is there.