If I see the girl more than once....boom, they start asking the "are you seeing other people", "why can't you just see me", "are you bored with me", and this is usually dating the girl for a 1month. I think it has to do with seeing these girl two times a week. I read that somewhere that is a considered alot...especially for a guy who is busy. It is just hard not seeing some of them just once a week. I like certain girls more than others. Like i am playing favorites, but I know if I cave in now and get into some exclusive thing, then it will evaporate as quickly as it came. So, I will try to evade it..


Today i got a phone call from one of my chicks, "I feel like it is respectful to answer in a yes or a no blah blah"

She asked how many girls I was seeing and I was like one for everyday and I sometimes get the mom in on the action yadda yadda", which got her upset but I took the risk and changed the subject as to when I will see her again, when she is free.

Oh and get this....she was like "I know you are fucking other chicks, i don't think we should have sex anymore or any of this penis to mouth action"



I just laughed said okay. (probably should have changed the subject)?

She dropped the subject eventually, and offered me Thursday or Saturday

I don't know...I am getting this abundance mentality thing down still.



is this scenario what I am supposed to get used to? If so, fine, I'll just have a go to phrase

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I do twice a week. I don't usually have this problem. The reason, (I think), is because I make sure the girl knows that I really like her, but I am simply not interested in being her boyfriend, period. Ever.

An awful lot of her being upset about you seeing other girls, is because it makes her feel like you don't actually care about her. If she feels loved, the other girls don't seem to be much of an issue.

I've found that only seeing her once a week, very often leads to her moving on quickly and getting a boyfriend.

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when I'm with my girls I make sure they have the time of their life...so I don't know...maybe it's a natura response or a conditioned response for a woman to seek to tie a man down. And the once a week thing doesn't ncessairly guarantee the girl moves on. I haven't seen one girl I have games for two weeks and today she just asked me when I will see her again...

I don't know, nothing's too linear in the game of love

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The timing plays a factor, but also the type of girl she is. Honestly two women can think about relationships differently, you can't generalize them all, but break them down into two categories. The "monogamous loyal" types, and the "many guy friend trashy club hopping" type. The problem becomes when the "many guy friend trashy club hopping" type pretends to be the monogamous type. Of she starts actually trying to be one (they can change).

The women become attached and try to ultimatum you into a relationship. This will happen over time regardless of which type she is simply because you are better and different than all of the other guys in her life so she wants you to herself, and gets jealous and insecure. It happens every time, regardless if I see them once a week or once a month. Things all of a sudden keep turning to that conversation, and when I avoid or sidestep the conversation she starts to act up. Withdrawing sex, and starting arguments over nothing. Getting disrespectful and throwing challenge tests my way. Honestly, from my experience you can only string the "many guy friend trashy club hopping" types for so long. They will act up because they aren't used to being treated like that. When the chaos starts you can't stop it so I just next them. They aren't loyal to begin with anyway.

You can sting the monogamous type along indefinitely as long as she thinks there is some hope because she is loyal. She may keep bringing it up, and honesty is the best policy. I usually say something like: "Yeah I love spending time with you. Right now I'm not at a point in my life where I want to put labels on my relationships. You are a really cool friend and I would hate to ruin things." Just variations of that every time the subject arises. She won't act a fool like the other girl, and it's a great way to screen out the women who pretend to be the monogamous types.

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Dude.. Its still only the beginning so prepare yourself.

Guys things that getting successful with women is 100% positive, but its not. It definitely has its downsides and you're beginning to become aware of that very thing.

Crazy girls.
Breaking heart,
let downs,
stalkers
and so on..

This isn't all fun and games man.. Its really something to be careful with. Who would of ever thought that getting great with women could also be a burden.

This is why I always advise straight up honesty always. It saves you a bit of guilt during the times when you have to let a couple women go. Its like you meet 2-3 girls you REALLY like, but they are quickly pushed out by the new women that come into your life. This is why me and my girl has set up that situation in which we talking about having another girl be apart of the relationship (which you hated me for back in the day lol).

But yeah man.. That talks come faster and faster the more attractive you become so just be ready.

I'm really glad to see you making the turn around though.. Do you still think about your ex? Or is she completely forgotten about?

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Yeah, I think I just thought my life would be full of beautiful women and good times. But there have certainly been bumps. And back then I was going on what I thought society wanted me to think. I'm not at that skill level where I can bring up the another girl to someone I like. Because I don't know how I would go about it. I do think about her from time to time. But her flaws have become so apparent that I am starting to get annoyed with her. It's not a relationship that will work out right now. Right now we both aren't on the same page and if by some miracle we get back together there's a shit ton of work to go through. So for now I'll stick with the single life...but it's so different now. I am developing my skills so I am starting to see things in a new light.

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