So got the friend request from a really cute girl, and we have 40 mutual friends. Never met her...at least don't think we've met.
I accepted it obviously. This was a couple of hours ago. She hasn't messaged me yet. I want her to msg me first but wanna get the ball rolling here already.
What's a good opener? I'm thinkin gotta keep it a bit on the cocky side.
Something like "so you planning on introducing yourself anytime soon? "
Something like that. What you guys think?

actually that's pretty fine to me...then again I can be playful. Either that or I have used the "so I tend to know everyone on my friends list..and you're new so I thought id introduce myself"...but that's me. What you said must be fine for you...fits your personality.

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She added you.

Why say anything? Let her keep chasing. Come from a "boss" frame of mind. "Who the fuck are you?" (don't actually say that... but think like that.)

Stop thinking so hard about it.

Yeah...I see what you're saying...but for instance my last girlfriend...she added me...never spoke to me...then I ran into her on campus...I thought (this was two years ago, wasn't as skilled as now a.k.a. mini beta) she would spark a conversation but she didn't. Next thing I know...she deleted me on Facebook after that...but later added me a few days later. Then I sent her messages and next thing you know...months pass..we eventually become fuck buddies and then relationship...etc. There's a point where you can meet the girl halfway... in my opinion.

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Yeah I don't see the purpose in waiting for nothing to happen. In this case, because of both 2 things: she is a stranger and she gave you a possible sign of attraction, as the guy you ought to make the first move.