Hey, guys. I was out with a girl, started introducing sex in the conversation and she ended up talking about ex-boyfriends and said I would be schocked by the number. I asked how many, she said 17 in total. Quote: "I didn't fuck 17 guys, I mean in total, boyfriends, fwb's, guys I made out with". How much is that for a 23 year old girl? Thanks.

It isn't actually that much for a girl, especially if she's attractive and requested... I know girls who are 18-19 and had more than 17 guys...

You're projecting your own insecurities.

I don't know where you are from, but 17 guys for a 23 year old women is not a lot in my subjective opinion. This one girl I hooked up with told me that I was number 85.

Who cares? - let people do what they want to do otherwise you're just supporting social conditioning and add to the reason why so many guys struggle with women by making girls feel like sluts which causes more ASD.

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... I bet it's not 17.

You had a negative reaction, and she backtracked explaining it was makeouts, boyfriends, etc... I would think the number might be higher... but who knows?!

But no, it's not super high.

Girls like sex. Shocking, I know.

17 guys seems pretty normal

I think theres a period in some peoples lives were they rack up the numbers(young,wild and free)

I personally racked up numbers, realized it wasnt fullfilling

Now im selective of the women i date and i work more on relationships/quality

I feel girls might be the same in that sense?

Some people realize what they want early on and dont have many partners/ others have diffrent situations

But i dont think anyone should be judged by the number of partners they've had, unless is an extremely high amount(then it seems like a problem)
or an extremely low amount(thats sad)

I think the avarage person is pretty balanced/i recommend balance

I've personally been on the extreme ends/ low and high

Now i keep balance.

Would never tell a girl how many women i been with, is just pointless/ the past is the past

This very moment and my future actions are what will truly define me.

And i would never ask a girl how many guys she's been with, In the moment im the only guy she's with so is irrelevant.

If you're with her for the right reasons, none of it matters

Because you're a giver not a taker right?

A great man who slept with with thousands of women once said, "I much rather sleep with the woman i love a thousand diffrent ways" - (his last name is chamberlain, forgot his first name, he was a pro basketball player)

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^this, and please op multiply 17 times 2 or 3 it would be actually closer to the real number...

to op i sense a heavy dose of madonna whore complex on your part, read up on the secret society...


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I've run into an 18 years old that had slept with about 20 guys. 9 of them was within the firs 3 months of college. But then again next time, avoid asking or answering such question. You're not gaining anything out of it. There is no way you'd know if she's lying or not. Neither would she if you're lying. Also any number given out will come with a judgment and affect the flow of your game. So just change topic. Or give vague or cocky/funny answer.

If she volunteers that information, cut her off. Tell her it doesn't matter as long as she knows what she is doing. That would put you in a higher position than her.

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So, let's say she became sexually active at 15. That would be 8 years ago.
17/8 = 2.1

So 2 guys per year.

Such a whore.

Personally, I will only sleep with a women who has had -3 partners per year.

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This is why you don't ask these stupid fucking questions. You asked a shitty question, she gives what sounds like an honest answer and you get insecure, hopefully it's lesson learned....

I went through that when in my 20s ya know just in case I wanted the ho to be a house wife. Remember this pus info has been out for 10 years+ so ya gonna meet some wife material that has been a notch on someone's belt. An older dude taught me "you can't miss what you can't measure." Move on and try to get over it. Every easy lady I have known over the years...all are married!!

Assuming she became sexually active at age 16, that is 2.5 guys per year.
I wouldn't consider you promiscuous if you had sex with less than 3 girls a year.

Lol i hope i run into this girl on an off night. These are the most fun.
And may i add, is funny how guys have double standards, like a guy who sleeps with 100 girls a year is looked high upon by other men, like congrats bro you are awsome !

But if a girl fucks 100 guys a year, shes a slut, a whore !!!

As a man who's had his fair share of women, to say the least, i completely droped the double standard shit, i automatically assume the girl fucked as many guys as i fucked girls (impossible)

Which then clears all bad judgement.

Most girls dont fuck that many guys, seriously.

But most guys would jump at the chance of fucking 100 girls.

My advice
Become a sex worthy man
Drop the double standards
Love all women
Don't Judge
Enjoy life
No one gets out alive
oh... and Wear a condom :p


Seek first to understand then to be understood

oh and may i add
The more guys a girl has been with, the better she probably is during sex, THUMBS UP FOR DAT !
Nothing beats mindblowing sex.

Now if you're looking for a housewife, thats another story.
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I assume most girls have slept with at least a dozen guys by 23. 17 guys doesn't seem that crazy to me.

Of course, most lie about it. I had a girl that I slept with almost immediately tell me that she had only slept with 6 guys.

Doubtful.

Only 17?

Psh. What a prude.

More girls need to learn how to enjoy being single. Way too many women having sex only with boyfriends just so people don't think of them as sluts. So tragic.