you shouldn't gave her def answer, by the way she didn't even ask you directly hey dude when we are going to make our first child? She was testing you by making up some bs about dream. You could just smile, or commented it something like "you have romantic dreams" or something else and actually used it to fuck her at least.

I wanted to be in a relationship! Not hit it & quit it.

People in relationships have sex too you know...

Not every type of sexual act is a one night stand.

There is no helping you, you don't listen to us, you will only listen if we tell you what you want to hear. You're in the wrong place.

I still think you should treat yourself to a sexy escort that IS your type. That would be a good start.

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relationship is the next level after sex. So if you are not fucking her, no way you will get relationship. You can't build the third floor without building a second floor.

Your budding relationship? Dude she is swallowing some guys load as we speak. Move on Brah. Life is tough, women are cunts, do your thing my man. Go get some new fresh vagina. They are turning 18 everyday!

Nooooo, don't get needy. It's going to destroy you. Find another woman

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I second this^ I've learned my lesson being this dude and it's no position put your self in mentally.

I guess a better title for this thread now would be "How do I get over her permanently"? Everyday I'm reminded of her beauty, the times we shared, her level of affection for me and how I blew it ever since late May. It makes me feel like I'm in a nightmare for ruining seemingly the only shot I had at finding a girlfriend I'm fond of(happiness). I have money, I have other(less attractive) women clamoring over me, and good looks but I'd trade it all and every last dime I had to be with her again. I wish she would of been a bitch and just blew me off for no good reason.. I'm not an angry person, I would of gotten over it. Knowing that it's MY fault 110% gives me such a painful feeling of regret I've never experienced, and don't want to live with. Now she won't even respond to my text, but at least I can send them so she hasn't blocked my number. I try to contemplate ways I can break up there relationship by exploiting insecurities or weaknesses but it's difficult without insider info. This guy she's dating now plays in a band, so he's probably got the whole "rocker" type, if only I could get him to flirt with other women or something! But I KNOW I'd be better off just moving on but I don't know how. Despite my efforts it's proving incredibly difficult to pick up women in person and after four years of POF (where I met her) it's just beginning to feel like work at this point.

that's the lesson I learned, never take woman seriously until you fuck her. Before you fuck her, she can start to ignore you any moment. You might say something wrong or some other guy fucked her before you did. So don't go on 6 dates without sex

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that's the lesson I learned, never take woman seriously until you fuck her. Before you fuck her, she can start to ignore you any moment. You might say something wrong or some other guy fucked her before you did. So don't go on 6 dates without sex[/quote]

Amen to that. One week I'd wake up to text of "Just wanted to say good morning to theee most amazing man in the world" or get text like "I'm so lucky, I don't know why you're talking to me". Hell I used to work till 4am on night shift and she'd work till 11:30 and she'd stay up to talk to me when I got off. Then next week I'd get hit with the cold shoulder.

Dude C'mon man. Why would you wanna fuck the other guy over for your benefit. You know how many women are out there. Dude I was in you situation except I was having sex with her. I actually thought she might be a solid chick. I met her friends and at the end she was moving to fast. Started ignoring me and told me she was seeing someone else. Just move on dude. Yeah it sucks but if you can mentally block it out your head you will thrive. Focus on becoming a better you and being alone for a bit even. If your comfortable by yourself and then start meeting women it's so much better. Never let down your guard for the puss man. Plenty of other girls out there. Sometimes you only get one shot with some of them. Just take this experience snowball it with all the others and move on and meet other women. It'll make you stronger trust me and everyone else in this thread telling you.