I mean the hard to get kind, when they're flirty and sexual, then go ahead and start ignoring you. If someone reacts in anger, the person doing will take it as a sign that it's making you weak, and that will be rewarding them for doing it. What's the best way to handle that behavior? Just ignoring back and forcing them to break the trend? Let them see you being social or flirting with other girls? So what's the best way to handle something like that, that demonstrates that you're mature, and indirectly lets them know you don't NEED them?

I've been there many times too. I also need advice on this but I think that the issue here might be the approach is way too direct and this makes the girls feel uncomfortable.

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Everything that comes, comes to pass. Good and bad are both in constant transition, and complaining about one is about as pointless as boasting about the other.

The girl is clearly the introverted type, but still, being an invtrovert is no excuse to ignore guys just to flirt later on. I'm thinking I should just ignore back, but if I ignore too strongly or awkwardly, it will look like I'm making an effort.

The most common reason why girls ignore you is that they think you have low value, either because you are trying too hard, being too obvious, too boring or something like that. All these have the same thing in common - your mindset. You have a frame of wanting. You want her, and that's why she has power over you by ignoring you, making you wonder what you need to do to get her, trying "harder" in some sense.

Pickup is actually a game of power. Good game is about giving and offering value, making girls want you and chase you. So you need to turn the tables. Try less, go out and just have fun, have your own party. Make people want to be part of that party, share the fun. One way to get into that mindset is by quitting pickup, and go out just for the fun of it. No goals in mind, no outcome dependence, no trying. The only thing you need to do is to be social and open, let people in.

A more specific advice, if you find yourself in that situation that someone is ignoring you... If you have trained your brain and RAS (reticular activation system) to focus on positive things, such girls will immediately fade out from you consciousness and focus on other, more fun people. It doesn't only make you happier in the moment, more fun and "value giving", but also takes the power from the girl since you are ignoring her as well, and gives you social proof from other people in the venue. So if you still want that girl, she will probably come begging to be with you after a while since she has no fun on her own. There is still a possibility that she is a negative person who will sit there the rest of the night being grouchy, thinking everything sucks and then leave. If that happens you can be glad that you didn't waste time on her.

To sum it all up, just ignore her and focus on something else, something funnier.

If you're being ignored: Have some sense of self worth. Just go find another girl who won't ignore you.

Jealousy is a way better weapon than the silent SPAM anyway.

I never quite understood why men want to learn to how to treat a problem instead of treating why the situation is happening in the first place.

Its like a kid that wants to start smoking cigarettes asking " How do I deal with lung cancer once it develops" - why not just put down the cigarettes which will stop any cancer before it develops? hm..

If you're being ignored its a clear sign that you're not being seen as valuable and thus you aren't worth a woman full attention in her mind. But of course you are, because you're a man and will always be higher on the social ladder so long as you know your worth. You use your charm, successful, and charisma to get into the best clubs despite what you look like; they use their beauty which was given to them at birth.

So what you really have to do is to cultivate the proper mentality so that you communicate from that higher place when you are talking to women. It all starts from the inside. Learning to deal with rejection helps, affirmation helps, and so does positive self talk. It may be difficult to understand, but a woman can only ignore you if you allow her to in your spirit. If you tolerate it...she knows she can ignore you and you will STILL Want her (from an energy point of view) anyway she will ignore you because there is no consequence. When you learn to stop tolerating behavior internally meaning you know in your heart that she will never get another chance with if she displays behavior you feel is unforgivable she will not do it.

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